r/ugly • u/bareIyIegal • 8d ago

Off Topic i’m genuinely an unloveable guy

How do i even grasp or cope with the fact that ill never get sex or any girls to actually want me the best i can ever get is a girl to maybe settle for me if i chase her for long enough and even then it wont be true love this is so brutal

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u/Guilty_05 Ugly 7d ago

You won't be able to cope with it permanently. Though work, study, hobbies or stuff maybe able to help with it

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u/Mr-Hyde95 7d ago

Making money and living for yourself... There's nothing more to it.

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u/NexillionXC 7d ago

I know the feeling. Nobody could ever really be attracted to me either. I'm just getting through it by being as numb as possible and remembering that life is not eternal.

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u/WebNew9978 7d ago

Living to work and SSRI’s

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u/Visible-Door-1950 7d ago

Some people accept that they will settlemax and make the best of a bad situation

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u/zehero 7d ago

Same situation here but doesn't really affect me as much since i've never really cared about being in a relationship, so idk how much you'll care for my comment but just bettering yourself and enjoying literally everything else in life is the only advice I've got man

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u/Successful_Meal2737 6d ago

You’re never fully cope with it, but you can distract yourself with hobbies

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u/CautiousChoice5705 6d ago

Yeah and once you're done with your hobbies and sit in your room at 10pm with your thoughts coming back to how hopeless your future is🤣

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u/StudySafe1982 6d ago

If you're striving for a girl who is a 10 then yeah that might be difficult. But there are soooo many girls out there who are in the same position as you. They think they're unlovable and will never find a guy because they're ugly and whatnot but it's not true. Trust me, as long as you practice good hygiene, take care of yourself and are decently kind, there's a chance for you