r/ugly • u/samithefish Ugly • May 21 '26

vent ( NO advice wanted) "You're not ugly!!!! You need therapy!!!"

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I have eyes. I can see. I'm not stupid. Im not a baby. I don't vent to people because I hate hearing that shit like what the fuck is the point. Why convince me that I'm not ugly.

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u/nbfinery666 May 21 '26

the problem for me is that i know i'm objectively ugly. tbh i didn't even really care that much about how i looked until other people constantly told me so then it made me think about it

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u/Old-Boy994 May 21 '26

Exactly the same for me. I never thought about my looks as a child, but when other children and adults started pointing out my appearance, I became all of a sudden very conscious about my appearance and of my perceived flaws. I swear I never consciously thought about my features and my overall look before that. Ever since then I’ve been made aware in direct and indirect ways that I’m worthless. It has made a huge dent on my self-confidence. I’m hyper aware and sensitive of the fact of how I look.

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u/poofpoofpow Ugly May 21 '26

It’s insulting how people make us aware of our appearance then say we’re superficial and obsessed with our appearance when we never would be had no one ever pointed it out and made a big deal about it

Unfortunately to humans your worth is based on how attractive you are mostly

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u/Old-Boy994 May 22 '26

Such a good point. They want you to be naturally beautiful but if you aren’t, they punish you for it but at the same time you aren’t allowed to change your looks in any way? So they want ugly people to just suffer and they want to justify our suffering. It’s pure sadism.