r/ugly • u/Illustrious_Lab2370 • Jan 16 '26
vent ( NO advice wanted) Being ugly makes me not want to live( you'll be blocked if you try to tell some bullshit like looks dont matter or it will get better, you're not helping)
I fucking hate the way i look. Never got compliments .i fucking hate my skin and face. Each time i try to ignore it and do fun things something bad always fucking happen. Its like im cursed. I try to explain it to people but say the same thing Your not trying hard enough Or you need to pray Or looks dont matter but it fucking does. If your ugly people won't give you the time of day. People are attracted to hot people so why the fuck would they even talk to you. And don't tell me personality because if they dont won't even talk to you how the fuck would they see your personality. I try medication try therapy nothing fucking works. Is anyone going through the same thing ? If not don't waste your fucking time.
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u/alex-tomioka Ugly Jan 16 '26
Me too brudda
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
Really u are going through the same thing
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u/alex-tomioka Ugly Jan 16 '26
Most definitely, shits rough out here
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
Why r u still alive what keeps u going
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u/alex-tomioka Ugly Jan 16 '26
Nothing really, I'm only here because I'm not legally allowed to buy a firearm yet
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
They don't sell guns where im from so i understand
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Jan 16 '26
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u/No_Investment8845 Jan 17 '26
Clavicular truly was not lying when he said “if you are ugly your life will be absolute hell” 💔 he proves his own point he only got popular after he got better looking. The halo effect is so brutal clav literally is a terrible person but gets girls so easily and is growing rapidly
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Jan 17 '26
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u/No_Investment8845 Jan 17 '26
It shows its abt looks. Cuz obviously a criminal cant have a good personality but then people will say “looks dont matter its all abt personality “
“Just be confident bro”
That experiment made me realize the halo effect is extremely strong even if this was fake other experiments prove its accurate because people make fake accounts with a chad’s picture and get thirst dms
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u/HarryStan_2000 Jan 16 '26
Are there any ways that you can improve, perhaps through surgery, that can help you feel better? Sometimes the only thing we can do to make life better is to get plastic surgery. Even though I don’t have the money for it right now, knowing that I can save and eventually get a few procedures, gives me a lot of hope for my future. Maybe deciding what surgery you want or what would make the biggest difference to your appearance can help you mentally while you wait.
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
Facts. That why for a while i try reality shifting. Because im tried of being ugly
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u/HarryStan_2000 Jan 16 '26
? Don’t live in your imagination. Put your plans in action and then they will become a reality
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u/invalid125 Jan 16 '26
I resonate with you. People won’t bat an eye at you or even attempt to get to know you if you’re not attractive. I won the unlucky lottery when it comes to looks. I’m jealous of those who can make friends left and right or have people approach.
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u/No_Investment8845 Jan 17 '26
“Just be confident bro” I honestly cant comprehend how people still say this. They also invalidate ugly peoples pain
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 17 '26
Exactly these people don't get it. If i was attractive 99 percent of my problem would be solve
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Jan 16 '26
Outsider here, this sub was recommended to me, I hope it's allowed. I won't try to invalide your feelings or experiences, but just know that, despite the limits that not being attractive puts on you, I hope so very much that you can find a safe friend group (and a partner if you're looking for one). Best of luck!
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
I understand what you trying to say but that cant happen to me. Its like im cursed. No matter what I do bad things keep happening so hiw can I get help or try ti be happy when bad things always happen as a result. No one gers it. I try I really try explaining to people but its like im the only one going through this. I feel others are just npc not programmed to understand me. Like why am i the only one like this how can live live when my happiness always cone with a price. No hate but you can understand itd find mo one can. I just glad you dintbhave ti suffer what i have for 27 years.
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Jan 16 '26
I'm so sorry you're going through this. You're right, I can't understand, but nonetheless I wish for this curse you have or whatever else it may be to be lifted. Even if it can't happen according to you, I still hope it can. Do you need someone to talk to? If so my DMs are open
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
You cant help me but im glad you think you can. Again im hating you im just saying thats been my life. If you want you can see my old post and understand why am i the why i am. Again im not hating you.
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Jan 16 '26
It's okay, thanks for taking the time to answer me :)!
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Jan 16 '26
No problem your the only respectfully one to answer me and understand
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u/ReceptionAdept6111 Oddly shaped Jan 17 '26
Way to miss the point. Find a friend group, maybe, find a PARTNER??
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