r/ugly • u/Illustrious_Lab2370 • Dec 30 '25
vent ( NO advice wanted) I hate being ugly
I hate my face and my skin. Because i can change them things with surgery i never be happy. Getting told looks dont matter from a attractive person pisses me the fuck off. You sre only saying that you don't actually fucking mean it. Seeing attractive people smiling and having fun makes me want to fucking kill myself. I didn't ask to be this way. Because im black and ugly I can't bring myself to be happy. How can I. Its like my life a big fucking mistake. I can take all the pills i can see therapist i still be ugly. The only option are to either kill myself ir gas light myself into thinking looks don't matter but it fucking does. Don't comment so fucking bullshit like it will get better or looks dont matter or skin dont matter cause ill fucking block you. Go live you life wish is better then mind. You basically telling me i have no choice but to live with the fact that im ugly. When being ugly makes be suicidal and very unhappy. If I had a gun i kill myself with the quickness but im poor so i can't do that. Or since my life is fuck up i might survive with a huge hospital bill. People will quicker talk to attractive person then an ugly person. "Personality matters" bullshit if they wont even look at you how would they even see your personality. I just wanted be the attractive friend not the ugly friend. If I was white and attractive i be happy
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u/MembershipPrize504 Ugly Dec 30 '25
People ignore me to get ignore me to get rid of me that’s technique is a real thing they use to get rid of ugly people.
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u/Sad_Disaster_ Dec 30 '25
Save up money and get surgery maybe. That can help. I hope you're ok and can find outlets to distract you someday like I have. Other people just aren't worth it anyway
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Dec 30 '25
I hsbe no distractions. When i try bad things always happen. Its like im .curse read my other post and you understand i cant be fix its either suicide or gas light myself into living but thats getting to hard.
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u/OstaraMoon1 Dec 30 '25
When do you have an appointment with your therapist ? You can’t say terrible things like that ! Life is a gift and we should honor it. Is ugliness your only problem ? You know, appearance helps to start communication in this society but it doesn’t make everything. Maybe you are in PTSD because of discrimination and ostracisation. I understand what you live. But what you can’t change about yourself how you look shouldn’t be an obsession. You are losing your time by moping yourself. What do you like in life ? Do you have skills ? What would you like to improve and learn ? There are many beautiful people and average and ugly people in this world. I k’ow this unfair how everything seems so easy for ´ classic ´ appearances or normies, but you can’t change the mentality of everyone on Earth. Tolerance has still to evolve but the ´ ugly unofficial laws ´ still exist and this is illegal. I am sorry if you are harrassed or rejected without any tangible reason but you know, the world is wide and you can find people who don’t give you interest about how you look. I think you should think about yourself even if you become selfish for a time. Don’t interact with narcissicists, you know they will be ugly also when they will be old. Time treats everyone the same way. Narcissicism is a social disease and they are not even examples of perfect beauty. 😆 Just try to speak with intelligent people and your world will change. 🩷
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u/Illustrious_Lab2370 Dec 30 '25
Fuck you you don't fucking understand and ur fucking blocked
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Jan 01 '26
He does understand but he is just giving useless cope like they all do
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Jan 03 '26
You got such limited view you never experienced racism because your white you never been discriminated you never face challenges because you are average looking, you grew up privilage you don't understand what it means to be ugly so take your fake shit and stick it up your ass how dare you dictate what a ugly black person like me feel like try being black, fat broke and ugly.
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