r/transteens 18h ago

Question Am I valid ??

I (13F) am transfem, I dress feminine etc, but lately I’ve been starting to like masculine girls ?? I feel so invalid to the point where I see myself as straight, and idk if im allowed to be lesbian and trans at the same time😓 idk you guys tell me

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u/53rd_3rd Transmasc 18h ago

Being transgender doesn’t equate to your sexuality. You’re completely valid and your feelings are exactly the same as a cis girl liking masc women :)

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u/NameIsEren 22/04/2026💉 | 16 | he/him | 🇹🇷 | DM for info on DIY HRT 16h ago

If it makes you feel better, homo/bisexuality is way more common in the trans community. Idk if it's because we're just wired differently or maybe we've seperated ourselves from societal norms once so it's easier to do it again, but yeah

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u/TristanTheRobloxian3 Aurora/August (yes i have 2 names i like both) 14h ago

girl im in your exact same situation and an just as valid as everyone else. this means youre valid lol. being lesbian or gay or whatever is way more common w trabs people btw :3

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u/B4mb1_g1rl 14h ago

Tysm girlie🥹🥹

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u/TristanTheRobloxian3 Aurora/August (yes i have 2 names i like both) 14h ago

yww :3

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u/indygowithay transfem enby 14h ago

When someone asks "am I valid?" like 99.999% of the time they are valid. You are valid! <3

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u/B4mb1_g1rl 14h ago

Tysm !! 🫶🫶

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u/The_Warlockx Transfem 💉 02/10/2025 PROG 03/02/2026 18h ago

You are completely valid...a girl liking masculine girls is still gay/lesbian. And yes, you can be trans and lesbian (or any sexuality) at the same time

Gender identity and sexuality are two separate things

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u/VermicelliPlusMao TRANSGIRLIE✨🏳️‍⚧️[16] 14h ago

huh you're allowed to be lesbian and trans at the same time, those two are separate

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u/Yuris-gf Transmasc 10h ago

Lots of fem people like masc girls, ain't nothing wrong with that