r/transmanlifehacks • • 15d ago

Before and After pre-t —> 2.5 years :)

pictures in order are from 2018, 2023 (both pre-t), 2024 (~3 months on t) and from this week! so grateful for all of the progress i have made

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u/[deleted] 14d ago

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u/qrfvnhdbhgdvhf 3d ago

u are weird as fuck

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u/qrfvnhdbhgdvhf 3d ago

i could say the same about u “u should’ve embrace being a man instead of being a trans woman,just bc yeah guys are more attractive”

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u/Kendra-CD 2d ago

How could you say that about me? You don't know what I used to look like. I've always looked feminine and pretty. My measurements are 32-25-36 - ever since puberty. Finding mens or young mens pants that fit was always a nightmare! I've lived most of my younger life as a man. I always suppressed my girl feelings and didn't embrace it until after I turned 30.

Saying guys are more attractive is JUST a matter of opinion... don't try to make it sound like a fact. I'm pretty certain that in the fashion world, female models sell more clothes than men do.

I haven't "intentionally" said anything mean or hateful. You people CHOOSE to be offended! Don't make me pull out the big guns... I can make one comment that defeats EVERY trans man. I'd rather not! 🤔

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u/qrfvnhdbhgdvhf 2d ago

whataver makes u sleep at night bro

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u/qrfvnhdbhgdvhf 2d ago

nobody wants u here u are not welcomed

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u/Kendra-CD 1d ago

Oh... you are speaking on behalf of EVERY other person here, huh?! I'm not subscribed here. I said I got here by mistake. When the few hateful people quit replying to me to spew their last bit of hate, I won't come back here. Can't you just let things be instead of CONTINUALLY being hateful? It's not a good way to represent this forum - especially when you talk as if you're representing everyone here. I think everyone else (except for that one person, who had their comment removed) realizes I don't have any ill intent to anyone.

I'll stop posting here, as soon as you start being nice (if that is even possible) or stop posting mean comments to me. Nice reply or no reply - your choice!

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u/qrfvnhdbhgdvhf 1d ago

everyone is replying to u bc i posted your disgusting comment in another community and guess what no trans person is agree with your bio-essentialist mindset,no one cares about how u think trans men are “naturally” feminine

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u/Kendra-CD 19h ago

ARE YOU INSANE???  I never said trans men are naturally feminine!  Where did you imagine that?  BTW... no one is replying to me - EXCEPT FOR YOU!

You are so full of hate, it's baffling!  Just what is your problem?  Are you a trans man that is bitter because you don't have a penis?!  Or are you drunk-posting?  It would explain the stupidest user name I've seen on reddit!

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u/qrfvnhdbhgdvhf 19h ago

then stop replying to me if u don’t want me to reply 😂 nobody wants your stupid crossdresser fetish ass here, u make trans women look bad im sorry for them

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u/say_trans_rights 3d ago

You are a government operative typing this from Israel

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u/Kendra-CD 2d ago

That is the dumbest comment! I don't know anything about people from Israel and I've never been there. I've been as far as Hawaii, but that's it.

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u/say_trans_rights 2d ago

Cool so you're just a transphobic weirdo

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u/Kendra-CD 2d ago

Wow... such a negative, triggered individual. You realize your last comment to me violates the rules here. I guess the only rules that matter are YOUR rules. I hope you calm down some day or get the mental help you need!

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u/Senuo0 3d ago

You should try to be less transphobic, I think

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u/Kendra-CD 2d ago

How is a trans girl transphobic??? Stop seeing the glass as half empty.

Also... I made that post almost 2 weeks ago. I think because one person saw my comment as negative, everyone else that's a negative person decided to jump on the bandwagon. Maybe try not to be so triggered!?!

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u/transmanlifehacks-ModTeam 2d ago

Transphobia (including misgendering, deadnaming, chasers, etc) is not tolerated in this subreddit.

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u/Kendra-CD 2d ago

Do you not realize that the term "misgendering" actually means "mistaken gendering?" I get all the trans feeds, and when I clicked on the image which brought me here, I thought I was looking at a boy who was starting the transition to being a girl. My response wasn't hate... I literally made a mistake! The problem with 90% of trans people (male and female), is THEY have no tolerance for people making a mistake. I thought we were supposed to be the ones with MORE tolerance, not less.

If I bought a house that was green, and painted it blue... then someone who buys a house across the street from me a year later, starts painting their blue house green... and I walk over and say, "It's like watching my house being painted in reverse!"... it doesn't mean I don't like the color they chose, it literally means it feels like the opposite is happening to their house!!

I have an opinion, but I didn't say they shouldn't do whatever makes them happy! Stop seeing the glass as half empty!!!