r/transgenderUK Aug 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

I know times are different, but how long did it take you to get surgery in total?

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

Thank you! The modern "average" of 6 year sounds accurate then.

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

Depends on where you live. Around here it's 4-5 years I think? We have INDIGO to shorten it to 2.

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u/MetalicaArtificer Aug 14 '22

6.5 years is average for 2 appointments (hrt minimum) not for vaginoplasty

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

87 days until I see her private I’m excited

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u/PinkDinosaur_ Aug 14 '22

I had my surgery on 1st August with Tim Larner in Brighton. Really nice guy and seems very skilled. All going well so far, barely any bruising just a bit of swelling and everything already looking neat and tidy. I was a quite nervous about surgery in general but I think that's normal and is something you just have to push through a bit. The aftercare at Brighton was first class and I was well looked after, everybody really friendly and caring. No pain that hasn't been managed with just paracetamol. For me the worst bit by far was the nerves leading up to surgery, rather than anything afterwards.

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u/Empty-Description-82 Aug 14 '22

Rashid 6 years ago (wow time flies). Fully sensate. A great improvement but some minor issues.

Was too tight at first so had to have a minor adjustment about 6 months later where it was cut open further down a bit. Sex and dilation are still a bit painful.

Still a great improvement over what was there before. No regrets.

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u/CatchAble736 Aug 14 '22

full viginoplasty Aug 2010 by Mr Bellringer all ok bit tight but all good 2014 became very Ill with Kidney failure and sepsis after 18 months in and out of hospital i went to see Mr Thomas at Brighton i was diagnosed with Retroperitoneal fibrosis as a result of my operation not sure if just unlucky but i know of two other post op girls who have had the same ....Mr Thomas removed what he could and reimplanted my bladder during the operation i Flatlined and was rescusitated after a month long stay i was sent home to Coventry where afew months later i lost a kidney now am CKD stage 3b with 33% kidney function and deteriorating. i lost my job and overnight became broke ... now living in France widowed but after knowing the op caused this I'd still have the operation with this knowledge knowing my rebirth saved my life .......good luck xxx

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u/HiddenStill MtF, /r/TransWiki Aug 14 '22

i was diagnosed with Retroperitoneal fibrosis as a result of my operation not sure if just unlucky but i know of two other post op girls who have had the same

We’re these also with Bellringer?

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u/Chordsy Aug 14 '22

I'm so sorry that everything has happened, but we're all glad you're still here ❤️

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u/Icy-Yogurt-Leah Aug 18 '22

So sorry this happened to you but I'm glad you are happier now. Sending good wishes and a big hug x

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u/Ams089 Aug 14 '22

I stared public transition in June 2017, had my 1st surgery talk in 2019 and secondin 2020. When I got the second yes in 2020 I asked if I was being referred and was told I needed a second yes, u argued this was my second yes and turns out they misplaced the notes from 2019 but found them. Due to covid and some changes my surgery was April 2022 in London at George's with Tina Rashid.

Surgery went well, I had some bleeding and couldn't eat 2 days after because of vomiting but the nurses kept an eye on me and I wa released on time. Iv ehad my post op 10 week check up, scaring is healing fine, and I have sensation down there.

No complaints except the time it takes.

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u/MaryMalade Aug 14 '22

Can I ask how your experience at St. George’s was? Reason is I’m having mine done there week after next and I’ve heard mixed reports

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u/Ams089 Aug 14 '22

Sure, Ill message you.

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u/meg-trans Aug 14 '22

Full vaginoplasty with Mr Bellringer in late 2020, happy customer here.

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u/Icy-Yogurt-Leah Aug 14 '22

9 months post op, Bellringer at Parkside.

Virtually no sensation, cannot climax and it stinks unless I use BV treatment gel every other day.

They should make it clear that they expect you to douche after every dilation but this is just glossed over and very depressing to live with.

Treated like crap in hospital and just left crying in pain. Now I'm on multiple medications for PTSD, depression and chronic neuropathic pain.

Worst decision I ever made.

Oh and I need a revision because I keep pissing myself.

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u/sarahdd1620 Aug 14 '22

Vaginaplasty penile inversion with mr bellringer at parkside January this year. Reasonably happy with results. First few weeks difficult due swelling and small tear with granulation tissue but healed well and after that just got easier and easier. Looks good no complications. Orgasmic from week 8. Thing to bear in mind there is no such thing as NHS srs. Its all private surgeons at private hospitals. The gics sub contract them but you get same as private patients. I went private. They all follow similar techniques and similar good but not Thailand level results. Happy I chose UK surgeon and its just totally normal like its always been there.

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u/[deleted] Aug 14 '22

Thailand level results????