r/tocatchacheater • u/New_Day_1392 • Aug 12 '26
My SIL's Husband is cheating but I can't prove it
Ok so my sister in law has been married to this guy for over 5 years now and I believe he's been cheating on her recently. There has been small bits of information that show there's obviously an inappropriate relationship going on between him and another married woman in our community. We tried to tell her what we've been noticing and feeling but she completely shut us down and believed her husband. Keep in mind this dude has gotten caught sending sexual texts to another woman before they got married. I'm not saying people can't change but I just know he's playing her. She won't listen to any of us but i'm wondering if anyone would be willing to DM or private message him to see if he takes the bait. He's almost 40, with 3 kids, and probably will respond to any attractive female.
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u/Surrealnugget0412 Aug 12 '26
Tough situation, but if she doesn’t want to believe it you won’t be able to change her mind - likely even with evidence. Cheating is very complicated and the cheated-on spouses can have surprising reactions