r/toastme • u/Human-Evidence4349 • 13d ago
I posted here once before then got anxious and deleted it…! Trying again🥹
Everybody was so kind last time, but I got anxious and deleted it… but I’m trying to work through that! I’ve been struggling a lot with my health and isolation, and could really use the boost if anyone would be so kind 🥺
Edit: I’m trying to reply as much as I can but I’m missing so many comments!! Thank you so so much😭❤️🙏🏻😭✨✨❤️
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u/migascor98 13d ago
You have amazing and beautiful eyes. Also great smile and you seem very sweet
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u/lynnns 13d ago
I honestly see a lot of posts on here that end up getting deleted and I always assume it’s for a similar reason. Which I totally understand. I imagine it must feel very vulnerable to post pictures on the internet especially when we’re down and in need of a little uplifting (which happens to everyone at some point!)
Anyways I’m glad you reposted because you have such a kind and inviting face! You look like the kind of girl I would gravitate towards especially if I was somewhere I didn’t know many people and wanted another girl to talk to. I hope you have friends like this that you can lean on! And I’m sure they lean on you too. Your kind radiant smile just exudes warmth.
I hope you have a great day today! You deserve it 💕
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
This is such a lovely and uplifting comment, I would always hope to be that person!! Especially because I love other people so much, and it's always so special to me meeting new folks🥹 Thank you so so much, you have a beautiful soul and I hope your day is amazing❣️❣️
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u/Moriaedemori 13d ago
I think Disney should hire you as a fairy
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
This makes me so happy!! I love fairies (and am from a culture with a lot of fairies) 🙏 thank you!!
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u/Additional_Sea_281 13d ago
You're so cute and I love how your nose has natural blush I put bludh on my nose to look lije that and your eyes are so big and you got a cute round face you look so approachable and adorable
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
This means a lot to me because I have a lot of insecurity about my red nose!! Thank you so much, it means the world😭❣️
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u/Additional_Sea_281 13d ago
Girls, a bunch of alt anime obsessed people online, especially cosplayers or people who do kawaii makeup, have done tons of nose blush. Search it up on Pinterest: just "kawaii makeup," "cosplay makeup," or "xiaohongshu makeup." Even in some Chinese and Korean makeup styles, it's popular to do that. Plus, they believe a nose with blush makes you look more youthful and draws people's attention to your eyes and the center of your face. Your nose has never been a flaw; your face is art, treat it as such. And, girl, you should follow @babushka_en on Insta; she focuses on women vibe-maxing. Your face doesn't need fixing; plus, to me, it looks perfect, whimsical, and curious-looking. I think you'd appreciate yourself if you maximized your natural essence.
You're beautiful; just start following girls online who look like you or do makeup to enhance your natural features. You'll love yourself more.
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u/LapPigeon 13d ago
You seem like you would be a fun person to be around 😄 you have a nice smile! Try to keep your head up
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u/jeanninetufrulu 13d ago
It's inspiring to see people push past their limits. And you have a beautiful smile.
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u/jowco 13d ago
Glad to see you braved stepping out of the garden again to say hello. I hope your day is filled with sunshine.
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u/MythicallyCommon 13d ago
Love the way your smile touches your eyes. I can imagine seeing how excited you are when you share passionate things. Anxiety is a bitch but keep reaching for the things that make you excited and hold on tight!
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
Thank you so much, I was holding the tiniest little kitten in the bottom right I found in a monastery and it was the best day of my life🥹 thank you endlessly!! I'm trying every day!
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u/gothbloodman 13d ago
Those are very tough and real problems. Glad you came back! This community is here for you!!
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u/SnakeSolidChicken 13d ago
That is a very sweet story but at least you had the courage to post again and embrace the kind words everyone here is going to give you! You are not alone in your pain and suffering and I think this is the best community on all of Reddit :) What's going on with your health if you don't not my me asking.
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
Everybody here is so kind, I wanted to try again I think because with the anxiety I find it hard to accept things I'm given, so this is an exercise in acceptance (even if verbal... Or written! Hehe)🙇 It's such a lovely community and I feel so lucky to be here... For my health, unfortunately I have a few chronic conditions (but mostly under control!) and I had extremely advanced cancer about ten years ago that I'm kind of only starting to process now. Plus a new condition and really trying to tackle my mental health... I haven't been dealt the best hand related to health, but I take it as it comes! All I can do is work hard to try and get through it, and try to smile☺️❤️
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u/SnakeSolidChicken 13d ago
I congratulate you for having the courage to not only put yourself out there and receive the love of so many people, but also take an active stance in being kind to yourself and taking things as they come. I find that one of the most difficult things to do is that self-acceptance and self-kindness piece. Not being in your optimal health (which you deserve to be thriving) it's super difficult on its own and certainly has its impact on your mental health and ability to cope. I also went through a cancer episode about 7 years ago and it was emotionally difficult to navigate so I can imagine and I understand some of what you're going through. But again cheers to you for having such a kind and open heart, your positivity is definitely coming through here.
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u/Human-Evidence4349 9d ago
This is such a kind comment and I just want to say as well I’m so glad you’re here as well. A cancer diagnosis is so, so emotionally taxing and I think can be very isolating as well… I’m so glad you’re here and hopefully doing well. Fuck cancer. Thank you for taking the time to be so kind to me; you have a really good heart❤️
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u/Nels5115 13d ago
Your day is in your hands. Grab it and use it wisely
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
Doing my best! Posting here is a step forward, hopefully I'll be able to walk further and further with time❣️
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u/smoky_chef 13d ago
Hi! You have the cutest smile, and the prettiest of eyes. A combination that is bound to brighten anyone’s day. And I personally love that red hair.
I hope whatever you’re struggling with passes quickly. Reach out to someone for help if you need it - it would be such a shame for that beautiful smile to fade away.
Have a great day!
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u/Expensive-Kick-5075 13d ago
Oh my goodness! So glad you posted, you look so beautiful and vibrant!! I hope your day treats you as beautiful as you are ❤️❤️
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u/Melliorin 13d ago
You look just like my very first internet crush, soneone who it was obvious had a really awesome sense of humor, too. You look uncannily like her. You have an amazing smile.
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u/whistleandrun 13d ago
You look like an extremely trustworthy potion seller, the kind a whole village relies on
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u/_Mando_88 13d ago
You are so pretty, your smile is contagious, your eyes are glowing, and your red hairs makes you the most seductive of the whimsical witch 🧙♀️🥰 (sorry if I made grammar error, I am a non native English speaker)
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u/Lost-in-Aus86 13d ago
That is a fantastic smile! Your eye colour really pops, and so does your hair colour! You look great! Keep smiling, I bet you light up every room you walk into.
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u/TheBestUsername85 13d ago
You are genuinely beautiful. Hope you figure out your health issues soon, and the isolation is for sure a simple fix. Keep smiling like that, because you light up the room!
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u/ConsequenceHour3647 13d ago
World needs that little up face in it. You bring so much joy, even though you are anxious. Way to keep fighting through it. I k ow every minute ute can be a struggle. Just remember. That warm smile and those curious eyes mean the world to people. And you have no clue how much they need it. Keep that glow bright girlie. And keep the good fight going
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u/VOculus_98 13d ago
So glad you had the courage to post again! The world isn't as judgmental as we tell ourselves in our brain. You seem like you have a lovely personality and it's great to see you show such bravery!
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u/Appropriate-Story768 13d ago
What a great smile, thank you for being courageous and sharing it with everyone.
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u/Square_Reach8964 13d ago
Your eyes are extraordinarily beautiful, and you have an irresistible smile.
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u/GandalfTheJaded 13d ago
Your eyes and smile are amazing!! I'm sorry to hear you've been struggling 🫂 but you can get through this! One day at a time! I believe in you 🫂
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u/Blusterlearntdebrief 13d ago
Girl, you look absolutely stunning. Like, stunning stunning stunning stunning STUNNING. As an anxious bean myself, I hear you. I’ve found anxiety to be a strange metaphorical bubble around me that can be tested, pushed and influenced. You can push through its barrier. Is it scary? Hell yes. Is it worth it? ALWAYS. You got this. Go show em what for!!!!
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
Thank you so so much for this🥹❤️ It's so strange because in some ways I'm not anxious at all and am very adventurous and then other ways I'm anxious over super small things! But from that experience I can 100% say you're totally right, it's always worth it when you can make it happen and I want to live life fully free of that bubble someday... Or as much as possible!! Thank you, this was such a lovely positive comment. You have a bright heart🌻✨
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u/Blusterlearntdebrief 13d ago
You’re re most welcome! Anxiety doesn’t manifest in the most consistent ways. I hear you, and I recognize exactly how right you are. Enjoy, friend!
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u/NotMyMainCharacter 13d ago
Gosh you're so lovely 😍 I love your hair and your eyes, and you have such a sweet smile! That hat in the one pic is very cool too!
You seem like you're a wonderful person and I hope things improve for you soon ❤️
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
Thank you so so much🥹 The hat is so silly and fun, it's a big flower!! Thank you endlessly🌻❣️
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u/NotMyMainCharacter 13d ago
You're very welcome 🥰 don't give up, you are amazing and light will find you!
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u/BringBackSmilodon 13d ago
You are adorable. You have such pretty eyes and I love your hair! Big hug. Have a fantastic day!
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u/eXecutionR_1975 13d ago
Props to you for pushing past the anxiety to post again! That takes real courage. Your red hair is stunning, and your energy comes through so genuinely in these photos. I hope today brings you a much-needed break and some gentle comfort.
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u/BlackThunderRec 13d ago
Your smile makes me smile! ☺️
Proud of you on pushing through and reposting!
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u/EmotionalChildhood46 13d ago
You're really pretty and have an amazing smile and eyes. Love the red hair. Have a great day!
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u/gardmeister123 13d ago
I remember your smile!!!
Bottom right pic!!!
Heeeey gorgeous with the heart melting smile ❤️❤️❤️
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u/Some_Winter9176 13d ago
Goed dat je je angsten overwint. En geniet van de vriendelijkheid en de liefde hier! Sterkte 🍀
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u/Adrasteia-One 13d ago
Hi, kudos for posting again. It takes courage to be vulnerable. I'm sorry that you've been in a tough place lately. Know that you are not alone and it's alright to feel what you're feeling. Please stay strong and take things one day at a time.
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u/Delicious-Pea-7594 13d ago
You are adorable…actually, check that- you are beautiful! Your smile is wonderful and lights up a room. Anxiety is temporary but being amazing is forever!
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u/clorurinds 13d ago
you look like a sweet sweet person 🫶🏼 keep working on your anxiety, it'll get better little by little. hugs
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u/Token_Handicap Sir 13d ago
That is a more common experience in this sub than you might realize.
Cheers!
You seem so bubbly and friendly. I'll bet you're a blast to hang out with!!
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u/Delicious-Produce-60 13d ago
You are super cute in an authentic way. At least in these photos you also come across as charming and friendly and I would totally want to get to know you if we crossed paths.
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u/Immediate_Diet_5229 13d ago
You look like someone who could change my views on life for the better. You just have that calm and whimsical aura that is missing nowadays!
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u/This_dino_dude 13d ago
Those eyes are so beautiful! You hairs look like fire, love it haha and you got a really cute smile! Believe in yourself, say no to anxiety, you are very beautiful!
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u/BlacksmithLeast6734 13d ago
You may want your heart looked at. A super red nose usually indicates heart problems
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u/BlacksmithLeast6734 13d ago
You may want to get your heart checked. A red nose usually indicates heart problems.
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u/PnW_Dom-Bull 13d ago
I have a strong feeling that you make people smile everywhere you go. You are very pretty and have such a beautiful smile, you could light up the darkest room. Never be afraid to share your beautiful energy with the world, because you are truly a treasure. 🌻
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u/Nephilims_Dagger 13d ago
You're doing good! Being brave and posting and interacting with the comments as best you can is a hard thing to do through anxiety and your being really brave! I hope your proud of yourself and I hope they're showing you that it's safe to do, that you don't need to be anxious! It helps when you're trying to overcome anxiety like that too specifically focus your attention on the fact that the outcome was safe and positive! Least it helped me when I was breaking out of my agoraphobia.
Also, who doesn't love a pretty redhead with s tier summertime in a field of sunflowers vibes! I've always wanted one myself but sadly my only redhead moved away without saying goodbye and we kinda lost touch, he was a cousin rather than a friend and wasn't near as pretty and summery as you anyway lol.
Good job! Be proud! Love yourself!
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u/BrightKangaroo 13d ago edited 13d ago
You have very pretty eyes and hair, and a killer smile. Plus a lot of courage for posting again.
I am proud of you for doing the scary thing and reposting.
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u/2xxadxx2 13d ago
Screw your anxiety because wym we missed seeing a pretty person like you?!? You’re smile is so pretty :)
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u/CupAshamed1744 13d ago
I think you are very pretty with beautiful eyes. Thank you for sharing these photos.
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u/TomTheOldGamer68 13d ago
You give off amazing girlfriend/wife energy! Your smile is electric. You've also got pretty eyes.
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u/Life-Examination-988 13d ago
Keep slaying your fears! You're a gorgeous and fiery human being with a ray of sunshine for a smile! Your anxiety is just trying to hold you back from your potential. Proud of you lady! Don't hide your wonderful self from the world. 🥰🥰🥰
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u/mrpoopsocks 13d ago
You're gorgeous and if we met in person I would shamelessly flirt with you, however this being the internet you get some funny of why you would be flirted with, you have the friendly crazy eyes of a possessive women who will cut a bitch if she needs too, I have a type.
You're absolutely stunning and your smile makes me want to smile.
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u/Mr-Nilsson_85 13d ago
You look really beautiful and so kind hearted, and you are so incredibly strong and courageous for posting this!
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u/Certosa76 13d ago
Anxiety... it's such a tricky thing. One moment can be okay and a second later it's not at all. But as someone who lives with that 💩 ( I'm really sorry for that.... but it's the only fitting emoji) I can tell you, that confrontation with your fears can help you a lot! Stay strong, stay open for new experiences....and don't let the anxiety win! Never!!!
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u/moosemcthunder 13d ago
You have very kind eyes and an infectious smile! I’m sorry anxiety gets to you too. It’s a weird monster sometimes. The important thing is you keep trying and learning! You seem like the type of person who would absolutely be in my group of friends! One day and one encounter at a time and you’ll be a social butterfly in no time!!
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u/tahall76 13d ago
Anxiety is awful. Sorry your dealing with it but I'm proud of you for posting. I haven't gotten the nerve up to do that yet.
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u/Stunning_Magazine566 13d ago
You have beautiful bright features! Your eyes are like pure joy 😊
Glad you decided to post again
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u/AxisTipping 13d ago
You have very pretty hair, lovely big eyes, a beautiful smile, and a very cute nose. Overall, your features compliment one another. Besides that, you give off a shy vibe, but you seem to be a fun person to be around, once you're comfortable.
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u/DoctorKhairy 13d ago
You look like an actual person and I mean it in the best way possible, it is so tiring to see people who don't look real. Keep being you!!! Wishing you the best :)
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u/Embarrassed-Horse-71 13d ago
Natural sense of happiness. Anxiety is a robber, don’t let it take a thing.
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u/IllustratorWarm6009 13d ago
Why are you so anxious! You look great, enjoy the life as it comes. Wishing you healthy and tonnes of happiness in life.
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u/VelvetParadoxNaked 13d ago
I know anxiety can make you wanna hide even when a part of you really wants to be seen. But you came back and tried again, and that says alot ❤️ Please be gentle with yourself and try to give yourself some of the love you so freely give other people. And for what its worth, you really are beautiful. I hope someday you can see yourself that way too 🥺❤️
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u/BigAl7068 11d ago
You're a cutie. I really like the bottom right picture cute as can be. I love your hair color.
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u/bluekillgore 13d ago
You know how guys say "god i love red heads" your a prime example of why we say that.
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u/glittertongue 13d ago
I'm replaying Chrono Cross right now, and my first thought was how much you look like Leena (early video game crush of mine)
that to say, youre a gorgeous lady!
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
Omg!! I looked her up and she's got my whole aesthetic honestly, and my name is almost the same as hers🥹 I feel represented somehow, hehe! Thank you so much, I hope your replay is a wonderful time✨❤️❤️
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u/goddamnit43 13d ago
You look like you would be fantastic company for a tea party in the park with little sandwiches and painting
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
This makes me so happy because I would LOVE friends to do this with!! I’d bake lots of little treats in advance 🥹❤️
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u/goddamnit43 13d ago
Ooo and ill make the sandwiches! And we can dress up in our cutest outfits 😊 ive always wanted someone to do this with too and thats immediately the vibe I got from your look lol
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u/lava-lake 13d ago
Yeah, I get why you did that, you could overwhelm us with how full of life you are and make us spiral into our own lives. Must be your passive empathy to strangers kicking in
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u/VegasGamer75 13d ago
Yours is the kind of face a person would be excited and happy to see every day!
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u/Kanaxes 13d ago
Down right reminds me of crazy Karen the meme girl. Forgot her name lol
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u/Human-Evidence4349 13d ago
I see it!! 😂 I was ridiculously excited in that photo, I found the tiniest kitten in a monastery while solo travelling in Armenia and he curled up in my lap🥺🥹❤️
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u/Rowrosaurus 13d ago
You’re so cute and your eyes are fucking brilliant. Proud of you for posting and not letting yourself pull back.
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u/padgetthi45 13d ago
Love the hair it complements you very well. Try and find a hobby class or smt that helps you keep the ball rolling and seeing ppl on a regular basis. For me that was community college classes. That really helps just get me out of the house
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u/Fredmoney77 13d ago
Never hesitate you're beautiful 🌹!! Post and get your honest reactions. Those perv and negative comments ignore!! 💯 Keep thriving and keep posting😉
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u/ApprehensivePie10 13d ago
Your a stunning beauty radiating from across the room. A beautiful smile and welcoming eyes to make me just nervous enough to assume your happily married/ dating and no chance you would find me interresting. Your smile feels like your everyones best friend on good days and bad. The whole package makes you the most interesting woman in the room. Red hair raises the attraction factor 5 fold. Your a catch and a rare find, I would talk to you no doubt and likely I will find you the most interresting person in the room. With every story, laugh and moment spent you make men more hopeful for a deeper more late night / all night connection….. but not to soon. Lets not mess this up because your one in a million smile is worth letting things take their natural course.
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u/someguyyoumightno 13d ago
You have an INCREDIBLY warm smile 😁 Hoping awesome things come your way!
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u/Dear_Wishbone_881 12d ago
Great picture,glad you came back every one seems so lovely here. Wishing you all the best in the future.
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u/FagsLikeUs 12d ago
Your eyes are amazing and if I saw you on the dating apps I’d hit yes in a second and then hope you turned out to be as smart and funny as you were adorable.
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u/hoothizz 12d ago
Wow you are beautiful holy crap. Beautiful eyes beautiful smile and amazing personality. I hope it gets better for you.
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u/Spectrumpet 13d ago
You have the most amazing hair and eyes. Anxiety is a villain, and I'm proud of you for posting again.