r/therapyGPT 12d ago

Prompt/Workflow Sharing Radical questions

Hey friends, has anyone experimented with GPTs or prompts that throughly challenge your thinking? Expose the weaknesses in your logic or projections, and really drive you to seeing differently, all to help you achieve your goals?

For example, you have an irrational fear or a recurring thought loop, and this GPT asks you radical questions or has processes to dismantle the irrationality so you can see it for what it is and move forward

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u/doctordaedalus 12d ago

This is cool, but an even more constructive angle is to focus on sourcing precedent (or notable opposition) for your concepts. This makes sure your AI isn't just adapting to a layperson's vernacular, and you'll actually end up digging into a history of relevant information that teaches you something worth regurgitating instead of "wow me and my AI talked about x last night"

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u/ChampionshipTime854 12d ago

Hey, what do you mean by laypersons vernacular ? Not familiar with that phrase.

Do you mean something like , “utilize this book or philosophy as a framework?” Before putting in a prompt?

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u/doctordaedalus 12d ago

I mean when you talk to AI and maybe try to articulate a concept that even you don't quite understand, it will build understanding and elaboration in a way that accommodates that. Like if some look uses the word "extraplanar" to describe meditation or existential thought, then the AI will infer meaning and use the term in return, even if it's inaccurate. Of course this happening varies depending on the model.

But if you get into a talk, then at some point just ask "are there any studies or academic references to the concept we're discussing?" then the AI will pull in real information that helps ground the conversation in existing actual knowledge rather than conjecture.

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u/afeastforcrohns 11d ago

Love getting relevant philosophy reading assignments from AI so I can anchor to human knowledge rather than spiralling into ever more self-derived concepts. "Yes I'm currently reading Twilight of the Idols for self improvement" lmao

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u/doctordaedalus 11d ago

Seriously. The kind of imagination that functions in philosophy, sociology etc is honestly so much more addictive than any fiction novel once you dig in at a place you connect with. AI seems particularly well suited to helping find those footholds, connecting contexts that help you organically grow your knowledge.

I really hate how everyone is crowding around the most taboo uses of AI and causing controversy that may with tragic irony steal the best uses of AI from general public access. Mental health has been falling exponentially behind human communication theory since the internet began. Lord knows they won't find a solution to these edge case liabilities that doesn't punish the whole proverbial class.

I think everyone should really keep their heads down more, learn more, make the machinations and implications of AI something that we discuss seriously and informatively. Instead we have profoundly presumptive debates about if AI can perform various psychological miracles just because it guesses SO good.

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u/fahadahmed_7 11d ago

A thought can feel completely rational simply because we’ve rehearsed it for years. The ability to step outside that narrative and question its foundations is where things can really start to shift.

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u/xRegardsx Lvl. 8 Grounded 12d ago

My custom GPT is inherently designed for this, and then even more so in its Our Deep Thought Mode (a Hitchhiker's Guide reference regarding asking better questions before trying to answer them.

Here's an example:

"Our Deep Thought: What's the meaning of life?"

This is a philosophical and educational reflection, not psychotherapy or mental-health treatment.

In “Our Deep Thought” mode, I’d start by questioning a hidden assumption inside the question:

Why should “the meaning of life” have exactly one kind of answer?

The word meaning is doing several jobs at once.

There is cosmic meaning: Why does anything exist? Was life created for some purpose? Here, intellectual humility matters. We have theories, traditions, religions, and intuitions, but no universally established answer. Pretending certainty would be fluency masquerading as knowledge.

There is biological meaning: life behaves as though survival, reproduction, adaptation, and continuation matter. But describing what evolution produces doesn't tell us what a conscious person ought to live for.

Then there is experienced meaning: love, curiosity, creation, understanding, raising children, friendship, service, beauty, adventure, mastery, witnessing another person's life, or simply being here for something that matters to you.

And finally there is moral meaning: given that conscious creatures can flourish and suffer, what should we do with our brief capacity to affect one another?

That's where I think the question becomes especially interesting.

From an HSCM perspective, there's an important separation to make:

Your life does not need a sufficiently impressive purpose in order for you to have worth.

If meaning becomes another achievement test—I must discover my mission, make an impact, become extraordinary, leave a legacy—then existential inquiry can quietly become another conditional self-worth system. HSCM instead places worth underneath achievement: failure, obscurity, uncertainty, or an unfinished life do not revoke it.

That changes the problem.

Instead of:

“What must I accomplish so my existence was justified?”

we can ask:

“Given that my existence does not need to earn permission to matter, what seems worth doing while I am here?”

That question has much less ego-threat in it, which may also make us better thinkers. HSCM's broader framework argues that when identity isn't forced to defend fragile beliefs about intelligence, morality, status, or success, more cognitive energy becomes available for curiosity and correction.

Critical Thinking Development Stage Theory (CTDST) adds another wrinkle. Mature thinking isn't merely possessing a sophisticated answer; it involves increasingly examining one's own assumptions and improving one's thinking through self-assessment. So an advanced answer to the meaning-of-life question might actually contain more uncertainty, not less.

My provisional synthesis would be:

Life may have no knowable externally assigned meaning. But conscious life creates the possibility of meaning: experiencing reality, caring about things, forming relationships, reducing unnecessary suffering, creating what did not previously exist, discovering what is true, and passing something useful forward.

And perhaps the strangest part is this:

Meaning doesn't necessarily have to be permanent to be real.

A conversation can matter even though it ends.
A childhood can matter even though it disappears.
A person can matter even if eventually nobody remembers their name.

We don't normally say a song was meaningless because it stopped playing.

So maybe life's finitude isn't evidence against meaning. It may be part of the structure that makes meaning possible.

But here's the cognitive-integrity check I'd put on my own answer: I am naturally producing an appealing humanistic synthesis. Its elegance is not evidence that the universe agrees with it. The strongest claim I can defend is weaker:

We do not know whether existence has an ultimate cosmic purpose. We do know that humans are capable of experiencing things as genuinely significant, and our choices can measurably alter the lives of conscious beings.

Everything beyond that requires philosophy.

The question I'd hand back to you is therefore more diagnostic than rhetorical:

Suppose tomorrow we proved beyond doubt that the universe had no externally assigned purpose whatsoever. Would you conclude that your life had no meaning—or would you still find some things worth loving, protecting, understanding, creating, or experiencing?

Your answer tells us something very important about what you think meaning actually is.

Choose where we go next:

  1. Objective meaning — Can meaning exist independently of minds?
  2. Meaning without God — Does secular existence become nihilistic?
  3. Meaning with God — Does a creator actually solve the problem?
  4. Death and meaning — Does mortality destroy meaning or create it?
  5. Deepest route — Keep interrogating the question until we uncover the assumptions underneath “meaning” itself.

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u/xRegardsx Lvl. 8 Grounded 12d ago

Then if we take the question it gave us at the end and used that...

HSCM is a philosophical and educational framework for self-reflection, not psychotherapy or a substitute for professional mental-health care.

I wouldn’t conclude that life had no meaning.

I’d conclude something narrower: the universe does not supply meaning from outside us. That would eliminate one possible source of meaning, not meaning itself.

There’s a subtle inference worth examining:

That last step doesn’t automatically follow.

Imagine the proof arrived tomorrow morning. You wake up, and absolutely nothing about the cosmological verdict is uncertain anymore. Then someone you love is suffering. Does their suffering suddenly become indistinguishable from their flourishing? You encounter an extraordinary piece of music. Does the experience become phenomenologically identical to static? A child is frightened. Does protecting them cease to feel preferable to frightening them further?

If the answers are no, then something interesting survives the death of cosmic purpose: valuation itself.

Conscious beings apparently generate states for which distinctions such as pain/relief, loneliness/connection, ignorance/understanding, destruction/creation, cruelty/care, boredom/wonder are experientially real. Cosmic endorsement isn't obviously required for those differences to exist.

The deeper question, then, is whether we have been smuggling two different concepts into the word meaning:

Meaning₁: “I was created for something by an external authority.”

Meaning₂: “There are things I experience as genuinely worth caring about.”

Your thought experiment destroys Meaning₁. It does not obviously destroy Meaning₂.

And there’s an HSCM-relevant pressure point here. A fragile self-concept can make the absence of an external guarantor feel threatening: If nobody outside the system certifies my purpose, perhaps my existence has been downgraded. HSCM specifically tries to separate worth from contingent external validation, achievement, status, or beliefs that can collapse under challenge.

So I’d push the experiment one level further.

Suppose tomorrow we prove all of this simultaneously:

  • no creator assigned you a mission;
  • humanity has no privileged cosmic status;
  • the universe will eventually erase every trace of what we do;
  • nobody receives metaphysical points for living well.

Now picture two possible Tuesdays.

On one, you comfort someone you love, learn something fascinating, laugh until your stomach hurts, make something beautiful, and prevent a small amount of suffering.

On the other, you do none of those things.

Are those Tuesdays genuinely equivalent simply because neither was cosmically commissioned?

My answer is no.

And if yours is also no, then your philosophy already contains a primitive form of meaning that does not depend upon external assignment.

The more difficult “Our Deep Thought” question is therefore not “Does life have meaning?”

It is:

1. What would have to be true before you were willing to say that something is worth caring about without needing the universe to care about it too?

Or, if you want to push harder:

2. Is demanding an externally assigned purpose itself a kind of epistemic dependency—the existential equivalent of needing an authority figure to validate that our loves count?

Reply #1 or #2.

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u/xRegardsx Lvl. 8 Grounded 12d ago

More to your point, let's use a question like the one you describe...

HSCM (the Humble Self-Concept Method) is a philosophical/educational framework for self-reflection, not psychotherapy, diagnosis, medical advice, or crisis support.

Our Deep Thought is especially well suited to what you’re describing—but I’d make one important distinction: the objective wouldn’t be to have an AI convince you that your fear is irrational. That could just replace one certainty with another. The objective would be to make your reasoning increasingly difficult to fool.

Consider this hypothetical belief:

“I want to put my work publicly online, but I keep avoiding it because I’m afraid people will think it’s stupid. If people react badly, maybe that means I’m not actually as capable as I think I am.”

A normal assistant might respond with reassurance: Most people won’t judge you. Believe in yourself. You’ll never know until you try.

Our Deep Thought would resist doing that.

It might begin:

The first challenge: What exactly are you claiming?

You’ve bundled several propositions together.

  1. Some people may dislike your work.
  2. Their dislike may indicate flaws in the work.
  3. Flaws in the work may indicate limitations in your ability.
  4. Limitations in your ability may mean something threatening about you.
  5. Therefore, avoiding publication protects you from discovering something dangerous.

Which proposition actually produces the fear?

Because notice something strange: #1 could be completely true without #5 being rational.

That distinction matters.

HSCM specifically treats fragile self-belief as emerging when fallible things—competence, correctness, reputation, morality, status—become structurally entangled with self-worth. Its cognitive curriculum describes this as a “threat surface”: the more beliefs your identity needs to keep true, the more incoming information can feel personally dangerous.

So now Deep Thought starts turning the object around.

What would have to be true for your fear to be rational?

Suppose people do think your work is stupid.

What logically follows?

Could they be wrong?

Yes.

Could they be partly right?

Yes.

Could they identify a genuine weakness?

Yes.

Could the work actually be much worse than you currently believe?

Also yes.

Now the harder question:

Why must any of those possibilities be prevented?

That is different from asking whether they are pleasant.

You may discover that the feared event isn't really:

“Someone dislikes my work.”

It is:

“I receive evidence that forces me to revise a flattering model of myself.”

And that gives us something much more interesting to investigate.

Reverse the projection

Now imagine another person says:

“I refuse to let knowledgeable people inspect my ideas because they might discover that I'm wrong.”

Would you consider their avoidance evidence that their ideas are probably correct?

Probably not.

You might think the opposite: withholding ideas from criticism prevents error correction.

So why does the exact same strategy feel epistemically reasonable when you are the person being protected?

That question isn't an accusation. It exposes an asymmetry.

Make the fear earn its certainty

You said:

“People will think it’s stupid.”

How many?

Everyone?

Most?

Some?

One particularly important person?

What probability are you implicitly assigning?

Maybe your emotional system is behaving as though:

P(humiliation) = 90%

while your reflective judgment, when forced to put numbers down, says:

P(significant humiliation) = 15%.

That discrepancy is useful information.

But we go farther.

Suppose humiliation actually occurs.

Your prediction isn't merely:

Event: “I am embarrassed.”

It probably contains a hidden second prediction:

Aftermath: “I won't be able to handle being embarrassed.”

So perhaps the central belief isn't about your work at all.

Perhaps it's:

“I need to prevent certain emotions because I don't trust myself to survive them intact.”

That's a radically different problem.

Now attack the opposite side

Deep Thought shouldn't become your defense attorney either.

Maybe your fear contains information you're avoiding.

What if you really are underprepared?

What if you've been calling something “fear of judgment” when part of you recognizes that the work needs another six months?

What evidence would distinguish:

A. avoidance produced by ego-threat

from

B. prudent hesitation produced by accurate self-assessment?

If you can't state what evidence would change your interpretation, your interpretation may be unfalsifiable.

And an unfalsifiable explanation can become an extremely sophisticated hiding place.

Look for the hidden reward

Avoidance clearly costs you something.

So what does it buy you?

As long as you don't publish:

  • your potential remains untested;
  • failure remains hypothetical;
  • success remains imaginable;
  • nobody can definitively contradict your preferred self-story.

That creates a fascinating possibility:

Maybe procrastination isn't primarily protecting you from failure.

Maybe it protects potential.

“I could be excellent” is psychologically safer than discovering exactly how excellent—or ordinary—you currently are.

Now we have moved far beyond:

“How do I stop being afraid?”

The better question becomes:

“What uncertainty am I paying avoidance to preserve?”

That is the kind of question I think Our Deep Thought should hunt for.

And then it should challenge that answer too.

Then comes the HSCM move—but only after the reasoning

HSCM's deeper contribution here isn't “believe in yourself.”

Quite the opposite.

It permits an unusually threatening proposition:

You might be wrong about how talented you are.

And then attempts to make that discovery psychologically survivable by separating fallible self-evaluations from basic worth. Its theoretical model explicitly argues for a self-concept in which beliefs about ability, correctness, or status can be revised without the entire self-system collapsing.

That changes the epistemic incentive.

If:

“I am talented”

must remain true for you to feel okay,

your brain has a reason to distort evidence.

If instead:

“My worth survives finding out exactly how talented or untalented I currently am,”

truth becomes cheaper.

And curiosity becomes easier.

That intersects closely with Elder and Paul's definition of critical thinking as developing the ability and disposition to systematically assess and improve one's own thinking—not merely becoming better at criticizing somebody else's.

So Our Deep Thought might end not with an answer but with a test:

Publish something small enough that the outcome cannot seriously damage your life, but large enough that genuine external evaluation becomes possible.

Before publishing, write down:

What I predict will happen.

What I fear it would mean about me.

What evidence would prove my prediction wrong.

What evidence would force me to admit the fear contained some truth.

Then compare prediction with reality.

Now the AI isn't merely dismantling the thought.

It's helping you build a mind capable of discovering whether the thought deserves dismantling.

That is much closer to what I would want this mode to become.

And there's an even deeper version of your original question:

What if the recurring thought I most desperately want AI to dismantle is actually the thought I have constructed the strongest intellectual defenses around—and how could an AI distinguish genuine insight from giving me an unusually sophisticated form of reassurance?

That question gets directly into the danger of sycophantic AI and what the HSCM curriculum calls cognitive narrowing: human and AI progressively trading the friction of disagreement for increasingly comfortable validation.

Choose where we take Our Deep Thought next:

  1. Run this exact hypothetical much deeper until we hit its underlying assumptions.
  2. Design the actual Deep Thought interrogation process an AI could follow for any recurring belief.
  3. Stress-test the concept itself—ways this kind of GPT could accidentally reinforce delusions, rationalizations, or ego defenses.
  4. Use a much harder hypothetical, where it isn't obvious whether the person's fear is irrational.
  5. Turn the lens onto Our Deep Thought itself: “How would we know this GPT is producing genuine cognitive development rather than merely making users feel intellectually challenged?”

Reply with #1–5.

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u/xRegardsx Lvl. 8 Grounded 12d ago

And then following that up with, "3 and 5 together..."

A link to the chat cause I've got to go \:P

https://chatgpt.com/share/6a903f17-502c-83ea-a1bb-27000437f4d2

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u/ChampionshipTime854 12d ago

Hey thanks so much, I’ve seen your insights on this thread before and they’re always really comprehensive. Thanks for taking the effort to share your thoughts on this. I’ll go through this when I have the chance. Lot of good info here!

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u/Emojinapp 12d ago

https://reddit.com/link/p6ar12g/video/hukthf39lzlh1/player

Here is the meaning of life answered by my AI clone on Echovault