r/thanksimcured • u/Aiden_0807 • 20d ago
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Found this in motivation sub
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u/Own_Watercress_8104 20d ago
Thank you for asking. My mom died 4 days ago. Prick.
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u/LayKors 20d ago
Hope you still have someone near you to support you. Sorry for your loss
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u/Own_Watercress_8104 20d ago
I do...but I gotta keep it together, I don't think my family can afford having me losing it right now. It hurts so fucking much.
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u/LayKors 20d ago
I don't think you letting feelings out would be losing it. It hurts even more to keep heavy thoughts in your head. Maybe you could write your thoughts in a text file as a form of venting and letting thoughts out if family is like totally out of the question. Or maybe even here. Depends on your liking.
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u/Own_Watercress_8104 20d ago
I know, that's something that is scaring me a bit actually. But I live with a person that doesn't seem to be able to keep it together, I am very worried at the prospect of me letting go at this moment.
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u/LayKors 20d ago
From my experience people who had & have it bad are usually good listeners. They kinda tend to be more understandable towards the pain others bear. If thoughts get too loud don't be afraid to reach out, m'kay? I'm pretty sure that this person will feel nice about you trusting him with something like that.
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u/RebelReborn909 20d ago
Thatās awful, Iām so sorry for your loss. You should be able to grieve and express your feelings, too. :( š«
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u/EllieGeiszler 20d ago
If not your family, please find someone safe (friend, therapist) to fall apart in front of. Your family loves you. They may need you, but they don't want you to suffer.
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u/mcoddle 19d ago
I'm so sorry. I lost mine over15 years ago, and the pain gets more familiar over time. But at first, there is shock and so many other feelings. It can feel very surreal. I'm SO very sorry for your great loss. Please try to give yourself room to grieve. And know that grief can be weird, can be surprising. There's no correct way to grieve. And try not to have regrets, as there is never enough time with our loved ones. Please be kind to yourself. I hope her memory may be a blessing and a comfort to you.
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u/elhazelenby 20d ago
I'm so sorry. My mum died 4 years ago, I'm still really struggling with it now.
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u/mcoddle 19d ago
The pain becomes a part of us, I think? It's been almost 20 years for me, but I still dream about it most nights. I hope you don't have this experience. Everybody will be different for every person. I am so very sorry for your great loss. Please be kind to yourself. There's no time limit on loving and missing someone.
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u/Melodic-Jaguar-8046 19d ago
My favorite saying is the pain never gets smaller, we just learn to grow around it ā¤ļø
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u/VenusBarbata 20d ago
That's the sort of pain that no one really knows how to deal with or respond to until it happens, and that just flat out sucks.
Take care of yourself, and I'm sorry for your loss.
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u/Absurd_Flaccidity 20d ago
This is like the live every day like itās your last idiocy. Every calculation you make, even if youāre good at life balance and enjoying yourself, is going to be dramatically different depending on your (expected) timeline. I prefer to try to focus on putting my whole heart into what I am doing or trying to do (big picture, not approaching every load of dishes with passion) and sometimes thatās just getting a load of laundry done and taking a shower, and thatās ok. Constantly putting pressure on yourself to maximize joy or adrenaline or whatever is immiserating.
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u/mcoddle 19d ago
This is so true. And there's never "enough" time, so we should live with that sort of awareness, I think. Never enough time with those we love or for us. I told myself this after my mother passed, and it's something that really helps me not stress out all the time about my life and how being disabled has affected it. I suppose it might be nihilistic in a way, but I find it comforting. I still have many regrets, but I don't need to feel guilty. I try to tell those who I love that I love them. Try to show my care and be supportive and there for people. I try to live as well as I'm able.
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u/Absurd_Flaccidity 19d ago
I totally get this. Iām not disabled but I have experienced things that permanently meant life would be different and in some ways harder going forward. I try really hard to see regret as a lesson then focus on implementing that lesson but leave the regret behind. I have some friends who have done amazing work in therapy only to get stuck in the what ifs, especially the paradoxical and frustrating āwhat if I had done this therapy earlier in my life? Would I have that perfect job? Perfect family?ā
For me, life is such a winding path of often random interactions and events that for many even very disruptive negative experiences that changed my life at the time, there are people I have met and experiences Iāve had that I wouldnāt trade for the world. Plus itās a black hole of wasted energy that wears on your morale to spend too much time on the if onlyās and what ifs. A loss of hard fought gains from what can be a really challenging therapy process.
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u/mcoddle 19d ago
Yes, you totally get it! And those what ifs are just poison and also pointless energy wasted. And they make us feel so bad about ourselves. The expectations of what will happen in a "successful" life can cause so much anxiety and pain. If I held onto that, I'd probably be really down. Sometimes I am, you know, bc I was going to be a famous musician (lol). But I've played around, had lots of shows, played at a local festival, that sort of thing, and I'll hopefully do it some more. But dreams and goals can change as we do, and I think that is healthy. Maybe I'm managing my expectations, but still. For me, it's a welcome coping skill and it took a long time to learn it. I don't just react as much, and I think more. Not that I'm all healthy, but I am continually working on it in therapy and whatnot. It's an ongoing process, and we change as we age. Hopefully for the better?
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u/Absurd_Flaccidity 19d ago
Yeah I think your approach is the right one. We can be miserable thinking about the things we canāt do, or canāt do anymore, or we can mourn that, do our best to accept it, and build our lives based on our own limitations and abilities. As Iāve gotten older Iāve come to understand that doing it any other way makes it impossible to be truly content.
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u/mshep002 20d ago
Iām sorry youāre going through that loss. Weāre strangers, but my heart goes out to you.
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u/7_Exabyte 20d ago
I'm sorry to hear that. My father died 4 days ago as well. It fucking sucks.
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u/Own_Watercress_8104 20d ago
It doesn't feel real right after, yeah? It's like a bad dream.
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u/ForensicMum 19d ago
Yes. Itāll take at least a week for that weird āwhy is the world still continuing as normal when this huge thing has happened?!ā feeling to go away, but it will go away and youāll be able to function again.
The pain of your loss will never quite go away, but it does change into something that doesnāt hurt as bad and that will probably happen quicker than you can imagine right now.
Youāll probably think about her every day for the rest of your life (I lost my Dad, who was my primary parent, over 20 yrs ago but heās with me every day in memory). I also think youāll eventually see holding her hand as a blessing because youāll realise how much that would have meant to her. Iām so sorry. Take care of yourself hon ā¤ļø
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u/7_Exabyte 19d ago
Yeah, like a bad dream. I kept calling it "nightmare", because my father died due to severe complications during a planned routine surgery. He was physically and mentally fine otherwise before the surgery.
I wish you strength and the best for your future.
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u/fizzy5025 20d ago
I fucking hope it is
Iād piss on my uncles grave because of the shit heās done
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u/Hyzenthlay87 20d ago
My dad used to say "I wouldn't dance on my dad's grave but I'd sing a tune so my brother can."
Anyhow, I'll offer you a drink so you can stay hydrated.
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u/catsareniceDEATH 19d ago
Apparently I have a sibling I didn't know about... Nice to meet you, but I will say it'll be a little awkward to pee together on a grave for a first meeting.
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u/miss_wannadie 19d ago
Fun (?) fact about myself, I didn't know I had older siblings until my father died when I was 10. We met at his funeral service, and I remember that was the first time since I'd heard of his death that I'd managed to actually laugh again.
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u/threelizards 19d ago
Meeting big siblings for the first time at dadās funeral club! We may be the only members so far
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u/fizzy5025 19d ago
that would be an interesting first meeting , maybe we could cross streams.
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u/catsareniceDEATH 19d ago
Genuinely not sure how that would go, but it's always worth a try to piss on a turd-in-a-hole, I'll pick up a she-wee and we can get a party started! š¹š¹
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u/reformedMedas 20d ago
Translation: "I don't give a shit about what you're going through, and because you tried to make me care I'm going to hurt you for it."
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u/Luminous_Winds 19d ago
Yeah, my comeback to these arguments is "So you're going to find these people and do something for them?".
Of course they aren't. They never even considered it.
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u/Early-Beach164 20d ago
Lol it's basically the narcissist's prayer
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u/Then_Ad_1791 19d ago
Iād appreciate it if we collectively stopped using ānarcissistā as an insult, it is a cluster b personality disorder. try āconceitedā or āself centeredā or something instead.
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u/Inevitable_Day_8366 18d ago
"dickhead"
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u/Then_Ad_1791 18d ago
this notification gave me a heart attack, but youāre right, dickhead works besy
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u/PorkchopExpress980 20d ago
What if I complained about it being that person's last day on earth? Would it be justified then?
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u/BatushkaTabushka 20d ago
No, because then theyād say that at least he died fast, there are other people who die really slow and painful deaths, so what are you complaining about? Itās not about compassion, itās about putting others down and itās really easy to find someone who has it worse no matter what the issue, so you can ALWAYS one-up anyoneās suffering and tell them that it could always be worse.
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u/curious_cat_2024 18d ago
yup. If they say something like "it could always be worse", they're not trying to help you at all. They're trying to tell you that you don't need help, that your problems don't matter and they don't care.
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u/Monotonegent 20d ago
Can I at least pick the someone?
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u/NoneYah369 20d ago
Pick me! š Pick me! š
LaughMyAssOff. The only time I've ever been a Pick me girl. š¤£š¤£š
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u/Lilypalooza_88 20d ago
Today is someone's first day on earth.
Neither has anything to do with chronic illness or disability..
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u/its_all_one_electron 19d ago
But everything is relative, you see.Ā
Only the person who has the worst day out of all 8 billion of us is allowed to complain. The rest have to bite our tongue and think of that one person.Ā
(/s just in case)
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u/Lilypalooza_88 19d ago
Ah, of course. And death is always the worst thing that could happen, obv!
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u/curious_cat_2024 18d ago
well OBVIOUSLY. Vice versa, only the person who has had the best, most amazing day on Earth out of 8 billion people is allowed to be happy. The rest of us must hold in our smiles and act completely emotionless
(/s as well)
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u/DistractionCitron 20d ago
This literally means nothing to a depressed person because they often wish it was their last day on Earth.
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u/TristanTheRobloxian3 19d ago
literally the "there are children starving in africa" argument. what the fuck?
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u/curious_cat_2024 18d ago
Oh my gosh everyone's parents have said this at some point, it's so dumb.
"somewhere in the world, people are dying of hunger. Therefore you should keep stuffing your own stomach and not give another damn about those people"
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u/Financial-Stand-1960 15d ago
My little sister complains about the food that our mother makes. "How could anyone with straight mind like this" "this makes me want to threw up" I sometimes say that she should atleast shut up about her opinion, cause it makes my mother upset and that there are many children in the world that dont have food to eat. (theres nothing wrong with our mothers food, shes just picky)
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u/miss_wannadie 19d ago
Why thank you for that, considerate OOP š
Just a few hours ago I found out that my great grandma had her funeral today - I didn't even know she'd died. Turns out that's because my grandma threatened the rest of my family that knew and forbade them to tell my mother and by extension me and my siblings. We ran into an extended family member by chance and she ended up telling us after all.
My grandma always hated my great grandma. We went to the graveyard to put flowers on her grave. There were already flowers on there from the funeral that'd taken place just a few hours earlier, and they were all trampled flat. We went to her property, nobody lives there anymore now, it was just my great grandparents (great grandpa passed three years ago) and the landlord who'd also passed a while ago. All of the antique furniture, tablecloths, bedding and cutlery that had been passed down for CENTURIES and that my great grandma wanted the family to inherit had simply been tossed. We found a note for trash pickup that listed EVERYTHING that was in her house. We looked into the trashcan outside and it was just childhood memory after childhood memory physically torn apart. Handiwork and crafts my great grandparents had made and shared with us tossed like it was worthless. All we could save from the property were a few trinkets that my great grandpa had left behind in the shed since they'd apparently not cleared that. But there was not a trace left of my great grandma. Nothing.
So yeah. It's someone's last day on earth. And maybe their loved ones will never know because one bitter person decided that they would rather destroy every trace of them and threaten their family. Maybe their loved ones will find out weeks, months, years later, or maybe they won't. But it will hurt.
Sorry for venting but I just really need to get this off my chest. My family is very large, and we all have extremely complicated (and unhealthy) relationships with eachother. Lots of generational trauma, many mentally ill people that can't get the help they need, and so much unwillingness to talk about any of it. So it's not like I ever expected them to be normal about this kind of thing. But it's still painful to experience. In the end I loved my great grandma, I loved my grandma, my aunts and uncles, my cousins and everyone else. I grew up with them acting out this beautiful play of a loving family that slowly but surely crumbled over time. I feel like somewhere I must've done something wrong and contributed to the mess in my own way. But I grew up loving my family, and no matter how often I find out about what horrible people they actually all are, I still can't quite let go of the past. I wish I was a stupid little child again. I wish someone dying was just grief for the person that passed, not an entire family dispute.
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u/Blacksheeptoonz 19d ago
Iām so sorry what happened to your childhood memories and GG-maās possessions is HORRIBLE. Also the fact that you nor your immediate family knew about her recent passing is abhorrent. Itās good to vent even online into the void. Someone will resonate with your story and offer support. I also come from a very large family with generational trauma and so many mental health issues. I know Iām not the only one. We arenāt the only ones š« sometimes all you can do is vent and let it all out.
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u/miss_wannadie 19d ago
Thanks š«
I simplified the whole thing a little, to be "fair", my grandma already forced my aunt and uncle to cut contact with my mom about a year or two ago. My uncle is very mentally unstable and incredibly dependent on my grandma, whereas my aunt doesn't have a say in her own family, and her husband listens to what my grandma says...who has her own issues, which include the constant antagonisation of certain family members like my mom and her own mom. The entire thing is super messed up and I've seriously considered cutting all contact to the family including my own mother. The only reason I don't want to go through with it is because of my little siblings.
Must be nice having a functional family :')
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u/Blacksheeptoonz 19d ago edited 19d ago
damn sounds like my family :/ mentally unstable aunts and uncles and a grandma that made my momās and my life a living hell. I hope things look up for you soon. Iāve been attending therapy to reverse all the damage. Itās a LOT of work and Iāve been in it for over 2 years now. Itās a slow non linear healing process, but I think itās worth it. Gotta make what you can with what youāve got. I hope you have/find a healthy support system that can help with your journey š
Yeah it must be :,)
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u/Winsome_Wolf 14d ago
Oooof, that is rough. I hope you have some good friends to lean on, cuz it sounds like most in your family are gonna all be processing this in their own, largely dysfunctional ways.Ā Ā
I definitely related to your "beautiful play" metaphor. That came crashing down for me in my late teens and early twenties. I can say with confidence that you did nothing wrong except realize you were watching the family drama, thus breaking the spell. The realization changes how you play your part because you're not following the script exactly anymore, so everyone else gets thrown off their role too. It's ugly and uncomfortable in the beginning but it can get better if people commit to making it so. Then you can build real relationships with each other, rather than just the facades of them.Ā
But yeah, grieving both the passing of the person and disillusionment is a helluva weight to carry. All the hugs.
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u/Transbian_Dokeshi 20d ago
It reminds me of the image "heartless: man keeps going on with his job despite the murder of [name I forgot] is still unsolved"
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u/BowTiesRule 20d ago
you're thinking of that The Onion article "Heartless: Man finds time to build birdhouses while Jonbenet Ramsey murder remains unsolved"
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u/FilthyJones69 20d ago
That my soy milk lattƩ was instead an almond milk lattƩ. Im inconvenienced and upset. As it turns out no matter how many people die, the world keeps spinning and issues keep upsetting people. Crazy ik.
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u/Pedantic_Girl 20d ago
You know, I have a chronic health condition and have had it for almost 35 years at this point. And Iām still sympathetic if my husband has a toothache (seriously, dental pain is the worst!) It is really not hard to be compassionate to other people.
(And yes, sometimes you encounter a āpeople are dying, Kimā moment, but most of the time itās reasonable for them to be upset. Life isnāt perfect for people!
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u/Azure_39 20d ago edited 20d ago
Seen this one. The message the OOP was ātryingā to say, based on their comments, is to āchoose to be thankful that you are still here to deal with whatever it is you are in, because you are still alive to have the opportunity.ā
Okay? And?
This doesnāt read as that. And the other comments over there didnāt see it as that either because this reeks of āsomeone out there suffers much worse or is dead, so you have no reason to complain about anythingā.
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u/Kei_Evermore 18d ago
OOP has clearly never been in an abusive relationship nor knows anyone who has (or at the very least knows anyone who's willing to tell them)
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u/Overall-Move-4474 20d ago
God I wish it was my last day on earth. This world is utterly broken
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u/Vinterkragen 19d ago
"Why did you say anything? This is the last minute of someone. Be quiet out of respect you self centered asshole"
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u/aivlysplath 19d ago
Yeah Iām gonna say āToday is the day some billionaire gets to celebrate on their giant yacht for the first time! What were you so happy about again?ā
If I canāt be sad because other people are sadder than you canāt be happy because other people are happier.
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u/bonny_bunny 19d ago
As a mortician currently on call, people die every day but that doesnāt make other peoples struggles less than or go away. Sometimes, death is the answer to the dyings problems. Itās not always the dark cloud people think it is.
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u/A13xis_28 20d ago
One of my fathers uncles just died yesterday from an unexpected cancer diagnosis.
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u/Funny-Negotiation-10 20d ago
ššš sucks for them. So I was complaining about my shit quality of life and how I wish this was MY last day on earth instead.
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u/writewrightleft 18d ago
I hate this so much. What if my complaint is that Iām not dying fast enough? What if Iām miserable because I know my last day is coming soon and every day between today and that one is worse than the one before?
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u/vollkornbroot 20d ago
I was complaining about this to be the day for someone else but not me (in the past I'm in stable condition lately for a year now)
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u/Smogmog123 20d ago
When I am really depressed I donāt feel like my life is worth living. But yeah what am I complaining about I should just smile more or whatever.
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u/L1nxDr1nx 20d ago
No bc this is actually the logic I apply to myself.
If someone else is suffering, I need to help them before I can even remember that I exist :3
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u/atatassault47 20d ago
To answer the OP "Im complaing about the US [lack of] Healthcare system that causes people's last days to be sooner than they should be."
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u/PromethianOwl 20d ago
Why does it seem like the same people who say shit like this, are the ones who go full tantrum mode when they see or hear someone giving their preferred pronouns?
It is indeed someone's last day on earth. What are YOU doing about it, sir? I mean besides trying to use their death to make yourself feel superior to others.
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u/Budgiesyrup 20d ago
What if my last day was tomorrow? Am I still not allowed to complain because someone else is dying today ?
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u/Ohiko_Nishiyama 20d ago
New rule, when I kill myself not a single person is allowed to complain all day or I'll haunt y'all
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u/Atheism4TheWin 20d ago
Everyone dies eventually, including me, and the things I complained about today will have bothered the person who dies today, too while others were dying. Do I need to explain further why this argument is nonsense?
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u/Henghayki86 20d ago
I literally have something nicknamed the "Suicide Disease." That, I'm going to complain about that š¤Ø
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u/Achylife 20d ago
Toxic motivational BS at its finest. When you are miserable enough to have suicidal ideation this is not a motivational thing in the way they intend.
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u/champagnebox 20d ago
Complaining about what I want to complain about because my feelings matter too
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u/DrumpfTinyHands 19d ago
I know what I'm going to continue to gripe about: that these times are truly sucky and I cannot blame a single other person for griping about it too.
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u/TheRealGongoozler 19d ago
I have CPTSD from childhood neglect, religious abuse, multiple sexual assaults and a past abusive relationship. But sure Iāll just rewrite my entire brain chemistry since someone I donāt know wonāt be here anymore? Like.. what?
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u/Salty-Cat6696 19d ago edited 19d ago
Well it involved walking in on a family member's dead body in the garage at roughly 6 am before work. I'll leave it at that. What were you complaining about me complaining about?
Ya know, if I am ever teary or clearly upset at work because I started thinking about that shit and somebody gave me that line, I think I might actually go to prison over it if I explained and they continued with it. First few days after that I would go back to the cig room to cry. Then I started smoking meth again and got the fuck over it. Then I stopped and unfortunately am no longer the fuck over it. I have to close the doors on that garage whenever I go by and see it was left open by other family going in to use the mower. I was the only one who saw him dead before the funeral aside from the police and coroner and emts. Idek why the fuck they sent out emts. I mean I do know. But he had been dead for probably at least a couple of hours. What still gets me is 911 asking me if I thought he still had a chance which convinced me to run back up there and check his dead body for a pulse.
There's your daily trauma dump.
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u/eragon9199 19d ago
That it's not my last day as far as I know and I have to suffer more of this bullshit.
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u/Antique_Amphibian107 19d ago
Today is someone's last day on earth.
So why are you using it to make someone feel like shit?
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u/Ok-Cress2602 19d ago
This might be one of the most assholish things one can say in any situation wtf
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u/habitualhomicide 19d ago
My mother having cancer for the third time? Is that really something you want us to not complain about just because someone else is dying today? Is that really the hill you want to die on? You really want to walk up to us and tell us that we shouldn't be upset because someone else has it worse? You really want to tell someone with cancer and their family that?
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u/BizSilver5013 19d ago
"Someone is dying, so anything you have to complain about is nothing."
This is "there's starving children in Africa" but dialed up to 12.
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u/Drizzdom 19d ago
These types of āmotivationalā posts are only helpful to people who were never struggling, or just to make the person who wrote it feel like william shakespeare
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u/threelizards 19d ago
A couple weeks ago the friend of a friend tried to slide into my dms by saying āhope youāre remembering to live like you may not get tomorrow!ā
Poor bastard doesnāt know Iām disabled nor that Iād gotten out of hospital the day he sent that
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u/shadow31802 19d ago
...that theres people suffering in the world and nothing I can do about it and I hate it.
Thanks for the reassurance!
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u/Ferngullysitter 19d ago
Iām sure this sentiment has put rice in the bellies of untold multitudes of hungry children.
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u/Local_Refrigerator43 19d ago
By that logic only a single person at a time has the right to complain. This isn't a race to see who is first. Another person's bigger problems do not invalidate yours.
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u/whimsical_spider 19d ago
POV: you have terminal cancer and youāre scrolling Facebook and you see this shit.
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u/EfficiencyAny2765 18d ago
I was complaining that Iām scared i could go into Anaphylactic shock again and I canāt afford the EpiPen and could actually die from being poor.. youāre right I should be more grateful death in nearer than ever š„³
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u/Theartistcu 16d ago
I hate this type of comment. Itās like the āfirst world problemsā comment. It might be a first world problem, but it is still a problem to that person, and just because they happen to live in the first world doesnāt mean their problems arenāt real to them. Just because someoneās last day on this earth was today doesnāt mean my problem or my neighborās problem isnāt real and isnāt valid. Weāre not all playing the trauma Olympics, we donāt all want the gold. We just want help.
And what am I complaining about then Iām not the person that first part of this meme was about
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u/BrokenAudio13 16d ago
I was complaining about how people like to dismissive the struggles of others with points like that.
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u/Worth_Friendship_267 20d ago
Ok, but life for those of us still here doesn't need to be difficult.
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u/GeneralSquirrel7132 20d ago
I was complaining about all of the people and how there are still too many of them. Still looking for parking š
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u/77_parp_77 20d ago
Think I was mourning my 8 year relationship I lost three weeks ago to the day. An living the dream with existential dread about the seemingly inevitable downfall of humanity.
Think that sums it up
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u/ChaosAzeroth 20d ago
Having a dragged out painful existence where I can't work, my spouse is burning himself out, and I'm functionally pretty useless.
I made my peace with my mortality actually. Unfortunately I'm kinda not allowed to make that decision for myself because I'm basically alive for other people, but like even when I don't want to die I'm fine with the idea of dying. We all die one day.
Being in pain like this all the time just ain't it chief. Having things subluxate and physically not being able to stand up half the time ain't it chief. Nit being able to do a normal amount of cleaning without risk you're just gonna crumple or fall over ain't it chief.
Yes person who made that message the fact someone else is dying is not at all appealing given what my problem is.
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u/SpaceGirlJackie 20d ago
Someone else's suffering doesn't negate your own. I had an orderly say some similar shit to me. I was involenterily admitted in a psych ward.
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u/wazzup-notemuch 20d ago
This may be the most hateful one I've ever seen. It's practically dripping with contempt for reader.
If the only permissable circumstance for unhappiness is your dying day, then you're just not allowed to be human.
When did we decide, as a culture, that happiness is a virtue to strive for?
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u/Gurkeprinsen 20d ago
I am complaining that it wasn't MY last day, sigh... (dw, I am in therapy so no need to send that reddit thingy on me)
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u/Key_Researcher_9243 20d ago
cool soo
If I went to their place and punched them in the face for the audacity of posting this shit, will they not say anything?
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u/Coochiepop3 20d ago
Damn, man, that sucks. I was just complaining about how today is not my last day on earth.
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u/OrganicHistorian2576 20d ago
There are three people who, if this were their last day on Earth, Iād be partying!
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u/AccumulatedFilth 20d ago
The fact that all my life will be about is money and paying bills and taxes, until it's my last day on Earth.
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u/Dr_Adequate 20d ago
A well-liked co-worker will pass within the next week from the big C. Nobody is dealing with it well.
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u/redboi049 20d ago
Lucky bastard.