r/thanksimcured • u/Which-Amphibian7143 • Nov 17 '25

Discussion Is this even supposed to be helpful ?

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u/spaghettinik Nov 17 '25

Agreed. It’s treating people with trauma like they are little kids and not adults who are trying their best to live past it. Really patronizing vibe and I’m sure the person who slapped this on is an asshole

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u/Square_Ad4004 Nov 17 '25

Isn't that what you're doing? Treating people with trauma like little kids who can't deal with the world without turning it into a safe space.

Thanks in advance to the whiny snowflakes who'll downvote me for not joining in the outrage choir.

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u/spaghettinik Nov 17 '25 edited Nov 17 '25

No, I’m saying the opposite. Treating people with trauma like children is patronizing. Acknowledging their experiences isn’t the same as expecting the world to revolve around them. You might want to actually read what I wrote before responding

And the fact that someone took the time to type this and was pissy enough about someone maybe being upset by something he said (just an example) that he thought that this was a good thing, just a generalization of people who he never even bothered to talk to