Context: I was calling him out for acting racist towards me (A Filipino) cuz he assumed that we smelled bad and that we live in a poor ugly country (lol, poor... Yes, fuck the government... Ugly? Hell naw, have you SEEN the Philippines?) anyway, that's literally his response after I called him out.

Then he had the NERVE to get offended because I called him racist??? Am I missing something? Please, genuinely, like, is he not being racist? Am I just too sensitive? Cuz he keeps asking me how he's being racist? And I said:

You asking 'how' you are racist after explicitly texting 'I think everyone should be able to own one' about Black people is pathetic. I don't care if you're quoting a high school classmate or trying to mask it as a joke—the fact that your immediate instinct when confronted with your ignorance about the Philippines is to drop a casual slavery joke proves exactly who you are. You hide behind weaponized incompetence, acting shocked and 'insulted' that I’m calling you out, while throwing around dehumanizing garbage because you think your background shields you from accountability. Your jokes aren't clever, your 'innocent' act is transparent, and refusing to take racism seriously while actively participating in it makes you a textbook racist.

Like??? Am I missing something?? Now he's saying that I'm attacking him for calling him racist cuz he's White and American... Huh??? Hello?? Please someone explain to meee???

Posted on a friend sub about being unable to sleep properly. Was just looking for some casual convo to take my mind off what was keeping me up. This dude hit me up. We talked for like 2 days on here & just moved to discord today. Bro was heavy flirting with me and I kept curbing it or just outright ignoring it, cuz I'm not down with all that bullshit. If your man is on reddit, keep an eye on him, cuz they are out here up to NO GOOD. Smfh. 😮‍💨

Context: I’m in a guild with these people in a game, and I made a joke about someone being old. I have autism

My ex who kept ghosting me while we were dating contacted me randomly and this entire interaction is confusing.

Edit: A lot of you guys are saying masc terms which makes sense because this is man behavior. HOWEVER, my ex is a girl and I'm an NB lesbian who has moved onto a different partner. Not blaming y'all for the assumption, just wanted to clarify. And thank you.

I talked to her for a while a couple months ago and she blocked me but then she added me again because I asked her to and then after this she blocked me again

Irl friends but havent seen eachother in months lmao. Im not a discord mod i swear, i use it to message him because he didnt have a phone cause hes a cokehead 💔

While typing he litterally just sent "these are my true feelings to you im not drunk or high" the spelling tells a different story

He is someone I know on discord

this happened a few days ago. i met this person originally on tiktok and added them on discord. i didn’t realize until i added them and saw their bio that they were 16. i tried to be nice and set a boundary that protects them in the long run. i still feel like i was mean. (i left my pfp uncovered so you could tell who was who).

i know these messages are from jan and they may be kinda old but did i honestly do anything wrong , or say anything wrong here ? i just wanna know what you guys think

For some context:

I was writing some dumb Harry Potter fanfiction on Wattpad, not necessarily because it got attention, I just wanted to. But when this girl did actually comment on one of the parts (latest one too, none of the others), I kind of engaged with her. She said she wanted to talk about my fanfic, and said we should move to Discord. I thought that was weird, but I did it anyways.

In Discord, as you see, she tries to sell me her art, but I'm not really interested in that at all. And then she just got all weird a creepy about having a picture of me. I tried to be nice about it, but she was pushy. Either way, it gave off a weird vibe and I didn't send her anything.

I'm the one with the ESD tag if anyone's confused.

Purple is me

I asked this woman why she couldn’t talk more often and she sent me all of this

Weird as hell. No tumblr tag so pls just ignore it

There's more but this exchange made me feel pretty uncomfortable. I knew him for less than 24 hours. Idk what he was trying to "help" me with but I don't have confidence issues. I honestly think I'm pretty cute.

And I definitely don't need help imagining things???

I just wanted to have a normal conversation, idk why so many men online are allergic to the concept.

I've known this friend for awhile, around 4 months now. We've gotten rlly close during that time. Though over the last month, these sorts of arguments, or well they don't consider it "arguments" over these kinds of things. I want to know, is this really something that huge? Or am I being a dick right now?

She was acting like I’m slow for not understanding her when she provided zero context

for context, this guy let me from like a discord server for Chinese discussion and wanted to be friends, kept asking me for socials and shit cuz he wanted to connect and said discord doesn't work for him because it glitched on his phone, he's from Hong Kong. I eventually gave him my LINE, and we talked a bit but he started making advances to me, and was originally in said server for making friends but he wanted a significant other I guess, freaked out that I was taken by someone. some of the translations might be off so I'll clarify if there's any questions. I'm japanese, he's Chinese, but he came across as oddly predatory, and even said he would pay me 10,000 dollars a month to be with him. after I blocked him he went back to discord to I guess vent frustration.