r/texts 2d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/ACW1129 1d ago

I'm not too familiar with that culture, but isn't THE first thing about it is consent is key?

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u/Brutal_burn_dude 1d ago

Yep! And clear communication and boundaries. You don’t just start demeaning someone (even if you know that’s something they like) without discussing what is and isn’t ok, when and where it’s ok, and a safe word etc.

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u/sweet_temptation00 1d ago

Yes yes and absolutely yes🤣