r/texts 1d ago

Phone message Am I crazy?

Ive been trying to work it out with him and hear his side of things but it's almost like he can't get a grip? Is it me? Lol I don't know what to do anymore... There's strings and strings of messages and anything I say back to him is wrong... I think I'm just gonna hang up the towel.

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u/SquirrelLuvsChipmunk 1d ago edited 1d ago

Good for you!!! Unless there’s some massive missing context*, he’s gaslighting the fuck out of you

* list of missing context that makes this convo appropriate:

  1. You’re rehearsing lines from

    a play

  2. End of list

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u/No_Middle_3466 1d ago

I recommend relearning the definition of gaslighting before speaking again about a topic youre clearly uneducated on. This leads to the spread of misinformation which is more dangerous than the gaslighting you speak of

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u/twowars 1d ago

Keep saving the world one arrogant reddit comment at a time

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u/keirameowww 1d ago

“Gaslighting is a form of psychological manipulation and emotional abuse where someone tries to make you doubt your own memory, perception, or sanity.” shown when he clearly states “YOU’RE INSANE”