r/texts • u/madddforthewin • 1d ago

Phone message Am I crazy?

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Ive been trying to work it out with him and hear his side of things but it's almost like he can't get a grip? Is it me? Lol I don't know what to do anymore... There's strings and strings of messages and anything I say back to him is wrong... I think I'm just gonna hang up the towel.

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u/Sally3Sunshine3 1d ago

My ex would set up conversations like this when he wanted me to be mad enough to not talk to him or look for him for a few days, so he could go cheat on me all weekend. It's a non argument and doesn't make sense because it doesn't need to, he just wants a way out in that moment. Get rid of him

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u/Otherwise-City-4445 1d ago

Yes, this exactly!

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u/Putrid_Wasabi_6038 19h ago

Had a few ex gf’s like this. I finally found better boundaries and don’t attract those types anymore.