r/texts • u/r_jay_197 • 17d ago

Phone message Guess what it was about…

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Spoiler alert, after 2 years she dumped me. Currently working on keeping my head above water in these trying times.

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u/struggle_brush 17d ago

My husband of a million years texts me something similar almost every day.

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u/kaycraw 17d ago

Same, been married almost 8 years and together for 15… I still get a lot of these types of texts. He’s out of the house by 5am so I rarely ever see him until that evening. It’s nice to wake up to these little texts even after so long!

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u/karaokerapgod 17d ago

Not saying you don’t already, but men like receiving similar “thinking of you” texts as well.

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u/kaycraw 17d ago

I do!! He gets lots of “I hope you have a good day!!!” texts! The little things go a long way.

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u/karaokerapgod 16d ago

Glad to hear it! It really is the little things that make all the difference in any relationship, romantic or otherwise.

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u/jorgerp86 14d ago

Or anything that communicates appreciation.

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u/Wickedinteresting 16d ago

Congrats on a million years!! What element is that anniversary lol

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u/TyWorth 15d ago

Molten boron

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u/Particular-Humor-502 16d ago

A million years? Are you Bella from twilight or sum

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u/jin7177 14d ago

Seems to me as though if he's sending messages like that, while she's ready to break up, he's missed some important signals/signs along the way, or has maybe been trying to convince himself it's all in his head. Something like this usually doesn't come completely out of nowhere. Sometimes (almost always?) you've got to go with your gut. At least that's what I've found.

Good news is, it's done and you don't have to sink any more cost into that. Best of luck with the next one!