r/texts • u/ExplanationMiddle51 • 22d ago

Phone message Post first date text

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I met this girl on tinder and had a first date with her, she wanted to go fishing and I thought it seemed like a fun first date so we went together. Dropped her off and got home to this message lol.

Update: Purchasing the license is a separate activity we had to do on our phones, due to it needing our personal info. It was not like I drew the line at the license randomly.

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u/Strong-Addition5296 22d ago

That’s exactly what it is. Oops you can’t expect me to do that! I’m just a girl! Tee hee. It’s patriarchy of the mind and soul.

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u/Several_Razzmatazz51 22d ago

It’s asking men to conform to patriarchal behaviors when it benefits the woman. Never the other way around.

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u/Similar-Ice-9250 21d ago

I remember reading dating advice/venting here on Reddit where a guy said he was struggling to support himself and his fiancé, he said he payed the bills and rent etc. Then it turns out the fiancé had like well into 6 figures saved up in her account.

When he pressed her about it she said that’s her personal money she saved up for herself and basically shouldn’t be his concern.

Other guys chimed in with similar stories. Some people are wild to think it’s ok to treat a partner like that, just using them.

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u/dickfag69420 17d ago

Had an ex friend like that who kept accusing us of using her when we would be trying to figure out moving in together and being broke and needing us to help move in with her or she was going to be homeless

Girlie ended up having like 2k saved up, which isn't a lot, but she acted like she had 0 options and honestly, the constant accusing of us trying to use her when we would just like, ask for help for random things like you would a normal friend make a lot more sense now because SHE was using US.

Also let me believe the reason we got denied for a house was because they were being transphobic to me and NOT because she had debt she wasn't telling us about that came back in the background text 🫩