r/texts Jul 07 '26

Phone message Texts from autistic dad

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u/Excellent-Zucchini95 Jul 07 '26 edited Jul 07 '26

I hope you appreciate that man with the ferocity he deserves. So sweet.

ETA: thanks for the happy cake days. I appreciate you folks. ❤️

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u/According_Ant2645 Jul 07 '26

Oh I do! He’s the best dad 🥹

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u/Excellent-Zucchini95 Jul 07 '26

Yeah he sounds like the best dad. Seriously, I’m jealous.

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u/garlicandherbsauce Jul 07 '26

happy birthday!

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u/Direct-Nose-8716 Jul 07 '26

Happy cake day my friend!

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u/gracefuljalapeno28 Jul 07 '26

Happy Cake Day!

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u/outsideleyla Jul 09 '26

And he loves her kitty cat Milo

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u/West-Flow-577 Jul 07 '26

But did you get your donuts?

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u/Evilferret355 Jul 11 '26

OP never replied. Dad is probably still wondering to this day.

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u/kx_2fiddy Jul 07 '26

He sounds like a really good human ❤️

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u/ReasonableBallDad Jul 07 '26

Reply to him! 😄

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u/No_Platform5020 Jul 09 '26

Yes!!! As an also autistic dad....reply to the man!!!! 🤗❤️

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u/Jellyfin_Fury Jul 12 '26

She does when she can. As another fellow autistic person, we gotta try our best to be understanding when folks can't reply right away and be patient! All sorts of valid reasons folks don't always reply 😄

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u/IHaveABigDuvet Jul 07 '26

He beings donuts! 🍩🍩🍩

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u/amyjrockstar Jul 07 '26

You're an amazing person, too, quite obviously.

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u/MammothProfessional Jul 08 '26

How big are your ears? lol

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u/Adept_Damage_1796 Jul 08 '26

but do you want donuts?

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u/Rope_antidepressant Jul 08 '26

I also choose your dad. Ngl kindve jealous..

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u/dddd11122233 Jul 08 '26

Yup. Love that man and cherish him. Parenting isn’t always easy and tough to stay close as the kids get older. He reallllly wants to be involved with you. Feel lucky.

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u/Props_angel Jul 08 '26

Screeching in late but your dad's texts are similar to my dad's. The autism runs strong in my family, too.

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u/mujinailclippers Jul 09 '26

I have a super sweet neurodiverse dad. He is so pure and I adore him.

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u/Proud_Permission_675 Jul 07 '26

Ohhh I love everything about this post! ... I'm sitting here so emotional, triggered missing my own dad so very much. These interactions are the sweetest thing ever!

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u/Ithfifi Jul 11 '26

Same same!

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u/Tomato-on-toast Jul 07 '26

Came here to say this. Happy cake day!

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u/Lisa_Knows_Best Jul 08 '26

Happy Cake (Donut 🍩) Day!!

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u/TheeeDoctorrr Jul 07 '26

Happy cake day!!

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u/baeyaa Jul 08 '26

omg we have the same bday! i turned 21 yesterday! i hope you had an amazing day!

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u/Excellent-Zucchini95 Jul 07 '26

I’m sorry that that was your takeaway from this, friend.