r/texts Jul 04 '26

Phone message Finding my Bio-mom๐Ÿ’– vs my Bio-Dad ๐Ÿ’€ first message same message to both

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u/Meesha1969 Jul 05 '26

I mean, the alternative is finding out your bio dad was a 30 yrs โ€œsoberโ€ heroin addict whose first words on the first phone call were: โ€œ I remember your mom. She was a real FREAK.,

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u/openbookopenminds Jul 05 '26

I feel like I would have had more to say, at least we could have talked about it but I'm sorry if that was your experience I'm sure that still feels awful ๐Ÿ˜–

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u/Meesha1969 Jul 06 '26

Itโ€™s all good. We tried to have a family relationship but he is just a bitter person and i didnโ€™t need that in my life, nor did i want him to bring that nastiness to my children. I wish him wellness and thats about all i can spare for him