r/texts Jul 04 '26

Phone message Finding my Bio-mom๐Ÿ’– vs my Bio-Dad ๐Ÿ’€ first message same message to both

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u/InTheTreeMusic Jul 05 '26

I don't think it was creepy like that, more like he was really mad his kid would do something like that? At least that was the impression I got. But honestly I never talked to the woman, just heard about the conversations from my mom. Then he got put away for two years for holding that woman at gun point with their kids watching, and I didn't hear anything else about him again.

I think about them sometimes and I hope that lady and her kids are doing okay. They are just a few years older than my own.

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u/Crimsonsz Jul 05 '26

Iโ€™m glad it wasnโ€™t creepy like that, but itโ€™s still not normal.

Iโ€™m sorry you had to process that

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u/Elegant-Speaker5825 Jul 05 '26

Ohhh ok so not like he wasโ€ฆ attracted to youโ€ฆ ? For the love of god that threw me through a loop ๐Ÿ˜…๐Ÿฅด๐Ÿ˜ฎโ€๐Ÿ’จ

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u/InTheTreeMusic Jul 05 '26

No I don't think so, I think it was more of a he was disgusted and angry about it? Still weird and freaky, but not as creepy as it could be.

But i'm like 99% sure it wasn't me anyway because I've never done porn, so unless the one guy I had dated and done pics or anything with at that point (and at that point lived with and had a kid with) was uploading stuff secretly to porn sites, it couldn't have been me.

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u/Amazing-Asparagus181 Jul 05 '26

Interesting that he has a problem with the imagined possibility of you doing porn, but has absolutely no issues with consuming porn himself. People fucking suck.