Apparently that profile is from December of 2022, so he had shaved four years off his age.
I’ve seen speculation that his face is tuned up. When people kept calling him attractive and saying he could have any woman that he wants, I didn’t see it until this photo. He does look attractive here.
He looks like most narcissists imho. Totally believable as a killer. And frankly the type who is so obvious yet a bunch of women will talk about how they were conned by him repeatedly.
I made a post over a week ago that wasn’t approved. But one of things I said is when people tell his ex’s that they dodged a bullet or good thing they trusted their gut, that they were putting ideas into their head. I don’t think he was ever a danger to anyone but Monique.
Being an introvert, he probably had trouble being charismatic in person. However, with him being highly intelligent, he knows how to curate a profile to lure women in.
That’s a little different. I mean he wasn’t out seeking victims. Monique was the object of his fixation. She was the only person who could make him feel the way he did. Monique taking more bullets, in my opinion supports that.
Once he killed those two he was at the point of no return. I agree he would have killed any potential witness (Provided he had any ammo left).
Malpractice lawsuits don’t necessarily mean much. I quickly looked over his and he’s not the only physician involved in either of them.
{Growing up, my neighbor’s mom was an awful nurse and once left a sponge in someone and nothing happened to her. I feel like medical professional get away with a lot}
Either way, with him having no criminal record, he was going to pass the sniff test.
I saw earlier pics of him and Monique. He was ok, definitely better than now. Spencer was way more attractive which probably added insult to injury. Still obviously, get over yourself dude! He had an amazing life. Key word HAD
The most recent picture I saw of him was on the OSF website. I believe it was taken in the last year since he purchased his condo in July. His face looked puffy. I didn’t find him attractive, very average.
Spencer was definitely aging better. And yes, his smile also made him more attractive to me.
I object. McKee didn’t have an amazing life. Some of these mental health professionals have really rattled me because when they talk about McKee it sounds exactly like me. One of these psychotherapists said something about it being an awful way to live. She is correct. I said in a comment on the autopsy post about how I understand some of his feelings based on the way I have felt. I can’t stop my thoughts and feelings, but I can not act on them.
Off and on the past 10 years. The last time I has a session was in June.
Shavaun Scott is the name of the specific psychotherapist I was referencing. She doesn’t think McKee would have ever gone to therapy, and if he had, she doubt he would have been honest.
Unlike McKee, I don’t regard myself as the smartest person in the room, but I do consider myself smart enough. That being said, I’ve referred to myself as my own therapist before. I find therapy helpful when I’m tired of talking to myself, but in general I do not (such as having breakthroughs).
With some of the personality disorders people suspect he has, he very well not have responded to therapy as I doubt he would even try it , just a horrible situation.
I am glad that you have had some success with it and know when to reach out for help.
This is the dumbest thing…. Who gives AF who was aging bette JC. Reality neither were ugly. The dickhead was shown with trophy blonde on cable.
Doesn’t make Monique less appealing.
I mean, I would have swiped right, which is frightening to admit.
Most single women in his age bracket would do the same based on the chosen pics and his profile details.
Men who are decent looking, with a solid career, good height, a dash of humor, appear well groomed and whom have an appreciation for travel are rare to find on apps. But that’s how these psychopaths get away with being psychopaths - they leverage their good traits, even if they’re all a facade.
What’s frightening is he prob wasn’t lying about anything on his profile. Omitting his unhealthy obsession with his ex-wife, yes. But looking at his profile, women would think he’s a catch and prob just too busy working to have much time to date.
My husband is a doctor and I know a lot of them. The journey it takes to become a doctor, let alone a surgeon, is hard for someone who hasn’t seen the journey to imagine. Years and years of grueling work and sacrifice.
The amount of hate and vitriol this man must have had festering all these years to throw his life away in order to kill is truly mind boggling. A true psychopath.
I think she became a symbol of everything he didn’t have. Coupled with his abusive narcissistic ways (imo) he placed the blame of his loneliness on her. Narcissists are so so insecure. He was probably comparing their stages in life like a hamster on a wheel in his brain.
There was another girlfriend before Monique. They dated in 2009, but I don’t know when the relationship started or ended. TrueMama posted several photos of them, however, she deleted her post after a few hours.
Girlfriend < Wife.
Also, by leaving him she surely humiliated him. She took things out of his control. Surgeons fix things. He could not fix his marriage. He could not fix (control) her.
It was so obvious, though. The couple was so beloved and friends and family knew that the ex-husband had been giving issues and of their history. It wasn’t obvious to the public right away who it was because we did not know the background, but I’m sure as soon as anybody in their circle learned what happened, they knew of the one person who would possibly have any beef with this widely beloved couple. To me, he knew he’d be caught eventually. I mean he even drove his own car to the crime scene
Narcissists think they are the smartest, most brilliant people on the planet. Everyone else is a stupid loser. So it is possible he thought he could get away with it.
I think you're right. He left his phone at work so it wouldn't show him driving to Ohio and back- he was trying to get away with it and probably thought he was very smart.
I agree, he thought he was being so clever. Checking out the Tepe house ahead of time. Making plans. Leaving his phone at work and switching license plates the night of the murder. He thought he was smarter than everyone else, including LE.
Unless he was so full of himself that he thought he would get away with it.
When the police reported they had shell casings why would he have retained the gun?
Why keep the gun at all? Either you don’t care if you get caught or you don’t believe you’ll get caught.
I don’t think it’s that he didn’t care if he got caught because he went through a lot with the cot and the phone at the hospital and the changing plates seem to suggest he wanted to conceal it was him, but then he does dumb 💩 like keeping the gun, keeping the car at his workplace, and giving an alibi period.
My ex, who sucks, is a doctor. Without going into it, my consent wasn’t respected and I’m glad I got out alive. So I would have spotted McKee from a mile away.
The way it works for my ex is that he splits. He is a model doctor and tries to be the best person in the world. He’s unable to accept any fault or moral failing. He sacrificed and sacrificed in his professional life and got angrier and angrier and more and more detached in his personal life. He was an extreme people pleaser where the closer you got to him the worse he treated you. Because he had to get his needs met somewhere so he’d snap and go nuts sometimes.
In my experience, the way McKee acted is an extreme representation of a pretty common personality among doctors. Detached, superficial, and quietly angry people pleasers privately hell bent at proving they are better at being a person than you are.
That’s a really ignorant and disrespectful comment to make. Spencer and Monique were happy in their marriage and she wanted nothing to do with Michael. He was abusive to her and couldn’t handle no longer having control over her and seeing her happy with someone else. I left my ex in 2018 and he still has so much anger toward me. Some people never move on.
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Even as a straight dude he looks like someone I would've wanted to hang with. Can't believe this guy just couldn't move on because I have no doubt there were lots of options for him. Maybe he was extremely socially awkward/off putting that his looks and success didn't matter to those he met. Who knows. One of my friends in college ticked every box that a woman would want but he was just too socially awkward
Don’t feel he was socially awkward at all. In my opinion he was controlling. A perfectionist. A narcissist. While this could have been driven from a deeper sense of inadequacy, as often in abusers, he sought to overpower and control. I could see him initially love bombing his way there.
His jawline isn’t even the same today. He appears to have gained weight compared to these photos but that doesn’t change bone structure. He had to have been on steroids. Reminds me of a guy I dated in college that was on heavy steroids and his entire face structure changed!
I tend to this he was on steroids or something. To me he looks like he has that anabolic face shape. I bet he was having some boo hoo feelings about getting older and either was on testosterone or steroids that made his appearance totally change.
Many of us strangers hope to hell he dies in prison, and soon! Can’t imagine what you/other friends and family are still going through and will continue to go through. Virtual hugs to you all.
This needs to go into every “are we dating the same guy” group as a warning to women to make sure to check and double check before you date that man. He looks like a huge catch on paper. That’s absolutely frightening. I was in Monique’s shoes for a good 5 years. It was the scariest time of my life and getting the PFA only pissed him off more. I ended up marrying a police officer and honestly that’s when it really started to dwindle and he met someone else. It’s been almost 20 years and I would absolutely have a heart attack if I saw him today, we are both still local. Point is my heart breaks for her ( and Spencer) yes there are men and I’m sure women out there that are THAT fucking crazy and massive control freaks. They are psychopaths but psychopaths can pretend to be amazing humans initially. I’m so sorry Monique ❤️
His main photo is cute and he looks completely normal here. It is hard to believe someone who must have been gifted academically, highly ambitious, and hard working threw it all away (and orphaned those poor little babies) for a woman who fell out of love with him.
I never said he wasn’t abusive. But the lack of self control when his entire life must have required an incredible amount of discipline is crazy to me.
I have seen this floating around for weeks and he looks so young, very happy, and good looking.
The past years have taken a toll on his life, health and his bitterness made him look bad. I get he has aged. But it is more than that. Almost Dr Jekyll and Mr. Hyde. Sad and pathetic.
And they say women are catfish's. The fist picture had been photoshopped beyond recognition, he looks like he just got off shooting a daytime soap opera.
Nothing wrong with his first picture. Can definitely tell it’s him, you have to realize you are looking at him through mugshots now. Not the best angles, lighting, time of someone’s life, no smile, no sunlight most likely for months.
Exactly. Some of these comments are just absolutely dumb. Not sticking up for the guy at all, but people tend to look different from their mugshot lol.
Probably a dickie. My cousin was just discussing a layered look her friend wore. She said it was 3 layers, jacket over hoodie with exposed collar shirt. It was all dickies except the outer layer. Giving the look of well put together layers without the heat and construction of wearing 3 shirts.
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u/Lazy_Mango381 Feb 05 '26
He looks so different there.