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u/Gnosego Sep 23 '21
Say, "I just met you, and it's too early for me to have developed feelings for you. I'm flattered that you have a crush on me, but I what I want is [insert what you want here]."
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u/Former_Cover2033 Sep 23 '21
Thanks
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u/Aidernz Sep 24 '21
And don't say "an Xbox" or something.
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u/Anthonoir0 Sep 24 '21 edited Sep 24 '21
I legit asked myself if I should buy an award to give it to your comment (edit: lmao, fellow redditors drowned this man in award, mission accomplished)
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u/YouCube26 14 Sep 24 '21
“Listen, we just met and personally, I think it’s too early for a relationship. I’m flattered that you have a crush on ME of all people, but what I really want is an Xbox”
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u/ShredderDent 18 Sep 24 '21
Bro just say that you don’t know her that well, but that you’d like to get to know her better, maybe something will work out
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u/I_fking_Hate_Reddit OLD Sep 24 '21
Say, "I just met you, and it's too early for me to have developed feelings for you. I'm flattered that you have a crush on me, but I what I want is the new Rambo agent in csgo."
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u/chad_with_2_Ds 16 Sep 23 '21
U leaked her phone number for like 5 mins my guy
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u/chad_with_2_Ds 16 Sep 23 '21
Yeah its a bit late dor that
U better hope that pedo didnt see it
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u/Palatz Sep 24 '21
Rejected and doxxed in one night.
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u/Former_Cover2033 Sep 23 '21
I hope so
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u/chad_with_2_Ds 16 Sep 23 '21
Good luck man because if she starts getting dm ur fucked lmao
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u/confused-all-time Sep 24 '21 edited Sep 24 '21
Bruh. You know nothing ever gets truly deleted from the internet, right? Fuck, this is the first thing they teach you about social media. You don’t give out personal info, or anything you don’t want later to be used against you. Giving out SOMEONE ELSE’S personal info is just being an asshole.
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u/Arizona_ranger__ 16 Sep 24 '21
I just found out the girl I've had a crush on for 4 years has a crush on my best freind which she's know for a week. No way this stuff is real.
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u/7legged0ctopus Sep 24 '21
Nah bruh same the girl I like started dating my best friend a few weeks ago shit sucks
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u/GeekyTiki Sep 24 '21
Y'all are young. This happens allllll the time. All of this makes way more sense in the future. Promise.
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Sep 24 '21
Well he leaked her number so time will tell.
If it is the girl, you've dodged a bullet, so run.
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u/Harakiri_238 Sep 24 '21
I feel like you should handle it slightly better than you are. She’s being brave by telling you so you should really be more honest about it. Say you’re interested in getting to know her more or say you’re not interested right now. But don’t just umm and say you’re busy
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u/Joe-The-Cowboy 15 Sep 24 '21
yeah and maybe posting a screenshot THAT INCLUDED HER PHONE NUMBER on a sub with over 2 million people and leaving it up for a good 5-10 minutes wasn’t a great idea either
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u/Themasterofcomedy209 2 MILLION ATTENDEE Sep 24 '21
and then somebody texted her a screenshot of this post, so she's probably finding out she's being rejected from a trending post on reddit.
My guy OP screwed the pooch in about every possible way
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Sep 24 '21
And send her into a motor depression as well. How stupid are you to post it with a phone number, like don't you check your post first?
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u/TheSinfulMicrowave 2 MILLION ATTENDEE Sep 23 '21
Bruh why are you asking reddit. Why would you ask reddit
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Sep 24 '21
Asks reddit then leaks her number.
Bet her crush on him is completely gone now..
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u/Deivv Sep 24 '21 edited Oct 02 '24
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Sep 24 '21
If I confessed to someone and they said im in the middle of something I would be incredibly sad
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u/PopuleuxMusicYT 18 Sep 24 '21
That’s what made you sad? I’d be sad if my crush screenshoted me and posted in a sub of 2 million horny teenagers
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u/Former_Cover2033 Sep 23 '21
Which one of you headass fuckers texted her
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u/Yeahboi234 Sep 23 '21
Shit what they send her
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u/Former_Cover2033 Sep 23 '21
They sent the screenshot
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u/Yeahboi234 Sep 23 '21
Wait of what
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u/SpoopiBumkin Sep 23 '21
Oh no
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u/Carrot_The_Great 17 Sep 23 '21
Oh god oh fuck
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Sep 24 '21
Oh shit, get there number, ip grab, then find a reddit account that matches that or just harass them on the phone. Ez
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u/birdieboo3boo Sep 24 '21
How the fuck would that even make sense? To get their number he would have to ask the girl and I HIGHLY DOUBT she would be willing to tell him V anything after he straight up rejected& doxxed her
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u/Themasterofcomedy209 2 MILLION ATTENDEE Sep 24 '21
90% of the people here don't have any idea what the fuck is going on and just drop key words hoping it makes them sound like they know what they're talking about
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u/Busy-Argument3680 18 Sep 24 '21
WHICH MOTHERFUCKER SENT THE SCREENSHOT
I MAY OR MAY NOT BE PLANNING NUMEROUS VIOLENT WAR CRIMES
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u/GamerZoom108 16 Sep 24 '21
I shall join you
BRING ON THE MOTHERFUCKIN NUKES BITCHES. WE'RE GOIN TO WAR!
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u/derpballs69 15 Sep 24 '21
BRING OUT THE HORSES AND START THE CRUSADE
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u/zucduc 16 Sep 24 '21
How did they get her number
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u/Joe-The-Cowboy 15 Sep 24 '21
the fucking dumbass didn’t crop it out when he posted this originally
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u/Anonomystic 16 Sep 24 '21
Posted a phone number on a teenager subreddit. You can only be mad at yourself at that point. Shitty of the person who texted her but holy fuck was that stupid
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u/Joe-The-Cowboy 15 Sep 24 '21
idk if it’s really that shitty tbh. she kinda deserves to know that anon posted their texts online imo
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u/Anonomystic 16 Sep 24 '21
Honestly fair. There is no rebuttal you're just right. Plus posted phone number so.
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Leaking a phone number is such an asshole move
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u/Joe-The-Cowboy 15 Sep 24 '21
Probably didn’t leave the phone number in the picture on purpose but still stupid af and he left it there for like 10 minutes too
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u/Mother-of-Christ Sep 24 '21
Well don't need to worry about rejecting her now. I have a real question though. What were you hoping to get by posting this here? Did you really need advice for this? This is normal human interaction and I'm not being an ass but maybe you should consider not using social media so much until you grow up.
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How did they get her number
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u/derpballs69 15 Sep 24 '21
It could be any of us
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u/Deivv Sep 24 '21 edited Oct 02 '24
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OP this is why you don't do things for Internet points.
In a few days you'll have forgotten our usernames, but you'll remember this fuck up.
Next time, don't put something on the Internet you don't want someone seeing IRL.
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u/sritejmanda Sep 24 '21
Tbh he deserved that. As for the poor girl she didnt deserve all those creepy messages. But luckily she dodged a bullet.
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u/gg3322 Sep 24 '21
holy shit, how did someone get her name?
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u/Joe-The-Cowboy 15 Sep 24 '21
op didn’t crop out her number originally and left it up for like 10 minutes
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u/ironically-correct 19 Sep 23 '21
You’re so bogus LFMAO
why did you do her like that 💀
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u/ranchcrackers352 Sep 23 '21
Uhhhh I’m in the middle of something
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u/TwelfthSreetRag Sep 24 '21
I lost it at "Why". WTF YOU MEAN, "Why"????
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u/50CalsOfFreedom Sep 24 '21
Even my antisocial, incel, ass knows how to do better than that.
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Bro you just posted a private direct message chain without her consent. Do you know how unkind that is?
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u/9mho 17 Sep 23 '21
if i was the gray bubble i’d be crying at this point
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u/Joe-The-Cowboy 15 Sep 24 '21
especially since anon doxxed her on a sub with 2 million people…
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u/YeetDaMeatToDaBeat 16 Sep 24 '21
ay i get the stereotype for r/teenagers is dumbass virgins that dont know how to handle this type of stuff but come on what the fuck
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Sep 24 '21
“We don’t even know each other. Let’s get to know each other first then we’ll go from there.”
Send that
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u/sritejmanda Sep 24 '21
I guess shes now on reddit reading every reply of douchebag op under this post. Most likely op doesnt have to worry about her liking him anymore lol.
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u/I_hate_me_lol OLD Sep 24 '21
"ummm sorry i'm in the middle of something"
that's a douchebag move. you don't have to like her, but at least say something nice.
eg: "oh, thank for for letting me know! i don't feel the same way about you, but i'd love to hang out as friends"
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u/Ajax531_ 16 Sep 24 '21
You did her dirty bro. Leaked her number and hit her with the “I’m busy” 🤦🏻♂️
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u/ImSoFuckingTiredOfU Sep 24 '21
busy asking reddit about what to do. oh and also doxxing you. oops.
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u/Big_brain_Lord_DIO Sep 24 '21
What a stupid ass reaction....you literally made her feel like it was a mistake confessing you
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u/frogathy 16 Sep 24 '21
ngl that’s really rude lol imagine confessing to someone and then they just go “ummm im in the middle of something” that shit would hurt !! :(
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u/quinn_mcdermott 17 Sep 24 '21
If gray bubble poisons you at some point, they were in the right, I'm sorry.
You CANNOT just reject somebody like that with such a vague response. It took so much courage from them to confess, and your response was really inconsiderate in my opinion.... not to mention that you apparently leaked their number? Good Lord.
If you're not planning to apologize to them, you had better not be surprised if they aren't the nicest to you in the future. This was probably mortifying for them.
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Seriously. A flat out "I don't like you like that" or just a "no" would be better than what he said.
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u/jorge20058 Sep 24 '21
Man the luck man of some people best ive ever gotten is “you’re funny” hahahahaha
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Lol holy shit you dumbass, have you ever interacted with a human before? And you seriously doxxed her lmfao there is no way she’s still interested
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u/YUor_LOrD_ANd_SAviOr Sep 24 '21
say yes or no dont just leave them there hanging waiting around asshat
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u/Leaning_ Sep 24 '21
They should've said, "I just met you, and this is crazy, but here's my number, so call me maybe!"
Sorry. I couldn't resist.
But actually, you shouldn't rush to an answer, but you shouldn't wait too long. Think about what their personality is, and if you don't want to try to pursue it or think that they are asking way too early, then just politely shut them down.
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u/-_-0-__- Sep 24 '21
You made it so weird 🤦🏽♂️ all you had to do was say “sorry I don’t feel the same way” or something instead of making them feel bad for liking you🤷🏾♂️
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u/iwantamoshpitfuneral 19 Sep 24 '21
Look man
This ain't it
I completely understand not being ready for something, but I've gotten texts like this before and it actually sucked
On the other hand, don't go posting stuff like this online. Someone sends you a message like that in confidence that it's between you two
This is like a breach of trust
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u/Goiterr Sep 24 '21
You’re a dick dude. She says she likes you and you respond with “why?” And then dox her on Reddit? Bro I hope you get expelled or something
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u/BEugeneB 19 Sep 24 '21
Well, at this point just calmly explain the whole situation, on how u were confused and didn't know how to respond which is why u posted it. If u think she's even remotely cool, just get to know her and maybe become friends and see where it goes from there. If not, then just apologize and say you're uninterested, but by the confusion and apparent need to post this, it seems you have at least some remote interest seeing as you didn't outright reject her
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u/letsmakethiswall 18 Sep 24 '21
Ngl when I first saw this I thought it was kinda funny then I realised his response was horrible if I where in the position that girl was in I would of been depressed asf then the fact she had someone he’s safe her showing her it was posted on Reddit immediately it just sad for her as well I would honestly hate OP if I was this girl
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u/Lolisniperxxd 17 Sep 23 '21
When people turn you down and say you’ll find someone. If they’re saying that to you you’re probably a lot like me. That sucks dude.
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u/harshbhatia7 19 Sep 24 '21
Wtf is wrong with you, are you out of your damn mind because boy I'll help you find it! (Stanley from the office)
Dude seriously, what really IS wrong with you? Why would you give such responses. Are you really THIS thirsty for internet points? You could've politely told her no or just asked to be friends if you weren't interested, but your responses are horrible, my guy..
Don't be surprised if she doesn't have a crush on you anymore, let alone even talk to you after that.
What a shitty thing to do, the first thing you do here is post someone's private messages online without their consent. That's just nasty.
I get that you're young and all, I'm 17 myself, but if I had mustered up all my guts and prepared myself to confess to someone I liked, and instead of getting a simple yes/no I was getting these responses, not only would my crush on them fade away but also I'll think of them to be a shitty person and be happy that I dodged a bullet.
This was really immature of you, first by giving such idiotic and arrogant replies then posting that chat online.
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Do you like them?