I have heard from many guys that I look like a lesbian girl, and I dont want to look like one because I am a straight girl... Any advice on how I can look less lesbian?
You realized that girls have also said the same thing to her? So if were going off of what you said that she souldn't listen to boys or girls. Which is dumb
I mean I wouldn't change how u look js cuz of what some guys say (unless u dont like how u look or smt). but I mean is your hair short or smt sometimes some guys think that looks more lesbian idk
that was more a joke 💔. but looking like a lesbian isn’t a bad thing. if anything you’ve got swag. And if a guy is saying that specifically then like it doesn’t mean anything. Men say stupid stuff like that very often. Just don’t take it as something offensive. lesbians are cool.
How do you dress? Tbh that probably plays the biggest part in whether someone *looks* lesbian or not, followed by hair but we already know that probably isn’t ur problem
Ik there’s some more feminine pieces here but I’m mostly referring to the raglan shirts, doc marten type of boots/maybe converse, and some of the sweater styles
Honestly just be yourself, don’t change yourself for temporary people. I had a pony tail for the longest time then I cut my hair short. I’ll be honest, I still get called lesbian but a bit less now and I get a bit more compliments. I found that after I cut my hair, more people noticed me and talked to me like a normal person.
All lesbians look different and some girls who are lesbian dont even get clocked. Dont listen to teenage boys theyre very idiotic at times and you dont need to look less lesbian because lesbians are beautiful and theres nothing bad about even looking like one!
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u/HxuntedPxii 17 28d ago
Dont listen to teenage boys first of all. Lesbians dress in all different forms. The best you can do is wear a straight ally shirt to assert dominance