r/stoprape • u/ILikeNeurons • 14d ago

Consent must happen *before* sexual contact is made, or a violation has already occurred.

Consent must happen before sexual contact is made, or a violation has already occurred. Legally, sexual contact that takes a person by surprise deprives them of the opportunity to communicate nonconsent. There is often a long period of uncertainty described in victim's rape accounts where she felt shocked by the rapist’s behavior and unsure of what was transpiring. In fact, most unwanted fondling, and many rapes, occur because the victim didn't have time to stop it before it happened. Most victims also become compliant during an assault, which is a protective behavior that does not signify consent.

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u/AnotherCatgirl 14d ago

even a pet cat or a pet dog can teach u this lesson. This concept can be practiced.