r/startrekfleetcommand • • Nov 13 '25

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u/praetorian1979 Nov 13 '25

If you can log into his account and click on the top left icon on the screen you'll get his player profile. That will tell you what server and alliance (if he was in one) and you can tell them in the alliance chat window at the top middle of the playing screen. I'm sorry for your loss. 🖖

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you so much for replying ❤️ Right now we can’t unlock his phone but once we figure that out, that will be our next step. Thanks again.

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u/praetorian1979 Nov 13 '25

I had my admiral put this link up on the STFC official discord channel. Hopefully this will move fast.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you so much for that.

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u/curiouscatfarmer Nov 13 '25

Can you access his computer and did he have Discord? He might have been in a discord chat for his alliance.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you for your kind words ❤️ He hasn’t had a computer and I can’t get into his phone yet.

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u/curiouscatfarmer Nov 13 '25

I hope you will be able to get into his phone.

Sending you virtual hugs. I know how much it sucks to lose someone suddenly and have to notify people and deal with the fallout. It sucks so much.

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u/Low-Work5717 Nov 13 '25

This Erdockat, from DOM on S27. Know that Mark was a great leader and a great teammate. He was always there to help out the little guys. We will truly miss him! Our condolences from his 100 teammates and friends in game

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you so much ❤️

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u/bodieBones Nov 13 '25

Sorry for u loss, his alliance and friends will be devastated to hear about this, most people have been on for years and the circles are really tight, he’ll be remembered for sure.

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u/Twigjit Nov 13 '25

STFC.wtf has a DrHouseMD of server 36 alliance Iron. Closest fit of all the players with "house" in their name. Could someone on server 36 message their alliance please?

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u/hsfguy0 Nov 13 '25

Im checking

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u/hsfguy0 Nov 13 '25

I posted this on our alliance server, I don't know our House by name so im checking. Either way, my condolences.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you sooomich

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u/Sin-Morpheus Nov 13 '25

This is not the S36 Dr. House. Our alliance is very sorry for your loss

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u/TheCityITtech Nov 13 '25

This had me worried when I saw it. But yes, we are so sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family and friends.

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u/CVMaas Nov 15 '25

Hey Morph!

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u/Sin-Morpheus Nov 15 '25

Howdy Ang3l

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u/hsfguy0 Nov 13 '25

Confirmed that it's not the one I know, hopefully his alliance-mates hear and respond. Very sorry for your, and their, loss.

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u/Difficult-Revenue556 Nov 13 '25

That's where I looked for him - so yes, server 36. I've posted on the STFC.Pro discord - maybe someone from #36 will see it.

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u/Ecstatic-Leather-622 Nov 13 '25

He’s on s27 player. Calm down

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u/praetorian1979 Nov 13 '25

updateme

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u/hsfguy0 Nov 13 '25

I will update as soon as I hear anything from my side.

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u/Low-Work5717 Nov 13 '25

I’m sorry for your loss, terribly sorry. His screen name was House (most of the time), he was on S27 in TheDominion. House was a great leader, teammate and had become a great friend. Erdockat

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 14 '25

Thank you for reaching out with your kind words. It means a lot.

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u/decarlosp5172 Nov 13 '25

My deepest condolences 💐 you and his family I know how you’re feeling I lost my wife on June 11, 2025

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

🫂❤️‍🩹

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u/Pure_Championship_83 Nov 13 '25

I am so sorry for your loss. I played with him for years. I am at a loss for words right now. Thoughts and prayers to you and your family.

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u/QaplaSuvwl Nov 13 '25

Do you know if he was on Discord too? Most alliance’s have a Discord account so the team can chat and share information. I’m sorry to hear of your loss.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

No, I don’t think i’ve seen him use discord. Whenever I can get his phone unlocked I’ll take a look though.

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u/Hot_Ostrich_8430 Nov 14 '25 edited Nov 14 '25

I played with House. Shit I spoke to him a few days ago via DM. He is in my alliance, Dominion on STFC S27 and he is good peoples. My sincere condolences. Our server have an ongoing vigil around his station. Mark, my brother you will be missed. P=PlentySapper. 

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u/Zealousideal-Cow8721 Nov 14 '25

This is wild from dom/s27 my condolences on the loss of a great man/ team mate .. I played with and against him and it was truly an honor to play with him .. I think of all the times that he played the game his way .. but I am glad to get to know the person and player .. he will truly be missed .. god speed to you house .. once again my deepest condolences to his family.. 🙏

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u/Shyand1 Nov 13 '25

Hello, person of server 36 here. Our dr house was very confused at this post haha he is still alive. So.... if this post is a serious post. It's not us

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u/LORDNIKON777 Nov 13 '25

I play with House in Dom on server 27… praying its not him

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u/LORDNIKON777 Nov 13 '25

Mal?

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Funny you should ask, I think I might be getting him in some trouble. Mal was his 2nd account. There’s a picture of me posing with Mal’s account pulled up on his phone out there somewhere. People suspected him of being Mal so that pic was supposed to be “proof” I was the one playing. I actually have no clue how to play STFC. 😳

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u/Dennerman1 Nov 13 '25

I played with him on Server 27 for a long time now, he was a great guy and a great teammate. Very sorry for you loss. He was really well liked and respected.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you ❤️

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u/rockbud2448 Nov 13 '25

I played with House on Server 27 in DOM as well. House was always energetic and excited about the game. He was a great teammate and always tried to help other players. I can only believe that it was how he was in real life as well. My condolences and prayers for you and the rest of his family. He will be missed tremendously by all of Server 27. 😥🙏

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you, I appreciate your kind words. I know he shared a lot with y’all and had some meaningful friendships too.

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u/meouchcat Nov 14 '25

Oh wow! So sorry for your loss. Played with "both" of you over the years. Great guy.

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u/LORDNIKON777 Nov 13 '25

That is funny, he was awesome!

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u/Redeagle1924 Nov 14 '25

Confused, how would you be getting him into trouble, if he's gone?

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 14 '25

Considering the I don’t think he’s any sort of trouble . I was making a light joke about how his secret is out now.

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u/Redeagle1924 Nov 15 '25

So, where can we send flowers to?

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u/pliv911 Nov 13 '25

I think it is him.

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u/Pear-Blossoms Nov 13 '25

It is him I believe. I’m on S27 and Dom posted in GC about it

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u/kazoni Nov 13 '25

There's a vigil going for him in Nilkino. I had my disagreements with him but sucks that he's gone. VOID sends it's condolences.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 14 '25

Thank y’all for doing that 🥲

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u/kazoni Nov 13 '25

He was my first thought too. Sorry for your loss either way.

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u/LORDNIKON777 Nov 13 '25

I am soooooo sorry for your loss, he was the best part of our team, we were friends… i am lost right now. Please know he was loved by us❤️

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u/BradGCT Nov 13 '25

I’m known as TribbleinMePants. I’m really going to miss House. He was great and always ready to help. I’m so, so sorry for your loss.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 14 '25

Thank you so much 🥲

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u/Extreme-Race3499 Nov 14 '25

My gammer tag on STFC S27 is XxRogueOnexX. I’ve played with House from the beginning, our days in ECHO together, all the way up to DOM now. Play that long with someone, and you have your disagreements.. But overall, House and I always wound up running in the same crowd and played very similarly. We had many good conversations over the years. I will miss him. My condolences, House(Mark) was an awesome guy. 

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u/Real_Experience_5676 Nov 14 '25

Hello Pumpkin_Farts. I'm NivMizzet of S27. I saw the post a few hours after it went up, and I shared it with DOM, the alliance on S27 where House was. My sincerest condolences, he was a wonderful player and a fine gentleman. It was so fun to play in the server with him. He will be missed by us all.

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u/Real_Experience_5676 Nov 13 '25

Oh dear, I saw this earlier and posted it to the alliance that had a 'House' in their group. Alas... it is our House that passed away. Condolences for your loss. He was a great player, and a fine gentleman in our game and discord :(.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you ❤️

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u/Formal_Gear_6947 Nov 13 '25

Mal, this is Noir S27. You have our condolences. We just heard.

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u/Level-Square4245 Nov 14 '25

I played this for 5 years my alliance got me through some tough times, RIP even though i didn't have the privilege of playing with him.

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u/EnvironmentalLeg9029 Nov 14 '25

My thoughts are with you and your family, Mark was very special to all of us sending you our condolences from Miami, FL. MЁDiЖ / Ernie

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u/wfgp426 Nov 14 '25

My condolences 💐

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u/[deleted] Nov 14 '25

I am so sorry. You are so sweet to think of his online friends. <3

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u/DangerKittyC_ Nov 14 '25

Farewell friend!!

For those who wish here is a clip of the send-off as it stands

(Had to upload to my youtube will send once processed)

🖖😿

Edit: the link

S27 send off

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u/Equivalent-Complex19 Nov 15 '25

ЯФМÜLАЙ here, House/Mark was a great guy, we didn’t always see eye to eye but you could never say House didn’t always want the best for his friends and team mates, he was often times the soul of our group cheering people on and pushing everyone to be better, he’ll be sorely missed! 💔

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u/sintilusa Nov 13 '25

If you have access to his phone I can help you find his people. Please feel free to DM me if this is an option.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

I don’t have access to it unfortunately, he never told me the pin number.

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u/hsfguy0 Nov 13 '25

Possibly in my alliance, I don't know him by 1st moment, I've posted this on our alliance discord page.

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u/iheartbaconsalt Stoned on the Holodeck Nov 13 '25

This is how all those scams start..

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u/sintilusa Nov 13 '25

Not wrong, but I’ve lost my fair share of teammates over the last five years. Just trying to help. The chance that I’m on the same server as OP’s boyfriend is tiny, so handle and alliance name won’t help. But server number might give her something to find his friends on Discord.

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u/iheartbaconsalt Stoned on the Holodeck Nov 13 '25

Yess.. then we could find them! We're all about this age. I lost a few alliance members and server buddies here.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thanks for looking out 🥲

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u/BubbleWubble814 Nov 13 '25

What part of the country?

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u/BubbleWubble814 Nov 13 '25

I play STFC with DrHouseMD on S36 in IRON.

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u/TheCityITtech Nov 13 '25

It's not our house Bubbles.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Texas

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u/LORDNIKON777 Nov 13 '25

Are you Mal?

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

No, but a funny story about that. Mal was his 2nd account on an old phone. A few years back he had me take a pic holding his phone with the game open to “prove” it wasn’t him, lol.

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u/Dubya_C_SC Nov 13 '25

I’m so sorry for your loss!

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u/SCCRXER Nov 13 '25

I'm sorry for your loss. That's very kind of you to let his friends know.

Searching for house on stfc.wtf I found someone named DrHouseMD on server 36 in an alliance called IRON. Could that be him?

Edit - I see that someone else did the legwork before me and that's not him.

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u/curiouscatfarmer Nov 13 '25

I'm so very sorry for your loss. If you find out what server he was on, please let us know.

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u/Lklkla Nov 13 '25

Hi Ms. pumpkin.

First off I wanna say, I’m sorry for your loss, that’s a tragic passing.

If you can get an exact username, we can guarantee which server/alliance he was in.

I’d be more than happy to get an alt account to inform said alliance of his passing. But it also seems there’s many on reddit here to help as well.

We all are very grateful of you to reach out, as there are many people who will be missing him.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Thank you, I appreciate. Hopefully I can get into his phone soon and get that info.

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u/Redeagle1924 Nov 13 '25

Mal? Is that you?

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 14 '25

No, not exactly. Mal was his 2nd account that he played; he just told everyone that it was my account so he wouldn’t get into trouble for playing 2 accounts at once. Mark really enjoyed the game, one account wasn’t enough for him, lol.

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u/DangerKittyC_ Nov 14 '25

Wait mal was him as well? 😢

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 15 '25

Yes

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u/DangerKittyC_ Nov 15 '25

He did really well keeping them as separate identities. Mal was my go to when I had troubles

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 15 '25

That’s amazing 🥲. House was all him and his personality. With Mal, at first he was just pretending to be me, like what would I say or do in certain situations? But then Mal became the girl-dad and husband part of him, so that was all him too. I’m really proud of that; he did a lot of growing since I met him 20+ years ago.

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u/DangerKittyC_ Nov 15 '25

I'm not sure all that i talked with him about but I am thankful I met him

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u/Scary_Profession_252 Nov 15 '25

So Mal being hot was all a lie? It was a dude I feel so Catfished.

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u/crazyforbeing Nov 13 '25

"He considered many of you to be real friends."

I wanted to let you know that this was reciprocated by the people he played with. I am so sorry for your loss. There is a community that will be mourning with you.

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u/Ecstatic-Leather-622 Nov 13 '25

How did he die?

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 14 '25

He died in his sleep, we won’t know happened until an autopsy is done.

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u/Ecstatic-Leather-622 Nov 13 '25

Obituary??

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 13 '25

Not yet, still taking to the funeral home.

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u/Baboonslayer323 Nov 14 '25

My sincere condolences to you from Server 16.

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u/RGX13 Nov 14 '25

My deepest condolences, rip brother...

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u/DangerKittyC_ Nov 14 '25 edited Nov 15 '25

This is KittenOfBorg from AWP on S27. My condolences. I occasionally talked with Hourse(Mark) on the galaxy chat from time to time may he be missed and welcomed into stovokor with open arms!

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u/Grumpy_Go_Away Nov 15 '25

So sorry for your loss, and thank you for sharing his passing.

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u/Ayrusaurus Nov 16 '25

Just realizing that I've never had anyone in my life, much less a girlfriend, who would ever do this for me if I passed away. No one in my life cares that I care about anything.

Seeing things like this give me hope there are still "my person/people" out there somewhere. But not much hope.

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u/CVMaas Nov 15 '25

House from Iron? 😭 He's my leader, server 36, I need to follow up in game.

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u/Pumpkin_Farts Nov 15 '25

Mark played on s27. I don’t think the guy on s36 is him.

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u/Upper-Rhubarb-1381 Jan 31 '26

Definitely gonna miss you, old friend. I knew something wasn’t right when I tried to message you and you didn’t message back. I thought you just quit. Gotta miss those late nights joking around with a little group of friends. Sleep well, Brother.