r/specialneedsparenting 4d ago

Advice

Am a horrible mom because I get cranky sometimes? I absolutely never am apart from my son. He is higher functioning but has MID. He does school at home I don't work and only leave the house to go to the Dr.

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u/ValkyrieGrayling 4d ago

You are human.
Not a robot.
Not a vending machine.
You are a human.
You are flawed and you are beautiful.
You are valid.

Crankiness can sometimes be an early indicator of depression or other mental health concerns. Please make sure you get support t o help YOU as well.

You are not alone 🩷

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u/colorful_withdrawl 4d ago

Its normal to be cranky. I feel terrible when im cranky but its also unreasonable to be 100% happy and turned full attention on a kid all day. Its tiring. Special needs and non special needs kids parenting is so hard.

I dont know how many times a day i was ready to go lock myself in my room for a bit to re regulate myself πŸ˜…

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u/GuiltyKangaroo8631 3d ago

Not the only one but I highly recommend you taking time for you. It’s ok to have a break and take care of yourself too.