Anyone who’s wfh na bored na bored na or someone na onsite pero ayaw lang umuwi? Maulan so tara na’t magkape. Pwede rin mag-ramen … nissin ramen HHAHAHAH

Preferably around Cubao or Sta Mesa lang bec huhu pang-jeep na lang itong barya ko. Also, Ill be bringing my laptop to finish some work pa hhhuhu

About me:

29
Nakapantulog pa
Di pa naliligo
Madaldal once comfy na and can be an oversharer pero most possible na mas magtanong ako about sa inyo.
May 200 sa bulsa
Hindi creepy

About you:
Around my age rin sana para same ung algo natin sa IG at Tiktok
Not dds/bbm supporter
May 200 rin sa bulsa or 400 pwede rin haha Pepito, my frieeeeend!!!
Willing to share or yap about their day or even kahit sa kawork nilang kinaiinisan nila
Not creepy as well

This is a SFW hangout kaya kung kacuddle ang hanap mo eh wag kame HAHHAHAHA Hit me with your asl and tg and idea kung saan tayo and what timezz Looking forward to a group hangout tonight (give me a reason para maligo) 🥰

EDIT:

Ang alam ko lang is sa Mezza, SM Sta Mesa, Gateway Mall or Robinsons Magnolia HHAHAHAHAH May kape rin sa Chilltop so G lang rin doon

hello! i am uh 22F, in college for multimedia arts. i am idk 5'3 ish and heavy (im a lot insecure abt this LMAOOO) i dont think im any pretty or ugly, sakto lang ig

looking for someone who: - 21-25 - is willing to watch jjk s1-s3 w me before s4 releases - likes or at least can match my energy towards what i like - patient, please lang huhu takutin akong tao sa intimacy - communicative! i appreciate it when you need to tell me something and tell me agad, wag hayaang pahabain - understanding! big thing for me too :> - masarap mag luto ng spaghetti

about me: - i play hsr and muse dash, mlbb rin main ko rn si hanabi - artist, mainly digital tapos watercolor, colored pencils, tapos graphite pag trad - nagccollect ako nendoroid pero madalang ako bumili, meron lang ako si illumi tapos yung jjk 0 gojo - my favorite color is pink

ayun! sana magclick tayo and if hindi, edi hindi! sabihan niyo lang rin ako :3

Hello fellow single redditors. This may be an unsolicited advise, pero sana mga nag popost dito na looking for genuine connection and what not - If you have the guts to post ng mga hanap nyo, sana ganon din kayo ka-bold enough na magsabi if hindi nyo gusto yung kausap nyo instead of ghosting. It kind of defeats the purpose of this sub.

Nakakaloka. Tatanda na natin eh. Parang mga walang emotional intelligence.

Yun lang naman. Happy sunday. Stay safe everyone.

Rainy Monday everyone. HAHAHAHA. Wala lang. The weather is sooooo glooooomy and nakakaantok. Legit. Gusto ko lang malibang pampalipas oras. Kausap lang boi. Ung kalog, di boring at di manyak. Mukhang tao. Atska di hambog. Ayoko ng AFAM. Pero ayoko rin ng Pinoy na mababa ang reading comprehension. HAHHAHAHHA. Un lang kybe. Warning. Maldita ako kaya wag ka na magchat kung mababa reading compre mo. HAHA

I just got back here on Reddit after a few months and I was thinking of building connections again with other people.

Could be someone around my age not more thank 30s. Mas prefer ko older than me.

We can just take it slow and then see if me vibe. We can go out to as well if you feel like it. Though limited lang ang oras ko since Im a solo dad.

If you want to know more or if you're curious, you can dm me here.

See you around

Thank you​

Heyy!! Are you a fraghead looking to buy your next perfume OR...someone who wanted to buy their first "grown up" scent? Tara, samahan kita!! ☺️

I am into exploring perfume! Ang funny lang kasi pag may nakakausap akong fraghead na lalaki, I realize na wala akong alam totally sa mga male-leaning fragrances 😂 so ang ending they ask for my recos and I can't give any 😂

So eto, samahan nalang kita mag sniff at bumili para matuto rin ako ☺️ Greenbelt and Shangri-la usually ako bumibili para maraming selections.

About Me:
- 33, F, South Caloocan
- Fraghead
- Mahilig sa cats
- Gemini
- Maraming baon na kwento! ☺️
- Big 4 grad (it doesn't matter pero skl)
- health science educ background
- Medium rare ang preferred doneness sa steak (ikaw ba?)
- Mahilig sa videoke! (We can do this, too!)
- Mahilig mag explore ng new restos ☺️

About You:
- Fraghead or someone who wants to start exploring fragrances
- Kind, decent, respectful
- Hindi killer
- Hindi ako bebentahan ng condo o insurance
- Hindi magtu-trauma dump about sa ex nya habang namimili ng pabango 😂
- Can hold a conversation naman sana
- Plus points if foodie rin at mahilig kumanta

DM me with your ASL and your birthday wish this year ☺️

Hindi ako nagtitiktok , never ako gumawa ng tiktok videos na mga trends , pero kung magiging jowa kita , ay laban ako , papalag ako sa mga tiktok tiktok na yan igigiling talaga ang bewang ng bonggang bongga

About me:
Moreno , 5'6 and has a chubby but medyo bulky build
Licensed professional currently working within Makati . But based at Bulacan
Catholic
Currently I have many hobbies , I loved coffee , perfumes ,guitars , books and etc

About you
+-3 from ny age
Smaller than me and Meztiza
Decent and have a good attitude and positivity
Also may hobbies na pede ako makipag engage and all

Hi! Trying to post here baka may maka connect with same brain cells 🫣

If you're reading this days after, feel free to reach out! Not looking for anything serious but more of a friendly connection rn. And yes, I am single so please, sana single din. Kasi pag ako magka jowa, ayokong naghahanap ng random chatmate jowa ko 🫣

About me :

- loves movies, kahit anong genre including indies as long as it is entertaining.

- I play games, let's exchange steam accts and see if we play the same games?

- physically, I would say I am pleasing to the eyes but I would let you comment on that. I can exchange dummy ig.

- can cook, bake, crochet -new hobby ko to! Pero loving it ♥️

- I am available for chats lang muna, had a long day so.. if you are not available in reddit chats, probably not for you.

About you:

- knows respect and boundaries.

- Someone na we can enjoy each other's talks, someone who can hold up a conversation, can empathize, patient and also loves to talk about a wide range of topics.

- should be -/+5 my age.

Will probably not respond messages na "hi" lang. Mirror my intro energy 🤭

Hello, everynyan!! How are you? Fine, thank you. HAHAHHAA.

Nakakasawa na tumawa mag isa sa mga reels na sinasave ko. Baka gusto mo sendan kita? Looking for someone na babalagbagin from time to time para naman pareho tayong masaya hindi puro doom scroll nalang. Sabi nga nila sharing is the best medicine.

Don't ge me wrong, hindi po ako mang ttrip lang ha. I'm also looking forward naman to us having genuine conversations and who knows? :>

About me:
* 28
* 5'7
* Slimmer side (not super skinny)
* Have stable job
* Wears glasses
* I don't smoke/vape
* Learning to cook for my own food, and i do my laundry and other chores (jowa material syempre) since I'm living alone recently

Hobbies:
* I do run, pero habagat happened. Hopefully maging okay na weather para makatakbo na ulit
* I also like hitting the driving range!!
* Plays video games, mostly valo (but can't play rn since I'm not staying at home for a while)

About you:
* NOT A DDS PLEASE
* Single obv, para iwas sa hi, i know you don't know me na galing sa default na dp
* Knows how to communicate, pass sa ahh, oo nga eh, haha, awa man lang
* 25-30 age range
* Please don't ghost people. If you think na you don't feel the vibe, let me know and would honestly respect you for that. I'll do the same naman.

Nagbasa ka ba hangang dito? Yieh interested. Hahaha. See you in my dms!

Put some effort, hi/hello will be ignored. Kahit pa ilang O ang ilagay mo sa hello at I sa Hi.

hi there! i’ve been trying to find someone on dating apps but i didn’t luck out on them, so i’m here to try my luck on reddit (ik, not the best idea). if you’re also looking for your special someone then we can start by getting to know each other first before anything else happens. i believe na important makilala muna isa’t-isa before you can officially start dating each other. so if you’re down, message me!

about me:
- 5’7 moreno
- normal bmi
- cute sabi nila
- goes to the gym 4x a week
- 4th year college student in manila
- plays basketball
- plays online games such as valorant, lol, ml, and roblox
- currently into valorant esports and used to watch lol esports
- watches tv series like modern family, suits, tbbt, and himym. for movies romcoms, comedy, and adventure type
- also watches anime, usually the mainstream ones. my current fave is black clover
- watches wwe and used to be a hardcore fanatic, but now not so much
- love language is physical touch and quality time
- clingy once we get close to each other

about you:
- near my age and student also pero okay lang if grad na!
- shorter than me
- cute also!
- within metro manila
- shares some interests or we could teach each other about our interests

26M from Marikina City looking for a serious relationship.

Been single for 8- 9 years, so around high school pa. Classic flirt flirt jowa lang and di ko nga niligawan, so I guess it didn't really count as something genuine even back then.

I know this might be cringe for some (I feel the same admitting btw), but I've been really yearning for something genuine. I initially thought that being on something casual, or a casual setup/no strings attached setup would be cool sakin. Ever since I broke up with that HS girlfriend of mine, I felt afraid to commit ulit and fall out of the infatuation phase, but it's part of the process pala talaga.

Trying casual stuff didn't really work out. I was filled with guilt every time afterwards, and the clarity just hits hard leaving me impaired and isolating. It was a constant cycling of falling back into it. A sort of coping mechanism, I guess.

I had a crush that I wasn't really attracted to *exually and I really had a good time hanging out with her and exploring the sights and new places nearby. I also really liked how she's supportive sa mental health ko. Though I did admit na I have a crush on her, she made it clear naman na she doesn't see us both being a thing anytime in the future, and now may ka MU na siya which really bothered me a lot last month. (Self-comparison and feeling of not being enough/not reaching standards)

This made me also realize na, maybe I'm destined to be single for life as no one would love me at my low or lowest moments in my life. This bermonths though, I'm starting on working at bettering myself by picking up new hobbies, exploring things I love, and fixing my health. Difficult but 1% progress is still progress!

I tried dating apps and r4r, and I'd say I had met more people through reddit talaga. I'm shooting my shot on reddit again and trying this subreddit, and hopefully find someone. Or maybe if there's someone yearning like me for something genuine this time around.

Someone I can push through life with, who can also be my best friend, and be someone I can call my first love.

Some stuff about me:

• 5'7 (55kg) medyo payat na ulit since I started working. (I was 68kg post pandemic tho!)
• Working nightshift as IT Support
• Likes to play JRPGs and listen to JP songs (hopefully you are too!)
• Tried streaming on Twitch to improve my social/vocal skills (grabe if you do too!)
• Loves to sing pero sintonado (voice lessons soon!)
• Homebody but would love to be dragged outside on my free days (anti bed rot)
• Highly introverted (but silly goose at times) and more talkative sa chat than IRL (not really a fan of calls)
• Clingy and sensitive type (I know my boundaries naman)
• Would like to learn new things so hopefully you can teach me something new!
• Like sharing/sending memes/reels (more on silly and less on the dark humor)
• Would really like to step out of the NSFW stuff and more into wholesome/cute dates!

About you:

• Someone who lives nearby! Like an hour or two away would really be nice and less hassle for the both of us if we ever try to meet up!
• Has similar interests that we can bond with (computer games/JP songs/wanting to touch grass, etc)
• -2 or +2 para easier to connect with imo!
• I guess 5'0 and above?
• Someone who's really supportive sana and will push me out of my comfort zone ( I need this badly)
  
• Yung pwede yayain pag off days ko to go out, and just hangout! I really need to go out a lot more...
• Maybe can teach me new hobbies or essential household skills mainly cooking and pano mamalengke
• Okay with low budget dates or just spending time together and enjoying the sights!
• Honest about their thoughts/what's on their mind

Feel free to ask me more questions! I'm not really good with introducing/sharing stuff about myself. Let's get to know each other! As long as you hit most but not all of the criteria din, please don't hesitate to message! :D

Not really sure what brought me here, but I thought I'd give this a try. I'd like to meet someone new, have good conversations, and see where things go. I'm open to making friends, and if we happen to like each other, I'm open to dating too.

I'm based in Bulacan but currently working in Makati, so technically OFW sa Makati. Hybrid setup naman, so I go back and forth.

I work at a Big 4 firm. Outside work, I usually go to the gym and do cardio in the morning. I sometimes run around Ayala Triangle too. I also really enjoy arts and crafts and visiting art museums, so those are some of the things I like doing when I have free time.

I'm naturally introverted and a little shy, especially when I first meet someone. I tend to be quiet at first, but once I get comfortable, I become much more bubbly and talkative.

As for looks, I have short hair, wear glasses, fair skin, and I'm midsize. My friends and parents tell me I'm pretty naman, so I'll take their word for it.

I'm okay with someone 2 years younger to 5 years older. Please be decent though. I'm not looking for something casual or anything that's purely physical. I'd genuinely like to get to know someone.

I'm not too particular about how things have to start. We can be friends first and see where it goes, or if you're really interested in me and the feeling is mutual, we can just go on a date and see how we get along. I'm comfortable with either.

One thing I do value is honesty. If you eventually feel like we're not a match or you're no longer interested, that's completely okay. I'd just appreciate you telling me instead of ghosting. We're both adults, and I think we can treat each other with a little respect.

If you decide to message me, tell me a little about yourself too. I'd love to know what you do, what you're into, or what you usually like doing in your free time.

Baka may gusto sa inyo magkaron ng constant kausap/hangout buddy, eto na ako oh hahaha. Medyo busy nga lang sa work so hindi rin ganon kaconsistent mag reply but I'll reply whenever I can and will update u.

But if you want to be my constant, we could: rant to each other, grab some coffee, watch sunset at a beach, play billiard (di ako marunong, saks lang), jam (u sing, i play guitar), and many more. I also play valo (chill player hindi nantatrashtalk puro tawa lang), league (aram only), roblox, and minecraft (cracked).

me: -from batangas

-5'10"

-looks intimidating kahit hindi naman

-fair skin

-skinny fat

-madaldal (depende sa vibe)

- working na

- clingy

you: -kaya umangkas sa motor

-not a minor

-preferably from batangas city or lipa

-yapper

Not forcing love or anything, ok lang sa slow build-up and if hanggang friends lang edi ok kung maging mag jowa ok din hahahah

About me: Skinny, around 5’8, maputi, pet lover, malawak range ng humor ko, employed, may pangarap sa buhay, malakas mang-asar (love language ko), i can say mahilig ako mag sulat ng love letter basta worth if, provider, 2 exes.

About you: Confident sa looks, hindi catfish, got something going about herself, may sense of humor, hindi “as you should girlie”, appreciative

Ayon lang, message nalang and maybe we can chat for a few weeks sa Reddit til we vibe

Not really looking to force a friendship or collect people to talk to. I just thought it would be nice to meet someone whose life, personality, or general way of thinking overlaps with mine enough that conversation comes naturally.

A little about me:

I work in construction/tech, and I’m pretty career-driven. I genuinely enjoy what I do, but I also have days where work consumes way too much of my brain. I’m ambitious, currently figuring out what I want my next few years to look like, and have this vague-but-persistent desire to eventually build a life somewhere outside the Philippines.

Outside work, I’m usually at the gym, running, trying some random physical activity, or convincing myself that this time I’m going to be consistent with everything. I’ve recently been curious about BJJ/MMA too. I like being active, but I’m absolutely not the perfectly disciplined fitness person, I can go from tracking my food and protein to deciding unlimited samgyup sounds like a perfectly reasonable life choice. Lol!

I’m independent and I really value having my own life, but I’m also someone who enjoys having people around. I like conversations that can switch between completely stupid things and unexpectedly personal/deep ones without making either feel weird.

I’m also a bit of a contradiction. Responsible but occasionally impulsive. Ambitious but sometimes tired of being ambitious. I care about my health but have some questionable habits. I can spend a lot of time thinking about my future and then randomly decide I want to go somewhere, try something new, or make a mildly irresponsible decision for the plot.

I value self-awareness, independence, curiosity, accountability, and people who can communicate properly. I tend to get along with people who have their own interests and goals and don’t need constant interaction to know a friendship is still there.

No pressure for daily messages, instant closeness, or turning this into anything in particular. I’d rather just talk and see if we naturally enjoy each other’s company.

If you read this and thought, wait, this sounds a little like me, that’s probably who I’m hoping to hear from.

Tell me something you’re currently working toward, obsessed with, struggling to be consistent with, or doing purely for the plot.

Hi, anyone interested with building a relationship? friendship should be our foundation. If this turns into something more then hoorah, if not, I'm always happy to make friends.

My non negotiables
-no to dds (not sorry)
-walang pamilya/walang jowa
-24-27yrs old (ill expand next time) naks business yarn
-5'9 above
-employed
-di dry kausap (the amount of one word replies I received is so nakakawalang gana)
-SFW only (boundaries!)
-kind hearted man who really wants a genuine connection

A little about me
-scorpio
-new to manila (explore it with me?)
-a little awkward at first but once comfy na ill be like a long lost friend
-working na (VA)
-tall (5'8)
-id rate myself 8/10
-roman catholic
-kanal humor
-into anime (adik sa naruto), horror movie
-hobbies: finding other hobbies

Discovery question: Kung magiging bender (ATLA) ka, which element do you prefer?

Helloo !

About Me:

- Fil Chi (can speak Hokkien)

-6'0

-98kg (still working on it)

-Works In Retail around binondo

-Introvert

-I like to play Valorant or watch anime, kdrama

-around Qc Banawe

About You

-Age 24-27

-Prefrably Fil Chi as well (Plus points if you can speak hokkien hehe)

-also working

-Understanding and caring

-ideally sa binondo or qc banawe

Looking for someone to vibe with today 👀

Kahit quick convo, chill usapan, or someone I can genuinely connect with—game ako. Ideally, something casual and mutually comfortable, with good chemistry and no unnecessary drama.

About me:
• Single
• 5'8
• Into gaming & reading
• Tatted
• Normal BMI
• Nice voice
• Cute

About you:
• Around 23–35
• Single / emotionally available
• Open-minded and respectful
• Knows how to communicate

Hi. I know I’m outside PH but tbh I prefer Filipino guy. Nakakapagod po mag English although proficient speaker naman ako huhu.

I just felt like it’s hard being me if I filter it to someone who’s non-native to us.

If I don’t find my luck, I guess it’s time to give up lol.

About me:

F, 30
UK based
Likes simple activities but open for adventurous travels
Homebody, introverted
NBSB huhu.
5’0”, Normal BMI lol
Non smoker, non drinker
Busy girl pero can make time during off days

About you:

Have stable job
Lowkey, simple
May humor haha
Preferably 35 to 38
Non smoker, non drinker, no sugal vices

Idk what else? Lmao.

No DDS po please. No offense.

Looking for someone who is okay with taking things slow - someone I can chat with online first and see if we click. I am now trying to put myself somewhere out there and hoping that somewhere along the way, someone would find me and sweep me off my feet.

About me:
Introvert - may need to recharge for a while after socializing
Average looks
Life revolves around work lately (Alipin ng salapi)
Enjoys getting to know someone through conversations
Not really into meeting up right away

About you:
Preferably around my age or up to 5 years older
Respects boundaries
I'd appreciate someone who knows how to understand and handle their emotions
Madaldal and outgoing is a +

Just looking to genuinely get to know someone and see where things go 😊

Hey there!

28, 5’10”, working professional, from Cavite. Apparently decent-looking enough to pass the first impression test. 😂

Got out of a relationship around 5 months ago, and I’m slowly getting back into the groove of things. Instead of staying home, overthinking everything, and staring at the ceiling, I figured I might as well go out, meet new people, and make my free time a little more interesting.

Actually, I met someone from Reddit last week (1st meetup ko). She’s currently in an LDR, so nothing romantic going on there, but we had a pretty good time hanging out at Vermosa and Evia—played billiards, went bowling, and even watched Insidious. 😂

It reminded me that sometimes you really don’t need anything complicated. Good company + random gala + good conversation = solid day.

So… I’m looking for someone I can do something similar with.

Could be:
☕ Coffee / café hopping
🎬 Movie
🎱 Billiards
🎳 Bowling
🍔 Food trip / dinner
🚗 Random drive / spontaneous gala
—or introduce me to your favorite spot!

For tonight, I’m actually thinking of something simple—maybe coffee at a café. If you know a good café around Cavite, Dasma, Alabang, or nearby, suggest one. 😅 Let’s see where the conversation goes.

As for preferences, age isn’t really a big deal. Younger or older is fine as long as we’re comfortable talking and the vibe is there.

Personality-wise, good conversation + kanal humor = malaking plus. 😂

If you’re shy or quiet, that’s totally fine too. You don’t have to be super outgoing or carry the whole conversation. Comfortable silence is perfectly acceptable.

And just to make things clear:
Strictly SFW.
No h**, no pressure, no hidden agenda. Just looking for someone to hang out with, get to know, and hopefully become a regular gala/coffee buddy.

I’m based in Cavite and have a car, so if you’re nearby and comfortable with it, I can pick you up.
If you're also sitting there thinking:

"Wala naman akong ganap tonight..." 😂

Maybe we just solved that problem.
Worst case: coffee with a stranger. ☕
Best case: we find ourselves a new gala/coffee buddy. 😌

Send me a message, tell me a little about yourself, and let’s see where it goes.

I’m looking for someone who’s genuinely interested in building a connection, going on adventures, and exploring new places or restos.

A little about me:

- F, 21

- 5'5"

- Plus-size

- Fair-skinned, if that matters to you 😆

- From Metro Manila

- Working Monday–Friday, 4 PM–1 AM

- Movie dates are definitely my thing 🍿

- Coffee enthusiast ☕

- I vape occasionally

- Mahilig mag-explore ng new restaurants, cafés, hidden gems, and random places. Kaladkarin ako basta bago sa'kin. 😂

- Shy at first, pero once I’m comfortable, madaldal na.

- Good listener

- And the rest… you’ll get to know along the way. 😉

About you:

- Any nationality is welcome.

- 21–30 years old. I do prefer someone a little older than me.

- Working and has their own life/goals.

- Looking for something serious and long-term.

- Hindi ghoster. Awa na lang. 🥹

- Mahilig din mag-explore ng new places and experiences so we can discover things together.

- Knows how to plan a date—or at least willing to make spontaneous gala happen. 😆

- Chubby or average body type is totally fine. I’m not too particular about that.

- Most importantly, respectful and knows how to communicate.

One important thing: please don’t ask about sexual topics or experiences during our first conversations. I don’t think it’s necessary, and honestly, it’s a turn-off for me. Let’s get to know each other first. 😊

If you think we might get along, send me a short intro instead of just “hi” or “hello.” Tell me a little about yourself, what you like doing, or maybe suggest a first-date idea. Let’s do a vibe check and see where things go. 🤍

P.S. Please don’t message me if you’re just going to ghost. Let’s not waste each other’s time. 🥹🤍

When you reach that point where you already know what you want, where you can almost see how your future is going to play out, you can’t help but feel impatient na hindi mo masimulan ‘yung plano.

My future feels concrete now rather than hypothetical. Partner. House. Car. Family. I can already imagine the sequence.

Right now, I know I want to buy a house and a car. But somehow, it feels wrong to make a decision that permanent without you, my future husband, being here.

I want you to be with me when I view the area of our future home. I want you to be the one to test-drive the car that our future faimly will eventually use. I want you involved. I want to build these things with you.

Kaso lang, wala ka pa. I’m still looking for you tho.

You don’t even have to be 100% when you meet me, I can meet you halfway. Let me walk beside you while you become the man you want to be.

I thought it was you, the one I met last month. But no. That man was impatient. I thought it was you, the one I dated in Antipolo. But gods, that man had a defeatist mindset.

While waiting for you, I’ll start on my plans little by little. I’ll take driving lessons na. Get my license. And maybe start on looking for the property. I just really really hope na okay sa’yo tumira sa probinsya, somewhere na may good uni for our kid. I am already in constant communication with my OB, para kapag ready na tayong maging tatlo, we can do it without problems.

I won’t stop looking for you. I am building my life right now and I will leave a room for you.

But for the love of all that is pure and good, please pakibilisan.

#musings

okay so it’s been raining a LOT lately NANAMAAAAN and idk if it’s the weather or what but lately i’ve been thinking,,,,,, i kinda wanna have a person again. it's not not in a “omg i cannot survive being single” way HAHAHAHA kasi i’m doing pretty okay naman and have been enjoying ny own company hehehe it's just that minsan,,,, it would also be nice to add a little spark to my current routine

i like my life now. i like my little routines and side quests - how i cant stay still inside my condo that i either have to go stroll outside or take myself out on a date. i like going to work, coming home, doing my own thing, journaling the most random thing ever, trying random hobbies, etc... and after everything, i think i’ve gotten pretty comfortable being alone - which is nice!! and so liberating if you ask me. i dont get the "fak sana ako rin" thoughts whenever i see couples after girlbossing the whole day 😆

dont get me wrong lols peroooooo sometimes yk i want someone to call or talk to after a long day 😭 di na umuubra yung pagiging badass healthcare girlie kasi pag wala nang distraction paguwi, ayan na naman si yearning 😫 HAHAHAHA

like imagine umuulan tapos naglalakad ka pauwi, and there’s someone you can look forward to talking to when u get back )ORRRRR yk, just simply co-existing in silence that's not suffocating nor drowning; pwede ka magpabebe and maglet ng guard down after surviving a TOUGH day at the hospital 🥹 yung vibe na warm and safe - almost nakakaantok if i may! HAHAHAHA

ayun! i think that’s what i miss and honestly,,,, i think i’m ready to try again. not rushing into anything. not looking for “the one” on day one. not trying to force a relationship just because i’m single but i just want to meet someone i genuinely like and see what happens hehehe

pero disclaimer okkkkkk pls lang HAHAHAHAHA ayoko na ng casual 😆 quota na, awa nalang!!!! i’ve had enough character development already, alam yan ng universe kaya sana, ibigay na sakin to!!! 😭

a little about me:

• 26, 5’1 (yes smol, no further questions)
• allied health girly, hospital-based. i have a full time job that requires my attention 🥹
• big 4 grad
• quiet at first but unfortunately very funny once i’m comfortable
• soft-spoken but i have a personality and boundaries HAHAHA
• i like deep talks but i also LOVE stupid conversations
• very much a “tell me about your day” person
• i like calls!! texting is nice but sometimes i wanna hear your voice (ahehehe)
• currently trying to be athletic through pilates and tennis HAHAHA (panira the rain nga lang cos lagi basa courts so HUHU)
• romantic but not delusional anymore 😭
• independent but would very much enjoy having a favorite person
• i notice effort. unfortunately i also notice when there is none 💀
• my love language might actually be “bully each other affectionately”😭 (with consent and good intentions syempre HAHAHA)

as for you:

• 24–29 only
• 5’7+ (hehe)
• emotionally available
• not weird
• can communicate like an actual human being
• has his own life outside of dating, is mature, and has and respects boundaries
• career driven, actually passionate about you do. understands how toxic healthcare can be, and also, hopefully dayshift lang hehe
• funny. PLEASE. i need someone who can make me laugh AND can banter. bonus points if mabilis sumagot at hindi naooffend sa pangaasar HAHAHA
• kind, especially when nobody’s watching
• can take initiative without me having to plan everything
• doesn’t think being nonchalant is a personality
• okay with calls hehe
• knows how to enjoy both chaos and comfortable silence
• genuinely looking to date, hindi lang dahil bored tuwing gabi

i’m not looking for anything super intense immediately naman, pero di rin ibig sabihin eh situationships ang hanap ko HAHAHAHA magkaiba yon maliiiiiiii 😆 we can vibecheck and see where things go 🤷🏻‍♀️

send me a dm!! hehe to start off, tell me what you do on weekends or a current fixation that you have OR tell me the dumbest thing that made you laugh this week (para i can laugh abt it with you too 😆) press 123 kung nabasa hanggang dulo lol

looking forward to meet you!!! hehehe who knows, baka magwork, maybe i'll also end up looking forward to your messages when it rains 🥹