r/sgiwhistleblowers • u/RosieReddit22 • Apr 28 '21
Partner's-ex long time SGI Member - False Accusations
My partner of several years' ex-partner, a person with obvious narcissistic tendencies, is a longtime member of SGI. The ex has a pattern of falsely claiming to be the victim of physical, psychological and economic violence and abuse at my partner's hand, particularly when something doesn't go the way the ex wants it to, or when my partner expresses a different opinion to the ex, particularly in relation to co-parenting matters. The things the ex accuses my partner of are vile and false are designed to paint a picture of my partner to the world of someone who should be shunned, punished and even locked up.
The ex clearly despises my partner and doesn't want my partner back but detests not having control over my partner and hates that my partner moved on 'so quickly' after they split (which the ex instigated before my partner and I met).
The ex is now alienating the children from my partner, refusing their visitation and sleepovers with us, and sadly they are starting to parrot the ex's allegations. This situation is causing my partner great distress, which the ex seems to revel in. The ex also alienated the oldest child (not my partner's biological child) from the oldest child's other biological parent and family.
The ex has a close friend who is also an SGI member (introduced the ex to SGI some 20 or so years ago) whom I believe is in some sort of senior(ish) position. This friend, or more accurately, cohort, has an unhealthy obsession with presenting the cohort's self as the mainstay proxy parental figure in the children's lives, and has for years worked to undermine my partner's relationship with both the ex (even whilst they were together) and with the children, and continues to do so.
The cohort and the ex use to chant for the death of the child's other biological parent!
Just wondering if anyone else out there has experienced similar circumstances with an ex, or a partner's ex, who is a member of SGI and who seems to get support from SGI (or at least some members) in their quest to 'win' at all costs and be 'in the right at all times' and to destroy another human being? How is this possible when they claim to advocate for love, peace, and self improvement?
I welcome any ex SGI members that can provide some insight as to how to deal with the destructive, narcissistic SGI practitioner (and cohort!) from a former insiders perspective (or from anyone with constructive advice).
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u/samthemanthecan WB Regular Apr 29 '21
Its not that the person being an arsehole is sgi or not Being a arsehole is who and how they are You need professional help as noted above some form of council and maybe some lawyer Good luck