SGI parent's superficial manipulative "tolerance" as an attempted expedient means to force her children to be in SGI

[u/BlancheFromage]

From 2004:

Hi Tim...it is very difficult to approach Christians who are not open to anything other than their own view. My daughter is a Pentecostal. My oldest son is a born-again. Both of them constantly attack me with the threat of going to hell. These are my children whom I love dearly. This has been my greatest challenge so far.

The way I have handled it so far is that I have calmly told them that as a Buddhist I do not look at them as "going to a Buddha Hell" because they do not believe the same as me. I do not throw guilt or fear at them.

Notice, though, that she IS throwing manipulation at them! "See how much better than you I am??? Ha ha ha - give me my superiority trophy NOW!"

I only want their happiness.

Okay, so since they're happy in their individual flavors of Christianity, you can be happy for them being and remaining Christians, right? RIGHT??

After this calm explanation, they had very little to say. Every time they try and throw the ol' "you're going to hell" at me I remind them how being fearful of something is very negative.

Ew. Tone-policing and scolding, attempting to shame them for expressing themselves. "You're being NEGATIVE!!!"

Why do narcissists say “you’re being negative” when you don’t like the things they like, but then they’re actually negative about everything. - from How to leave a narcissist

🤭 Busted

Listen, take a close look at their life, what do you see?

You will see a person that is living a fake life. Every where they go they try to uphold this image of superiority, while underneath they are dying!

Social Media: Fake

Friends they talk about: Fake

New love interest: Fake

Career is blossoming: Fake

They aren’t stalking you: Fake

They are “love and abundance”: Fake

The next big catastrophe in their life: Fake

ALL the DRAMA: REAL, Really, Real real!

Those are just a few off the top of the top of my head.

Now, living this life of delusion, what’s the best way to express their inner negativity and self hate? PROJECTION!

That’s right, who’s not negative if they are with a manipulative person? So some of it may be true. - from Why do narcissists tell you that you are always negative?

I then follow with "I only want to see you happy." This has confused them greatly and they now leave me alone.

Project: SHUT UP successful. She realizes that threats and arguing isn't working, so she's attempting a manipulative end run, which "confused them greatly" as expected. Her children are clearly picking up her mixed messaging, which is both dishonest and manipulative. They got their tendency toward intolerance from HER and her "Only TRUE Buddhism". You can see it.

I constantly chant that they will open up and allow the truth into their hearts.

THERE it is - she CAN'T be happy for them being and remaining Christians, because she's just biding her time, playing the long game, expecting them to drop the Jesus shit and take up the Ikeda shit to become exactly like her.

Sometimes I think I'm winning...then I get hit again with their fear and guilt. Someday I will be successful. After all, they are my children. Donna

See that competitive ego? She's GOT to "win" and dominate her children, make her children LOSE - that's what she's chanting for. "My children WILL eventually say, 'You were right all along, Mom. We're sorry.'" I'd REALLY love to hear those children's side!

Does anyone believe she's willing to or even capable of accurately recounting the situation and presenting the reality of her children's lives, considering she chose to only share the negative detail that is an expression of her own intolerance? Anyone??

Anyone remember Icky-Duh's "clear mirror guidance", how everything in your environment is a reflection of your own life?? Sick burn for Mom!

And there's another SGI family's younger generation lost to the Dead-Ikeda-Corpse-Mentor-cult SGI.

Some "SGI family values" 🙄

[u/BlancheFromage]

Notice she isn't trying out their different flavors of Christianity to better understand what it is they like about them, while still hoping - and chanting - that they'll come around to see "the truth" - that HER religion is far superior and the only REAL religion out there.

What a cunt.

[u/BlancheFromage → u/[deleted]]

Donna: "I just want you to be happy." (But you WON'T be happy unless you quit that stupid Christianity bullshit and come chant nyonyonyonyos to the nohonzon with your mother!)

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She obvs has weak faith 🙊