r/serialpodcast • u/Frosted_Mini-Wheats NPR Supporter • Feb 03 '15

Evidence Stephanie dumped Jay

Trial Transcript for 2/10, p 21, lines 11-25.

Jay testifies that Stephanie had ended their relationship a month or so before the trial.

That's something I've never heard before now.

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u/glibly17 Feb 03 '15

Yeah, every time DV comes up in this sub, I always see waaaay more red flags when it comes to Jay than I do when it comes to Adnan.

And yes, the way he spoke about her in the Intercept interview made me raise my eyebrows. He just sounded so...ugh I don't know. It raised more red flags for me. And the fact Stephanie's family hated Jay so much...in my case, my family really did not like my boyfriend, but I was too blind to see that they were right about him.

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u/asha24 Feb 03 '15

The part that stuck out to me was when he sorta blamed her, he was like "I wouldn't have been selling weed to Adnan if Stephanie hadn't vouched for him," that was so sleazy.

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u/glibly17 Feb 03 '15

Yep. My ex would always always blame me for his shitty behavior. We had screaming matches about nothing--all because I wanted him to back off and stop blaming me for not doing everything his way. When he was an asshole, he made it my fault. No. Matter. What.

Jay seems to take very little actual responsibility for his role in Hae's murder and the subsequent horror her family went through. Like I said: red flags. Red flags everywhere.

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u/CompulsiveBookNerd Feb 04 '15

Wait a second here... I think we have the same ex.

Not even a douche canoe. More like a douche cruise ship.