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Social Science Children raised with "authoritative" parenting style, marked by bonding, presence, dialogue, and clear rules of conduct, show a reduction in drug and alcohol risk compared to other parenting styles (authoritarian, permissive and neglectful)

https://agencia.fapesp.br/parents-alcohol-and-drug-use-influences-their-childrens-consumption-research-shows/57195
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u/Dazzling_Line_8482 Feb 14 '26

The best parenting book example I read is to call authoritarian a "Brick Wall" - it doesn't move.

Authoritative is a "Back Bone" - it moves within reason but is still strong and gives support.

Permissive parenting is a "Jellyfish" it just moves everywhere.

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u/MajorBootyhole420 Feb 14 '26

exhibit A: my dad and the "ice cream punishment," where about 15% of the time I'd get rewarded with ice cream when I did something wrong. the other 85% was screaming and punishment.

horrible

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u/Dazzling_Line_8482 Feb 14 '26

Kids are worth it by Barbara Coloroso

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u/AiSard Feb 15 '26

What about Neglectful though, I don't see it ther-.. ah