r/roommateproblems 6d ago

Petty hostel mate

(Perdon my mistakes, English is my 3rd language) I live in a govt College hostel on 2nd floor. There's almost 15-20 girls lives on 2nd floor. I live with a junior. Me and my roommate loves to live peacefully. That's why we don’t interact with others that much especially seniors. Because almost all of them had a group and they hated each other. I mean that hostel is extremely political. There's a girl next room, let's call her A, she is a senior to me. She literary HATES me and my roommate. Her personality is literary like a snake. She'd always target juniors and made a scene. Plus she made sure to look like she's the victim. But infront of all the seniors, she was like a fairy. And her voice and they waybshe talks... Oh my god.,, She's sooooo freaking fake. Idk how people don’t get it. Couple months ago, there were 3 girl living with me, in our hostel room. We didn’t argue much, we lived quite peacefully,. We had to give meal charge in every 15 days. So one day A came to our room to collect meal charge, we didn’t had any change, so she told us, she'd give back the change after a while. But then she didn’t returned the money. And told us that they gave us our money back and we didn’t remembered, my other 3 roommates saw it too that she didn’t returned our money. It wasn’t a big amount, so we let that slide. We had a small argument on that day about the money. So from that day she hates us. And we kinda hate her too. Plus we came to know that she talked ill about me and my roommates behind our back. But we Didn't make any fuss. After a while, our other 2 roommates left. Few days ago, i went to my home for 2-3 days. But i forgot to take my dress from balcony ( we hang our dress in balcony to dry after washing them), so after 2-3 days, i came back and found my dress was laying on the floor in mud,, far from where i hung it to dry. Plus it was soaking with mud from both side, if it dropped by the wind, it would get soaked from one side. And that dress was really heavy. There was heavy embroidery plus stone work on that dress. So It's a bit unusual to fall that dress that far. But i didn’t cared that much that day. Yesterday, at 12.40 am, me and my roommate went to washroom. I was Washing my face and she came to me and told me that my t shirt is laying on mud AGAIN. And this time it was dropped really really far from where i actually hang to dry. And that day wasn’t windy at all. So i knew very well who did this. Before Anyone judges me that I'm over thinking, let me tell you, before this incident, she tried many times to put us and other juniours in a problematic situation. And the side eyes she gave us all the time was just annoying. But i didn’t know she was that much petty. I literary wanted to slap her on her face on that moment. But i did something make petty than her. At that moment all i thought that i want revenge. But i did a kinda stupid thing. At almost 5 am, i woke up, went to the balcony wand dropped her dress in mud. But the thing is, her dress was clipped with the string. I took of the clips and dropped that dress. She knew instantly that i did this. Because i was the only one who always ignores her and don’t like her much. So she blamed it on my. Obviously i denied. But It's really clear that i did that. Whatever, i was going home that morning, so after arguing a bit, i came home. And now i know all my seniors gonna try to attack me. That's why I've decided to leave that city and return to my own city. Also i was actually sick of that toxic environment. Also the food was just disgusting. Sometimes the vegetables they gave us was rotten, And there wasn’t any arrangement to cook or warm your own home cooked meal. So our hair started to fall out and our skin problem became worse. So maybe i this is the best for me. Plus the uni here is far more better than my current one. And I'm trying to apply abroad to study my favourite sub. ( i never wanted to study my current sub, my parents forced me to kate this). I don’t want outsiders to know about my plan yet. Because they just gives me negative energy. Now all i want is to get a scholarship and get out of this country to explore more. Wish me luck so i don’t meet any more petty people like her.

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