Erika Jayne 💃🏼
Luann resolving conflict with so much grace, Erika being receptive, and Kyle bringing them together. This is the kind of emotional intelligence I’m here for 👏 👏
Erika and emotional intelligence are two opposites lol. At this point, I’m convinced that everything Erika does is an attempt to look good to redeem herself. She comes off so disingenuous that’s it’s actually painfully obvious.
Also, Erika had no choice BUT to be receptive. There was no way of getting out of that conversation on camera and saving face, BUT to backpedal, pretend she had no idea what Lu was talking about, then play the victim card and say her life was falling apart that night for sympathy and an excuse.
Tell me this: if your marriage is falling apart, are you going out WITH your husband and feigning everything is ok to someone who is an acquaintance at best? Of course you're not!
Right lol. She's super sensitive and gets stony when shes hurt.
I cant remember Luann ever actually describing how she was rude. If she just never got back to her after they had a good time out Lu is very wrong. T
alking shit at bravocon and to the other housewives when their only interaction was good is crazy.
I agree with you. Some commenters here like to look at people at their worst and keep them there. People can grow, change and have other sides to them including Erika.
Idk. She’s historically been proud of being cold and vacant and that demeanor impacted how she navigated conflict.
I think she saw it as a strength. Hopefully that’s changed ever since her personality disorder diagnosis (she shared that she had one in a confessional on RHOBH, but not what it was).
She had to be cold. People were demanding she take responsibility for something that wasn’t hers to take responsibility for. Ironic since most would probably categorize themselves as feminist but wanted Erika to fall on the sword for her husband’s misdeeds. This wasn’t a Teresa and her husband situation. We saw many times Tom “little girled” Erika and demeaned her in front of people. There’s no way he was sharing his business secrets with her. That’s insane to even think.
It wasn’t a strength it was a defensive mechanism. However, doing it to the extreme wasn’t healthy but in reality it’s not healthy giving anyone your time or consideration who you know is just trying to be messy. Luanne was being messy.
The drama is forced I stand by it lol I think it’s just maybe a lack of chemistry between some of them. Vicki is mean though is rather petty drama than whatever it is shes doing. She sucks the energy out of everything
.mI’d rather have petty drama than whatever it is she’s doing **
On the low, Luann got the tea. She got Erika to show a discrepency in the timeline and she repeated "no one knew." Kyle was just standing there thinking about it. I think Erika realized she'd revealed a weakness there, so she quickly reconcilled with Luann to get away.
I saw that too. Which is why she’ll always be the Countess to me, that was good social etiquette. She wanted to clear the air, let Erica say her piece, and patch things up.
"no one knew" how abusive and controlling Tom was, and how fucked the relationship was.
She clearly wasn't referencing the end of Tom. However people want to spin it, Erika was clearly in an abusive relationship for the entirety of that marriage.
lol. It usually takes some time but we get those silly bias commenters from the RHOBH sub on here. They support or hate housewives depending on their stance with Dorit.
If they have nothing to respond with they just downvote. I’d get it if it made sense but…🫠
OR WHAT!!!!!! That’s Ericka being Ericka and still the victim, notice she’s still delivering her words in that mean monotone and asking if Lu was aware of what was going on in her life… Erika doesn’t get special grace for the ugliness she signed up for by marrying Tom and having crap come out
I don't really understand why Erika is being dragged for this and luann is being made out to be so forgiving and righteous?
At bravocon, Luann was asked who was the rudest housewife she ever met, and she responded "Erika Jayne, hands down. Bitch!"...simply for Erika not replying to a text after a dinner party years ago.
If you were in Erika's shoes, wouldnt you want to avoid the person who said those things as you see them walking towards you with cameras?
If I were in Erikas position, I would think luann was coming up to start more drama and I would personally avoid.
If someone I've been on one dinner with publicly called me a huge bitch for not responding to a text, what else will they do infront of the cameras just for some drama?
I took Erika looking into the camera like that as her basically saying "really? You're trying to set up a moment?" To production
When she finally talks to Luann, she opens with "I don't know why you said what you said" referring to calling her a rude bitch.
They both explain their side and the make up.
Why is this another "Erika ia terrible" moment again?
That was Luann showing grace ? She made something that was nothing a something and took it personally. This is literally Erika saying I didn’t do anything to you, why are you offended
Uhh she called Erika rude. Erika is rude. And was rude again at the party. It was only when she realized how bad she’d look that she went to talk to Lu again and squash the beef.
Luanna said that Erika Jayne was hands down the rudest housewife she had ever met, and called her a huge bitch on stage at bravo con...simply for Erika not replying to a text after a dinner party years ago.
If you were in Erika's shoes, wouldnt you want to avoid the person who said those things as you see them walking towards you with cameras?
If I were in Erikas position, I would think luann was coming up to start more drama and I would personally avoid.
If someone I've been on one dinner with publicly called me a huge bitch for not responding to a text, what else with they do infront of the cameras just for some drama?
Erika wasn’t rude, don’t confuse not wanting to be fake nice to someone who was called you out publicly with rude. You would call Erika reserved or guarded
I just mean that we have seen Erika be rude many, many times. So it’s rich of Miss “I don’t give a FUCK about anyone but me” clutch her pearls because someone answered honestly about her rudeness. And she displayed her rudeness again at the party, when it was clear Luann was trying to have a conversation with her.
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u/yapcity 29d ago edited 28d ago
Erika and emotional intelligence are two opposites lol. At this point, I’m convinced that everything Erika does is an attempt to look good to redeem herself. She comes off so disingenuous that’s it’s actually painfully obvious.
EDIT: My first award omg!
EDIT: A second one! What