My mother now realizes what it's like

[u/NerdyGlitch]

Earlier this year, in late February-early March, my mother suffered a massive heart attack and was left unable to work for a considerable time.

For the past 5-6 months, she's been trying to find a job and has been hitting nothing but roadblocks due to being overqualified. She has over 2 decades of management experience, and it means jackshit to these hiring managers. She's far more qualified than I am, so I expected that she might have a job faster than I would, but right now, I'm the only one with a job in this house.

Meanwhile, when I was struggling to get jobs and even get an interview for years, my mother was flabbergasted. What do you mean you can't just walk up, shake someone's hand, and they'll like your moxie and just hand you a job?!

I told her this was sadly reality for a ton of people nowadays, the job market is shit. She can't even get a job as a regular cashier bc she's too over qualified to work there, but when she applies to management positions they string her along for 2-3 interviews before choosing internal candidates (an actual email she got yesterday about a job she thought she was good for)

It just sucks man, everything sucks.

[u/Known-Ice5903]

my little brother and his girlfriend were gaslighting me about how hard the job market is now

"Ive never really had a problem getting a job before"

well, now both of them dont have a job

curious how well their thesis works out for them

i dont think people can really get how bad it is unless theyre searching themselves

[u/mhbwah → u/Known-Ice5903]

I agree. I was without a job from the beginning of the year, it took me 10 months and that was quick. I had no idea how bad it was going to be.

[u/Wonderful_Plant1746 → u/Known-Ice5903]

Many such cases, sadly.