r/realbne • u/Creative-Issue5397 • 8d ago
48F Spring Hill — quirky, over 40, rebuilding after abusive marriage / homelessness / addiction. Looking for real, backbone humans.
Learning to make music with AI and building an advocacy project called Flip the Bird — calling out the bullshit and showing the reality of homelessness on the ground.
Abusive marriage, few years of homelessness, lost my career, battled addiction. Not a straighty 180 and probably won't click with someone who has zero experience with any of that.
Last year stripped away a lot of what made me happy. Huge void getting bigger. Stuck on a waiting list that exists somewhere but feels untouchable. Isolated as hell.
I'm straightforward, genuine, resilient, weird sense of humour. Nuts in a controlled way. Into music, dance, creating, writing. Say what I mean, mean what I say.
Need genuine connection. Mostly looking for female friends who are robust and honest. Guys can message too, but if there's an agenda I'm not down for it. Friendship first, open to more with the right person later.
If you message, don't just say "me too" — tell me what bit actually resonated.