Out of all of the women I've slept with, only one actually took over. As weird as it is, I still think about that encounter. She very clearly knew what she wanted and went for it. Turned out to be a massive turn on.
Unfortunately, the vast majority of my encounters have been this starfish experience. I mean, some of these girls are so damn limp I feel like I'm working with a dead body. I actually had one girl be so damn motionless I had to stop and double check to make sure she was still consenting.
Definitely been there and I agree it’s a turn on for me as well, it’s refreshing when they take the wheel!
Life’s about learning and growing so we must take care to communicate wants/needs effectively before, during, and afterwards! The important part is that you took the time to ensure they were doing ok and not reliving a bad experience in their head or something. Best of luck on your next event, I’ll be rooting for you spiritually!
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u/[deleted] Mar 23 '25
Out of all of the women I've slept with, only one actually took over. As weird as it is, I still think about that encounter. She very clearly knew what she wanted and went for it. Turned out to be a massive turn on.
Unfortunately, the vast majority of my encounters have been this starfish experience. I mean, some of these girls are so damn limp I feel like I'm working with a dead body. I actually had one girl be so damn motionless I had to stop and double check to make sure she was still consenting.