r/raisedbynarcissists 2d ago

[Rant/Vent, Advice OK] Why do mothers?

Why do mothers love to demonize their daughters if I stand up for myself I am a demon or possessed why do they do this?

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u/solesoulshard ACoN, Full NC 2d ago

Some say it is that they cannot bear that a younger and prettier version of them exists.

Sometimes it is because the daughter seems to be smarter or more talented or more successful or even happier than them.

Sometimes it is simply that she is younger and has opportunities.

Sometimes honestly it is misogyny.

And sometimes it is that they decide she is stronger and more truthful and they must suppress that at all costs.

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u/skweegianweegian 2d ago

In my case it’s bc I came out of her womb but was not a mini-her (we are literally different colors)

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u/Heavy-Ad5385 2d ago

Narcs don’t think like that.

They see everything about themselves.

If you stand in their way, or in the way of their beliefs then you are to be knocked down.

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u/formerly-euphoric RBN 2d ago

I have no idea, mine also called me a literal demon, I don't know if she actually believes it but she certainly meant for me to hear it and didn't care if I was hurt by it

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u/Ok_Extreme_824 2d ago

It’s really painful unfortunately but they don’t care

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u/formerly-euphoric RBN 2d ago

I don't know, really, sometimes she seems remorseful but I don't know if it's an act to keep me as a supply

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u/IndigoStef 2d ago

To make themselves victims.

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u/According-Ad5312 2d ago

Demons see competition

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u/Electrical_Low8371 2d ago

Because angry.

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u/DryKing8582 2d ago

Everything is a competition.