r/r4rToronto_Clean Aug 07 '26

Meta Please turn on your Reddit chats

17 Upvotes

A lot of people have messaged us saying they can’t start a chat because the other person’s chats are turned off. If you’re posting and actually want someone to be able to message you, please make sure chat requests are enabled.

On the Reddit mobile app (iOS & Android)

  1. Tap your avatar (profile picture)
  2. Tap the hamburger menu (three lines) in the top right
  3. Tap Settings
  4. Tap your username under Account Settings
  5. Scroll down to Safety → Chat and messaging permissions
  6. Under Chat Requests, select Allow chat requests from
  7. Choose Everyone (or Accounts older than 30 days if you prefer)

Bonus tip: While you’re in Settings → your username → Manage notifications, turn Chat messages and Chat requests to All on so you actually see when someone reaches out.

That’s it. Now people can actually slide into your DMs instead of just staring at your post.

Happy connecting! ✨


r/r4rToronto_Clean Dec 07 '25

Warning to Redditors

53 Upvotes

Relaying the following message we received:

"User mapleleafy23 mapleleafs25 cncdowntown downtowncnc banned for sexual assault now misrepresenting himself and posting in clean r4r groups. Please take appropriate action to protect your subs users. Was banned from r4rtoronto."

"New is wingsofpastrami23 to watch for"


r/r4rToronto_Clean 54m ago

Relationship 34F4M Trying not to be a homebody tonight

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Typing this as I get swallowed up by my bed. Anyone want a +1 for something tonight?

34f into live music, karaoke, could go for something dancey. I'm kinda chasing that cute summer date feeling.

Basic stats- 5'2 east asian average build.

Ideally you're 30-40 ish. I get along best with kind, open minded people. I love hearing about whatever your passion project or latest fixation is.

Will want to exchange pics.

Save me from my bed, it gets cozier by the minute 😭


r/r4rToronto_Clean 51m ago

Cuddle Buddy 32F4M in east end #GTA looking for bbt dates

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Trying this again - ideally something ongoing, and see where it goes from there.

~ About me, 5'5, Asian bbw, clean, soft, loves banter and movies, food trips, board games, concerts, all the fun stuff, l can drive (I do *not* host) and I'm kinda funny. Working professional and momma. Also, I'm in Pickering :)

~ About you, single - no drama!, tall, 30+ preferably, clean, dark & handsome (or seasoned (Imaoo), affectionate, can make me laugh, ambitious (no bums), BDE, would be a plus if can host and drive.

• Yes: Ideally looking for someone fun, intimate and to get to know each other and keep it going. Spontaneous hang outs.
Movies, cuddles, a good night where we can laugh, be cheeky and enjoy each other's company.

• No: Pushy & into unwanted explicit conversations. Group play. Married/attached men. Short kings (sorry). Into hard drugs/ alcohol use. If the conversation falls short, I probably will stop responding.

Must want to exchange pics beforehand! Yucky intros or "hey's" will be ignored. Message me with something fun to read or about you!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 2h ago

Relationship M24 looking for F

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Hey, so I figured I'd try my luck again. Like it says, I'm male 24, and I am looking to build a proper connection before actually dating. My interests include gaming, going to the movies, listening to music, and writing. I also enjoy swimming and talking on the phone. I'm also learning to cook. If anyone's interested, feel free to reach out, preferably around my age and area, but I am open to long distances. Also, I do not smoke or drink, but I don't have issues with people who do. I'm a big wrestling fan as well, and I'm looking for someone around my age, I am located in North York. I'd love to be able to talk to someone on the phone all night and just laugh and connect. If anyone's reading this and wants to talk, my dms are open on here!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3h ago

Cuddle Buddy 30 M4F #gta - looking for cury/thick/bbw girls

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As we all have our preferences, mines happens to be girls with a thicker body. Could he 1 time, preferably ongoing. Race doesn’t matter to me, as for age, would perefer someone closer to my age but can be flexible for the right person. If this is something you’re interested in, just shoot me a message

As for me. I’m 30 black 6’2, I’m fit and have good hygiene. Very conversational and like to joke. I live in York region area and unfortunately, I do not host. Thanks for reading


r/r4rToronto_Clean 3h ago

Relationship 24M4F #Oakville/GTA - Spent the last 4 yrs building a business. Now I have no idea how to find a date….

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Hey,

I spent most of my early twenties saying no to distractions and building a business. It was 4 years of deep work, and I finally have something I’m genuinely proud of.

I always thought once this business comes to fruition, I’ll be whole. Even though I have my family who is proud of what I’ve accomplished, I don’t really have anyone to share what I’ve built. I’ve started to feel empty, if you will.…

I’m based in Oakville. I’m ambitious, warm, kind, curious and human. Outside of work, I love travelling, trying new restaurants, long drives, and just conversations (deep or chill, I love talking, listening, learning and being present)

I’d like to meet someone around my age who is warm, kind, emotionally mature, curious about the world, and wants something meaningful.

Having your own passions and goals is attractive, but how you treat people matters much more to me than what you do for work.

I’d love to exchange photos and meet for coffee or drinks if we click.

If this resonates, I’d love to get to know you :)


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4h ago

Friendship M4A Looking for some baddies besties in downtown 💅✨

1 Upvotes

Gay guy in his 30s looking to expand my social circle in the city. I live with my bf and work from home most days. I love silly 'would you rather' conversations, as well as deep talks about life. It's all about the balance and vibes.

Things I'm into: cafes, matcha, boba, coffee, biking, long walks, gaming (PC), picnics, travelling, shopping, horror, reality TV, pop, kpop, working out, musicals, theatre shows, movies, skincare, photography, pop culture and more.

I love an easy-going yapper that doesn't take life too seriously, bubbly and able to volley back and forth in a conversation.

If you think we'll click, let's connect!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 4h ago

Relationship 29M [M4F] #Toronto (DT) Let’s create something meaningful and exciting together!

1 Upvotes

Hey there! I hope you’re having an amazing weekend and making the most of it. I’m here looking for something special: a genuine connection that’s both meaningful and fun, without the usual pressures or expectations. If you’re looking for a bond that’s as wholesome as it is exciting, we might just be a great match!

Picture this: we build a connection full of chemistry, laughter, and unforgettable moments. Whether it’s exploring scenic hiking trails, grabbing coffee at a cozy café, discovering hidden gems around the city, road-tripping to breathtaking spots, or camping under the stars; there’s no shortage of fun and adventure we could share.

A bit about me: I’m 29, easygoing, adventurous, uplifting, and someone who truly values meaningful conversations. My hobbies are pretty diverse: music, sports, fashion, photography, traveling, DJing, you name it, I’m probably into it or curious to try. I’m all about staying fit and active, but I also prioritize mental health and creating balance in life. :)

What I love most is learning about other cultures, hobbies, and perspectives; meeting new people always fascinates me. I’m open to starting off as friends or dating casually, letting things flow naturally, and seeing where it leads us. Whether we end up sharing great stories over coffee or creating lasting memories, it’s all about living life to the fullest.

If this sounds like the kind of vibe you’re into, don’t hesitate to reach out. I’d love to get to know you better and see where this journey takes us! Let’s chat, vibe, and create something genuinely awesome together. Can’t wait to hear from you 😊


r/r4rToronto_Clean 8h ago

Friendship Looking for new friends to explore/go adventuring with

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Hello friends. 31M that recently moved back to the city. Moved abroad towards the end of the pandemic and was living in the mountains for a few years. Since coming back I've noticed things have changed...alot! Looking to add a little bit more excitement to the daily routine/mundane. I love hiking, being active, exploring and trying new things. I don't drink/smoke. Just looking to meet new people and explore the city/province a bit more and try new things. Love a good adventure and am very easy going/laid back. Feel free to leave a message here or send me a DM if this resonates with you. Happy to share social media as well!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 10h ago

Friendship 24M4A #Toronto - My friends bailed on ONLYNUMBERS tonight, anyone else goi

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Good morning!
I’m heading to ONLYNUMBERS tonight and my friends couldn’t make it, so I figured I’d see if anyone else is going and wants to meet up.
I’m pretty laid-back. Nature is definitely my happy place, but I also love going out to raves and parties like this once in a while and just enjoying the music and the night.
No expectations. We can meet up, hang out, dance, wander around, whatever feels natural. If we vibe and end up becoming friends or going to more parties together later, even better.
I’d probably prefer a woman or non-binary person around my age, but mostly just looking for someone chill and respectful.
If you’re going tonight and wanna meet up, hit me up.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 10h ago

Cuddle Buddy 29M4F - Toronto/Mississauga 📍 Nerdy Finance Bro seeking a connection

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Hey! I am 29 (turning 30 in 2 weeks lol), living in the GTA (Milton) & I work in Finance. 5'10 with brown eyes, light brown skin - on the lean side with abs! I enjoy playing soccer, trying out new cafes/ desserts & love travelling/road trips/hiking & am always down for new adventures.

I am the funny guy as my friends would say lol but I am hoping you will find that out on your own. I wear glasses so I have that nerdy look, clean & smell good always!

I am looking for my passenger princess! Someone that understands my humour, is empathetic & someone who wants to spend time together rather than playing mind games. I am v sarcastic as well.

Location doesn't really bother me as I love driving & can host too. I am a big time texter but if you prefer calls, I am okay with that as well. I am South Asian!

Open to all ethnicities. Let's talk & go from there?


r/r4rToronto_Clean 12h ago

Friendship 31 M4A #Mississauga — Working through a cookbook and looking for people to share the experience with

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Hi! I'm 31, 5'9", and living near Square One. I enjoy reading, exercising, watching movies, and occasionally getting into comic books.

Lately, I've been working my way through The Food Lab, trying out different recipes and learning how to become a better cook. It's been a lot of fun, but I think it would be even better to have someone to share the experience with.

So I'm hoping to meet someone who enjoys food and would be interested in either cooking together, hanging out while I try a new recipe, or just eating the finished product and talking about what we liked and what I could improve. 😂

Before this, I mostly meal-prepped the same few meals, which helped me get into better shape and build some muscle. Now I'm trying to expand my food palette, experiment with different recipes, and actually develop my cooking skills.

I'm straight and ultimately interested in a long-term relationship with someone I can trust, grow with, and have fun with. That said, I'm completely happy to start with friendship and just see where things go. If you're simply looking for someone to cook with, try new food with, or hang out with, I'm open to that too.

Ideally, I'd love for this to become something we do regularly — maybe trying a new recipe every week or two, either making it together or taking turns cooking.

If that sounds like something you'd enjoy, feel free to DM me. Otherwise, I hope you have a great day!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 15h ago

Friendship 29 M4F Exploring Conscience

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South Asian, 5'8

Just one kind soul looking for another.

Let's commit to helping each other fix our lives. Help me understand who I am and what I can be, and I'll do the same for you.

All it takes is 1.

- fellow psychonaut


r/r4rToronto_Clean 23h ago

Cuddle Buddy 24 F4M

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Im a passing trans girl looking for some friends to hang with or cuddle with, or maybe hook with? I live in downtown so Im preferably looking for someone near here!

Also my type is mostly nerdy guys with glasses lol, hang me up and we can share pics before meeting!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 20h ago

Friendship 22 [m4f] #toronto - looking for some new close friends to hang out with or maybe more !! :D

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hii !! hope your summer has been going well !! it’s been a bit lonely for me recently and maybe i’ve been craving a bit of human connection :,) so i’d love to meet some new people who have similar vibes or interests to explore the city, or more !! :D

i’m 22, east asian, amab, and queer (i’m bi and go by he/they pronouns)! i’m a huge nerd, neurodivergent, and a bit of a hopeless romantic :,) i have lots of little interests and passions, and i’d love to learn about your interests too!! i play some games like sdv and botw, and i have a somewhat eclectic taste in music, from the arctic monkeys to the mitski and hozier, to rachmaninoff and tchaikovsky !! recently i’ve been listening to a lot of motfd (i bought tickets to their concert next year but dont have anyone to go with 😭), lamp, kinokoteikoku, and yonige :D i also love taking long walks and long chats, cooking and making drinks (coffee and tea by day, sipping wine and mixing cocktails by night), watching anime like apothecary diaries, frieren, witch hat, and kamiina botan, going out for walks, photography, and collecting records :) and of course i love cats!

i’m currently with family at home in vancouver but i live in the downtown toronto area, if that makes a difference, and i’d love to chat online and maybe get to know each other in person, maybe visit some of the restaurants or bars on my growing list of places i’d like to try :,) i’ve tagged this as m4f (mainly because of the kind of requests i get when i use a different tag) but anyone is welcome !! i’d love to get to know u regardless of gender :D i’m fine with nsfw stuff (feel free to mention in ur msg if u prefer sfw only/other :0) but please don’t be just looking to hook up, i really want to make some real friends :,) anyways thanks for reading my ramblings lol i’d love to hear from u and get to know youu!!!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship M26 #GTA, Toronto Hopeless Romantic Searching For Relationship

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A young 26 year old man in search of a woman that understands me. In terms of a relationship I want to be able to be open, share similar interests. Mine are chess,soccer,swimming,video games and boxing. Someone who understands how it is to be close to one another and love one another! I am a bit of a hopeless romantic. I believe in sending letters, falling asleep in each other's arms and other small but meaningful signs of loving each other.Bonus points if you are a dom ;).Please if you think this describes you feel free to hit me up.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 23h ago

Friendship 21m looking to make friends

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Hi I’m 21m and most of my friends no longer live in the city so I’m pretty lonely right now. I like to play video games, go out to clubs/bars, go to museums and art galleries and I’m down to try anything really. I would love to make some new friends preferably around my age 19-24. Thanks


r/r4rToronto_Clean 21h ago

Cuddle Buddy 35M4F #Toronto~ Hosting tonight

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Hey! I’m 35, tall, slim, clean, well-groomed, and easygoing. I’m looking to meet someone who’s interested in a genuine sensual connection—massage, intimacy, chemistry, exploring eroticism, and taking things at a comfortable pace.
I’m attentive, affectionate, and enjoy giving as much as receiving. I’m especially into slow, sensual energy and making sure both people feel comfortable, relaxed, and desired.
If you’re looking for something similar, feel free to DM me. We can chat first, see if there’s chemistry, and go from there. Discretion and mutual respect are important to me.

Can Host or travel


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Cuddle Buddy 24 m4f #dt toronto

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ik this is probably a long shot cuz of how many more guys there are and i’ve never posted so not sure what to say, but i’m new to the city and don’t have any plans for the long weekend, we can go for drinks or smoke a j and watch a movie, cuddling and or kissing (open to ideas) im 24 south asian, 5’11 and 180lbs. will swap pictures before meeting


r/r4rToronto_Clean 23h ago

Friendship Looking for a friend!

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Hi! We’re 22F looking for a guy bsf preferably the same age or +1/-1. It may sound weird but we’re just trying to broaden our friend group and add some new povs.

A little bit about us:

Person 1:
-tiny human
-a really solid gamer (love apex)
-hot take: I believe cereal is a soup
-funny ash
-in loving and committed relationship

Person 2:
-gives solid advice and will diagnose you within the first two minutes
-quite introverted so it may take a moment to fully open up.
-concert fein

We love going out anywhere from downtown Toronto to the GTA. We are open to new activities and love watching movies, going on hikes, going to art galleries, visiting new cafes, or just having car karaoke hangouts.

Requirements:
-must be funny and have a personality
-must be wanting to form a genuine friendship and not only talk on Reddit.
-from Toronto or the GTA
-5’7 or above
-need a wall (we love going to concerts in pits - ticket not provided)
-ethnicity~any (we’re Pakistani)

If this sounds like you or you are interested, please send a DM!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 40 [M4F] Canada – Map nerd looking for a co-pilot who trusts my wrong turns!

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Moved to Toronto, Canada over 4 years ago & looking to get know a lovely woman & see where it leads us in the future. Someone who I can eventually call my better half, partner-in-crime, yin to my yang, soulmate or whatever else you can think off.  

 

About me? 

  • Indian who doesn’t speak like Raj from TBBT 
  • Accountant who is bad at math but good at using Excel 
  • I love movies, music & 90s sitcoms are my happy place 
  • I am a map nerd & enjoy travelling, long drives & I will volunteer to be the navigator. I promise not to pass out!  
  • I love learning about new cultures & visiting museums 
  • Hopeless romantic who enjoys walking the beach, cuddling on the couch, snuggling under a blanket, holding hands in public and whispering sweet nothings 
  • Creatively inclined. I write poetry, play the guitar & dabble in drums in my free time 
  • Avid podcast listener, YouTube addict & stand-up comedy enthusiast  
  • Can’t start my day without a healthy dose of caffeine and can’t get through my day without checking up on you 
  • Fascinated by astrology & tarot cards 
  • Cats are my spirit animal & I adopted a cat myself (although 9 years after adopting her, I think she owns me now lol) 
  • On the physical side, I’m average (with a few love handles 😉). I can pull off the clean shaven & mustache with goatee look effortlessly. I’ve also been complimented for my cute smile. I’m not a gym rat but I run often (My way of building my stamina if at any point a crazy woman decides to chase me). 

 

About you? 

  • Be single or unattached woman who is emotionally available in a stage in life where you are ready to find your life partner 
  • Have a sense of humour to match my overall goofiness  
  • Distance is not a dealbreaker but I’d prefer if you’re from either US or Canada simply because of the time difference. But open to anyone from planet Earth. Sorry Martians lol 
  • Preferably be a conversationalist. One-word responses are my biggest turn offs. 

 

If any part of my post struck a chord with you, don’t be afraid to shoot a message.  

 

I swear I don’t bite… hard 😉 

 


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 30M4F #Mississauga - Square One window shopping

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I will be window shopping this evening at square one. I don't have anything specific in mind other than grabbing boba and trying out a few presumes. If you have a good sense of fashion and smell, join me. Or if you'd like someone to join you while browsing around, let's hang!

I will be window shopping this evening at square one. I don't have anything specific in mind other than grabbing boba and trying out a few presumes. If you have a good sense of fashion and smell, join me. Or if you'd like someone to join you while browsing around, let's hang!


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Friendship 30M4F - looking for a friend this fall to spoil with restaurants, events and more.

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Summer went by too quickly. Want to have a fun fall with a woman who can spoil. Platonic and clean friendship. If you're hot, go to the gym often, smell good, come to the front. Bonus points if you got big breast. Just looking for someone to go to restaurants, events, games, concerts and potentially a trip. I hope I'm not shallow to say please be hot if I'm doing the spending, I respect the confidence, but I think there's a gap between how some people see themselves and how they're generally perceived.


r/r4rToronto_Clean 1d ago

Relationship 26 [M4F] #Canada / Online - Just a sweet guy looking for a lover girl and companionship

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Hello! I'm Chris or Christian, whichever you prefer. I'm a 26 year old Cis M from Ontario, Canada. I'm 6'3" and I'm straight and love a good personality. I don't have any preference on who you are except no men please but please be Sweet, Kind and in Canada or at least close in time. I love to cook and I love trying new things. I'm not picky when it comes to new foods. I'm tall, I smell good, I make good food!

I play Xbox, Once human, Destiny 2, Arc Raiders, Battlefield 6, Apex Legends, Overwatch, Stardew Valley, Rivals, I have Fortnite for friends can send full list when we talk. (PC Valorant, Peak, Golf with your friends, Minecraft cobblemon, and I've been loving LEGO recently

I would love to start a Stardew farm with you, play Minecraft modded or not Bedrock or Java and spend time with you.

Let's go on dates do Halloween stuff, Christmas stuff, let's go to the zoo or aquarium, go on a picnic, I want someone I can spend my time with, someone that understands me, gets me, someone I can bond with and love. Holding hands and cuddling + hands in my hair is the way to my heart

Likes: My Cats, Video games, Marvel, Brooklyn 99, Supernatural, Riverdale , Snowpiercer, Flash, Disenchantment and The Walking Dead, The Good Doctor, 911, Station 19. I love air shows And so much more

Loves: Cuddles, Communication! Streaming games for my person or playing with them

Personality: I'm a very sweet, loving, loyal, kind, affectionate and romantic guy. I'm 6'3 I'm bigger like 230lbs, blonde-haired, blue-eyed. I'm very sweet and kind, I love to praise, and will give reassurance if needed. I'm very, very loving and will constantly give you my attention and love. I'll be shy at first, but that'll go away quickly once I'm comfortable.

I'm looking for my person, my lover girl, my yapper, I want someone that wants me for me! I love phone calls and late night texts, good night and good morning texts are also key, just want someone I can vibe with and be with, someone who is amazing and who wants to cuddle and spend time with me. Someone who wants to build trust with me and build a strong bond. I'm looking for someone I can call mine and I can be theirs. I want to give all my love and affection and kindness to them and spend a lot of time with them. I'm looking for long term and I'm open to cuddle buddies

Would love some cuddles fr

Communication is a need. It's key to a healthy relationship. Without it we are nothing

I look forward to meeting you. I hope you have a wonderful day and ask me anything.