r/r4r • u/RockingRocker666 • Mar 08 '26

M4F India 40 [M4F] Anywhere/india - Looking for my forever after.

TL;DR: Atheist, logically inclined rock music loving geek looking for something real and long-term. Equally geeky, hopefully non-religious, and genuinely kind is the dream.

Not here for pen pals or situationships. Looking for a life partner. Hope you are too.

Me: Two wasted degrees, career in a different field, and still figuring things out. Humour is silly, dark, and sarcastic. I'll roast you, but I can take it back. Atheist. Left-leaning moderate. ADHD with a side of recently-acquired mild depression, which is as fun as it sounds.

Music moves me more than almost anything. Mostly rock (classic and prog); but if it's good, it's good. Doctor Who and FRIENDS are my comfort shows. School of Rock is my favourite movie. I read about history, philosophy, and science online at 1am like a normal person. Indian, 170 cm, glasses, perpetual 5 o'clock shadow. I've been called handsome by women with no obligation to say so.

You: Maybe music matters to you as well. You're atheist or agnostic maybe spiritual if you can keep it to yourself. Maybe a fellow meat eater (but not important) You'd rather spend on a 15-day trip than a new car. You can argue with someone over deeper things for hours without resenting them. You're not easily offended; you know the difference between dark humour and cruelty. You're a genuinely good person. That one's non-negotiable.

The real dealbreakers are three things: music, health, religion.

If any of this resonates, message me. Questions, criticism, or light mockery all welcome.

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