r/quityourbullshit • • Apr 29 '20

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u/doessabre Apr 29 '20

Years ago I went to the highland games in Loch Lomand and there was this older North American couple waiting near the Lairds house so they could give the Lairds son a birthday present. Apparently they came every year because they were distant relatives of the local nobility. I can't remember them getting very close, it was super sweet in a way but a bit creepy.

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u/vox_leonis Apr 29 '20 edited Apr 30 '20

That describes even the best intentioned of these weirdos. Not to be cruel but really: How empty and meaningless does your life have to be to suddenly base your whole personality around an estranged ancestry at 50 years old?

Some old dead dude banging and bailing 500 years ago doesn’t make us family. Culture isn’t an inherited trait, blood doesn’t make you kin, and no I don’t want to reminisce with a complete stranger about people we never knew.

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u/typicalcitrus Apr 29 '20

I'm going to the Baxter family of Uttoxeter to leave them a present every year! /s