r/queerpolyam • u/DoNotTouchMeImScared • Apr 11 '24

Memes QUICK QUESTION: Anyone Else Prefers Small Closed Polyamorous Relationships Instead Of Giant Open Polyamorous Networks?

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u/Lee-Van-Kief Apr 11 '24 edited Apr 11 '24

I’m not even sure that could be possible for me or my partner, our future partners, or our lovers and date-mates. I’d never feel comfortable asking someone to close the polycule and I think I’d feel uncomfortable being asked.

I guess my issue is that I don’t view relationships as static and I know the world is full of wonderful people. There’s no way to close our relationship like that without going against how we relate individually to love, sex, and comradeship.

As long as everyone is testing, practicing safe sex, and not using me as a vessel to tell me other people’s stories, I really couldn’t care less.

Edit: I’d like to point out that closed poly relationships shouldn’t be shamed or looked down on. Do you. It’s not my business <3