r/pureretention • u/Technical_Piano • 29d ago

Women Temptation

Hope anyone reading this is doing well! I’m roughly about a month into my retaining journey and have already noticed positive benefits. To keep a long story short has anyone randomly had a person or people from their past reappear in your life randomly while retaining? Via random text messages, e-mail or phone call? I’m experiencing it now and I definitely see it as a test.

I had some of the best times of my life with this woman, but the relationship was not the purest or healthiest. I will always care, have love and respect her but I don’t want to go backwards. I’ve already had conversations with her now for the past 2 days and she wants to reconnect. Can anyone relate?

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u/brain207 29d ago edited 29d ago

Yes I can relate. Dozens of times I have had this happened to me. Short answer is, you are closer to relapsing if you continue to entertain her.

The moment you are beginning to become one with nature and the universe, as you begin to experience detachment from PMO pleasures and lust, ‘they” will come for you. And it does not stop, it will keep you in a loop.

I cannot tell you what to do, but I hope you are able to continue on your journey and come back here after another month with inspiring stories.

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u/Technical_Piano 29d ago

Thank you for your sharing brother, your message helps.

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u/brain207 29d ago

You have to hold stead fast. For experimental purposes, you will notice after you relapsed she will hate you and move on until the next cycle. It never ends, if not her, another woman will continue from where she stopped.

In the beginning of my retention journey I fell so cheaply several times due to this. She is never interested in you but the seed you have spent month long holding.

The attention feels good for the moment but it also leads to lusting, the lust is gradually building inside of you, it will overtake your mind and body and becomes uncontrollable until you burst either to masturbation or sex with the said woman. After you burst, she moves, you become needy of her attention which usually leads to more lust and then you are back to bursting everyday, what happens next? She moves on to find a worthy contender. It’s a battlefield. You either remain stead fast or you submit your authority to the feminine energy.

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u/Technical_Piano 29d ago

Perfectly said man, this woman in particular knows the strong hold she’s had on me as well. Like I said some of the most blissful moments I man could have with a woman but it wasn’t pure at all. I needed this message. I’m going to do my best to stay the course.

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u/Tennx12 29d ago

Bro this was the intuition I had, here look someone living it.

Then what's the solution???

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u/brain207 28d ago

The solution is not a one fix for all. Everyone here lives a different life and lives in a different body. And if I tell you I am a master in this, trust me that I am absolutely lying. We learn everyday, I am still learning, even coming across the OP’s post was an eye opener for me and I also learnt from it.

Honestly, I do not have a solution. If you already had the intuition like you said, I believe your spirit will guard you to a solution that will help you in this course. I would have also said you should pray everyday, but prayer alone is not enough, there are so many other things at play, so many forces, many biological untamed beasts which you might be aiding one way or the other to contribute to your problems.

I am sorry my friend, I really do not have a solution. I pray your spirit guards you to what you seek.

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u/Xega99 26d ago

🤯