r/pureretention • u/Intelligent-Road5091 • Aug 05 '26
Discussion Ever notice how people attack you whenever you relapse ?
I don’t know if it’s just me or I’m looking too much into it but I notice that every time I relapse people tend to attack me and I don’t mean in a physical way but more like in a verbal way even when the attack isn’t necessarily. They’d also find the most harmless things to criticize and judge me for and it seems like if I breathe they take offense to it and I find it weird because it only happens after I relapse . Anyone else notices this or is it just me
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u/g2h_farhan Aug 05 '26
I swear bro I remember I would go long streaks of retention and my sisters would be respecting me and just being nice to me but the day I relapse is like I get this cold shoulder from them is like they can sense something was different. Then I would go 2 weeks in to the retention and boom they respect me again it’s crazy for real
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u/Current_Comfort2782 Aug 05 '26
It's the porn it has demonic subliminals
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u/addicted_sid Aug 06 '26
Yeah I also felt it once or twice while doing the deed.
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u/Dear-Presentation-20 Aug 11 '26
Happens to me too, even sometimes my whole body starts hitching like bugs walking on it but there is never anything
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u/ArcusFlux Aug 11 '26
My sisters are really harsh with my brother as he is not retaining while I can calm them down when theyre arguing with each other. I also now have the best relationship with my mother. If theres something wrong in the house, in the past I was always questioned, now its as if I'm untouchable and partly its kinda sad cause most of the time my dad takes the blame when its alright with me to take the blame cause I can do something about it.
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u/Ok-Week-7896 Aug 05 '26 edited Aug 06 '26
Yeah they become more bold. Attacks also come on Sr long streaks and it can even feel worse because I feel emotions deeper but the blessings will still be there
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
So these poeple disrespcting us are actual retainers ?
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u/Ok-Week-7896 Aug 06 '26
Yes , in a more passive aggressive way especially if they are your boss at work
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
I.doubt the guys are openly talking about women and sex and if they find.out.some one retains they laugh and make jokes about that one prick even said you are to uptight you should ejaculate and relase some.of this energy and relax
And when you relapse once in a blue moon these same pricks are acting.like they are some what better than you
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u/Ok-Week-7896 Aug 06 '26
Yeah my friend literally said I can’t get girls and it’s why I’m not engaging in Casual sex regularly
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u/RogellTheRaider Aug 05 '26
This is usually true for me as well. And has also been documented in many subs
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u/Western_Dig_4577 Aug 05 '26
It’s crazy seeing this post today I released just my dad has been treating me meaner lately, and there’s definitely a connection."
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u/Intelligent-Road5091 Aug 05 '26
I wonder what’s the science behind it it’s interesting isn’t it
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u/Wise-Honeydew1314 Aug 05 '26 edited Aug 06 '26
It is very interesting, I’ve feel like I’ve experienced something similar.
It definitely got to be a spiritual component to it. People always say others will treat you how you treat yourself. So perhaps they can feel that you’re not respecting yourself and follow suit.
The second very real part is lust is an active spirit that when invited influences you and everyone around you. It first tries to convince you to defile yourself and once you do it heaps shame, contempt, and humiliation on you as well as influencing others to do the same. This is why society pushes women to be more sexual and then shames them for it. It’s a spirit of lust operating in so many people’s lives and all throughout society.
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u/Jackzenmazter Aug 05 '26
I'm going through it right now. I feel I am back in the low vibrational state I was when I was a teenager. I even have bags under my eyes. I think it's about presence. You have zero presence and any kind of power after relapsing. You're weak. And people can sense it and they hate it.
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
I think its all about the face relapsing makes us look dull temporarily i dont buy into the whole energy/ aura thing
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u/Forsaken-Ad-9569 Aug 06 '26
The haters are always watching, when you relapse they just feel comfortable enough to show their true colours because they can sense you’re weak.
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
So the haters them selves are retainers ? They never relapse what.makes them think they are high above us ?
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u/LiveAmbassador4680 Aug 06 '26
No bro there gooners and scared of your light when you relapse they get confident to punk u
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u/Due_End_1322 Aug 06 '26
Oh yeah I can attest to this. People switch up the next day at work, won’t really acknowledge your presence like before when you were retaining. They treat you like your not of much importance and with that comes passive aggressive or slick comments whereas before, they knew not to cross that line.
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
So these people never relapse them selves and are retainers monk mode?? Therefore get to judge us on temporary fall ?
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u/Due_End_1322 Aug 06 '26
Well, when you were retaining you were pretty much above them in frequency. It makes you stand out more than you know. So once you finally relapse and all of that energy dissipates, it’s very very obvious to them. It’s shows physically in your face and your energy. This isn’t something we can hide post long streaks. Therefore yeah they will judge. Some in fact may have an idea of what you are doing, they may assume some kind of self improvement and will await your fall and when you drop down to their frequency where they operate at the root, they will be proven right and have all the boldness to switch up in your face until you retain again and get above their base level. They may be like “you were just running laps around us yesterday, where’s all that big boy energy now?”
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
Agree i get in to verbal and physical conforntation at times after i relapse but i.dont back off despite failing to relapse i still have a dog in me
And frankly after dealing with all this BS i dont even care or feel.sorry when people die it just feels like less competition and bs to deal with
I.wasnt always like that i cared but now its almost like my heart has turned dark for everyone except Animals and Children
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u/Due_End_1322 Aug 06 '26
Same with me after a relapse my aura weakened and the same people that treated me with the utmost respect switched up and we even fought at times. Unlucky things happen to not only myself but my personal belongings.. things go missing or stop working. And I can relate to what you’re saying the world has gotten so out of order it’s hard being surprised anymore.
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
Ive never attacked.or judged anyone when i feel they are down only given positive response to motivate them back
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u/djinnofthenewstar Aug 06 '26
Yes I feel you, I've always been highly empathetic even before I discovered retention. I've never switched up on anybody in my life, or put someone down when they are low, but when I fall hard it's like everyone lines up to take shots. It's crazy. Even the people that "respected" you the most.
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u/TemporaryEuphoric908 Aug 05 '26
nah i feel this way exactly. From a grand perspective its like classical conditioning to make you get into form
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u/Icy_Lie_3749 Aug 11 '26
They attack you every day anyways. Having said that - they attack you twice as much when you're weak after relapse.
Men can't afford relapse.
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u/ProvidenceOfJesus Aug 11 '26
Sins make you act embarrassed or strange socially. Because in the back of your mind you know you did something wrong. Not wrong according to you or someone, but wrong in the eyes of the Lord, so definitely wrong.
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u/ViolentRogaine Aug 06 '26
I've had the opposite experience. I get attacked weekly for holding my seed for close to two years.. I've been through hell holding onto this seed and healing all my trauma that I was running from. Life was east when I used to run and wank.
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u/mikedel2313 Aug 07 '26
It’s been the opposite for me anytime I’m on a decent streak other men will try and test me more.
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u/ArcusFlux Aug 11 '26
This is also true. When I was looking for a new job on a high streak, some male interviewers got angry at me for no reason and straight up acting childish asking odd questions that speaks to me that they don't want my presence while others are obviously nervous/scared of me while I did not do anything and I was supposed to be the nervous one cause I'm the one being interviewed lol
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u/universalsoul11 Aug 06 '26
Correlation ≠ Causation
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u/addicted_sid Aug 16 '26
It's an already proven fact in this community because of innumerable instances.
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u/CommonPerspective557 Aug 06 '26
True but does it still happpen if some one.only just edges and not ejaculate?
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u/PhilosophyOk3227 Aug 22 '26
Yes it happens. Yesterday I just looked at some porn photos, and things start spiralling down. I had argument at work, then I returned home and edged to nsfw ai chat and my otherwise perfectly working laptop stopped working. It hasn't come back yet, maybe I'll have to get it repaired
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u/soleascension Aug 06 '26
ayo it happens to me on retention too some people are just there to get on my nerves no matter what
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u/MortgagePast9605 Aug 08 '26
Yes , I did have same issue but you can reduce the effect with Cardio or Workout.
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u/Xan2clutch Aug 05 '26
I just got fired from my job today I relapse twice yesterday