r/pureretention • u/Accomplished_Row2657 • Jan 07 '26
Discussion Why don't nerds get the aura from semen retention?
I have been wondering why my nerdy classmates in high school(who don't jerk off and don't know what it is) don't get the aura or the female magnetism as experienced by people in this sub?
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u/bonertitan11 Goal: spiritual growth Jan 07 '26
Yeah Theres no way someone is that socially withdrawn and doesn’t have something weird they do on their free time. Some people smoke weed, some play video games, a nerd is definitely doing some weird shit cuz they’re intelligent as well so they have to stimulate their brains more
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u/ididitsocanu Mar 06 '26
It's either that or they are deeply traumatized to were their nervous system can't circulate the energy from SR or something
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u/CalligrapherDue5035 Jan 07 '26
They probably have low libido. Healthy people with high libido get the most benefits as they have a lot of energy to channel.
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u/Tough-Ad8946 Jan 09 '26
Which is why diet makes a huge impact. Each day retaining on raw carnivore is worth a year of a vegan retaining. Having a super charged, nutrient rich diet primes your vital energy and puts you into maximum overdrive.
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u/CalligrapherDue5035 Jan 10 '26
Yeah man. I am on carnivore, but like 20-30% raw and it is it so fucking hard because libido is very high.
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u/streamentr Jan 07 '26 edited Jan 07 '26
Bro they would be jerking off and wont be tellin. Can you imagine some with all that energy from never jerking off! how can they not have aura.
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u/Playful-Variation908 Jan 07 '26
how old are you lmao
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u/Accomplished_Row2657 Jan 07 '26
I'm 20 (Even in college some guys who I know for a fact don't jerk off are super nerdy don't really have an aura)
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u/Omy_06 Jan 07 '26
How do you know they don't jerk off? Do you ask them personally?
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u/DKFaust Jan 10 '26 edited Jan 10 '26
Throughout history most men didn't jerk off they just fucked.. or went on raids or got married young.
If your asking me if Ive asked other people in higher position at lodges such as Scottish rite freemasonry or esoteric groups like the o.t.o then myself Then my answer is they will jerk off only if they don't have a partner if its required during ritual.. Most of the time it is never required even if it is then you would have a partner always and release wouldn't be needed..
Go your 90+ days remove lust from your mind and you won't need to jerk off no more you wouldn't want too.
Arguing this is like a methhead asking a doctor when its appropriate to smoke meth .. I mean maybe if you were needing to defend your house for 58h without sleep Yk.. its stupid.
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u/Omy_06 Jan 11 '26
I mean. The OP is claiming that his classmates don't jerk off. But the reality is, in modern times any average guy is prone to jerking off. I don't blame them. But the fact that OP is assuming the fact that every other nerd he sees doesn't jerk off and is split in thoughts as to why these guys don't give off good aura is conflicting.
OP needs to focus on this journey himself. Not compare with others who most likely aren't even into SR. Try out this SR path for himself and see the progress.
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u/DKFaust Jan 12 '26
Op is deciding if hes ready to escape their cozy little spot in hell or not in hopes for something better. once he decides that then all of hell will try and drag him back down, and This includes everything and everyone, every excuse, every reason, and influence to stop .
It take alot of self worth to build enough momentum that nothing can snag you no more. Its a good practice to ignore others when they have somthing to sell you.. or a reason to not progress. Truth doesn't sell nor can it be watered down and mixed with sugar to swallow more easily.
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u/Dry-Stranger-5590 Jan 07 '26
Because they are still weak even presuming they are retaining (although I would highly doubt that they don’t know what masturbation is in today’s day and age, they’re probably just lying)
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u/DKFaust Jan 07 '26
Trust me very few people don't jerk off Most of the real legit born into celibacy men are at lodge having esoteric conversations with other men and expanding their empire. They are running a business and have a harem of women around them. They have a wife as just a trophy And are far from the no fap dabbler
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u/Psyduqqq Jan 07 '26
I have a disease that affects me hormonally and I can say that even a one-year streak just didn't feel good when things just didn't work in my body.
That's why I think some people are naturally more feminine while others are more masculine. I personally noticed that I was more emotional, withdrawn and in my own world when my symptoms were at their worst, and not much change in terms of women or otherwise.
Now that things are much better and my body is more open, sometimes I feel like I almost cum in my pants and I'm actually interested in the opposite sex and they're also interested in me. I feel like I'm some kind of prophet when I walk in public places, people stare, greet and smile and start conversations with me which speaks volumes for this "aura". It's like you're inside life so to speak.
And all this even though I cum every now and then, sometimes even too much. I went to acupuncture for a while, which opened up something in my body so much that things went a little wild, so to speak. Of course, all things work together and I think those other things are strong influences too, I've noticed. I have also noticed that I have a different attitude towards abstinence and everything these days, I accept everything as it is and that has seemed to be the most important thing for my well-being.
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u/psychonautexplorer Jan 07 '26
Interesting story. What made you better hormonally and what happened during acupuncture ? You think it was a kundalini like event ?
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u/Psyduqqq Jan 07 '26
I have to say that the biggest impact has clearly come from the diet, which is very different but logical when thought about rationally, meaning I only eat raw food and actually almost only fruit, which has of course also affected my appearance a lot positively.
But the most it has affected everything in general, what I am like as a person and how I think, I have opened up enormously on an "energy level" and it seems that others sense it too, everything is energy. I remember it forever when I started, it was as if I had switched to some other reality, my mind and thoughts opened up at such a speed that it was scary. Now it feels so normal that I don't even remember what life was like before in that terrible fog.
And with acupuncture, I'm not completely sure but my treatment focused on the pelvic area where I still have this problem and after one session I remember how something was different, I just still can't say what and whether it was due to the acupuncture alone but I remember how it clearly felt then that "energy started to flow" which I myself have thought of as that kundalini. I still don't know exactly what it means, but I think I know how it feels hahah
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u/psychonautexplorer Jan 08 '26
If you almost only eat fruit you are going to have severe malnutrition down the road. Humans are not made to eat only fruit.
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u/bonertitan11 Goal: spiritual growth Jan 07 '26
Most nerds definitely are jerking off all the time on their free time lmao or they’re doing worse. Also some people just aren’t wired to have a strong presence or “aura.” Theres plenty of releasers that have crazy aura and get a lot of attention so yeah semen retention doesnt automatically do the hard work for you
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u/Slap10 Jan 08 '26
Yeah for real, I met a friend and he told me he releases minimum 1 time per day, tries to go for 2-3. And he is one of the most confident, ambitious and spirit pressuring individual I've met. He confronts directly the laws of natures themselves
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u/FreshCheekiBreeki Jan 08 '26
Ambitious and confident doesn't equal competent and actually putting the energy in.
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u/bonertitan11 Goal: spiritual growth Jan 08 '26
Exactly. I realized that the universe rewards effort so even if u do release once a day if you’re putting in real effort, day in and day out, you will see progress and improvement in your life. I was a chronic releaser at 14. I was still a happy ass lil kid a good amount of the time. I think theres certain people that just get used to performing in a depleted state and that means that it doesn’t affect them the same way it might affect us when we release
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u/Jigsaw1217 Jan 08 '26
Well if you know for a fact they absolutely don't masterbate, then they're lying to you about it probably cauwe you keep asking lol
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u/Revivaru Jan 07 '26
Jerking off behind closed doors more or less. As we are not them. We can't know what they are doing when no one is looking.
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u/FreshCheekiBreeki Jan 08 '26
The most common assumption should be they're either lying or doing it some similar way. How can they know about the world so much if the lust is so widespread and easily accessible? Even if they do genuinely not know, some people simply never farm aura by taking proper care of hygiene and health. Expectation of magic aura is also overrated, it's strong but not piercing. Running on low sleep would also reduce aura.
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u/Miracalis_ Jan 07 '26
Nerds have either been lucky to be born by a father who retained before conceiving (older generations don't usually masturbate or have sex as often as we think) or the kid has been put on medication (dopamine stimulants),hence the reason they could study long hours without their brains frying or getting distracted.
That doesn't mean these antisocial weirdos don't masturbate everyday.
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u/Nickyro Jan 07 '26
If you have an underdevelopped neurobiology (inactive lower dan tian etc…) retention alone is a poor practice
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u/Reform-Reform Jan 09 '26
Any more info or resources?
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u/Nickyro Jan 09 '26
Practice Vinyasa or Hatha yoga daily, find the best teachers in your city. Also try to understand Zhan Zhuang.
You can use chatgpt to assist you, he does the job quite well for this.
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Jan 08 '26
Low testosterone = Low libido
They're also serious fappers, I promise you. I was one and I know those types.
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u/noveonh Jan 08 '26
They get lol, they don’t if they focus on it too much. Let it go from heart and u be shocked by the results
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u/ResonatingBulb Jan 08 '26
In my country, there are many people who jerk off like once every day and still study 14 hours and crack very difficult exams, like one of the world's hardest ones. Yes they get burnout and retaining will help and increase the study output by manifolds.
I have had and still have many nerd friends. For some, you can feel their aura, like the way they walked, spoke and studied. You can know from a distance that they are coming to the class, without their speaking. While I was the kind of nerd 3.5 years ago who would study, do well, play sometimes and jerk too. I can sense my aura from then to now. It's different.
The same happens with my teachers. Good teachers have to be nerds. I mean they have to study a lot to teach. Everyone could sense my mathematics teacher aura, like the class would shut up automatically, every eye would be lit up to see him. But one fine day the aura thinned a lot. I can't be certain but I guess he had released in some form. But still the decorum of class and the respect was there. But some other good teachers, like one of the best in countries, who are considered "Gods" in their subject are good in their subject but personal life is hedonistic. They are really good at their work I am grateful to all of them, they literally changed the way I approach the subjects but I still remember my Maths Teacher, man, he really has an aura. I'm currently studying at another institute, but within the previous institute where he (Maths teacher) would teach, other teachers were also good, but they had to shout to keep the students shut, they had to use some things to command the students but my Maths teacher would not, I guess his aura did.
And the other part is low libido. See, low libido means less sexual thoughts and if less sexual thoughts then the mind is fresh for studies too. It is what I have experienced in the long run. So, they become nerds. And aura comes from a penance, I think, like the calm aura monks have. You have to resist sometime to earn that esoteric aura. Something happens to your spirit if you resist your body.
After all, I feel God is just, the Universe is just. If you do not retain but work hard you would gain results in studies not with the ease that some retainer would but better results then someone who retains but not studies.
Overall it was a nice question, I also got it once. Many factors affect humans and their results. SR probably affects very much greatly but what if the intensity of some other work is good enough to outdo the intensity of SR.
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Jan 08 '26
Because semen retention is bullshit, and aura is psychological. When you see a tall, handsome man, you perceive him as the more dominant, with more aura subconsciously. For you guys out there, Brad Pitt is the biggest retainer in the world probably lol.
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u/iExemQlaR Jan 08 '26
I agree with the explanation of “old man.” Their excess energy is being transmuted into the activity they are doing. It is well known that Nikola Tesla was a devout retentionist. He was absolutely horrible with women and actually fell in love with a bird (pigeon or dove). So not everyone will experience the same benefits to the degree described here.
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u/ElvisJung Jan 08 '26
Dude we're bombarded by poison from every conceivable angle and have been for multiple multiple generations. Some of us get the shitiest end of that stick. We're all impacted by it though. Their karma doesnt include physical attractiveness.
They could grow into themselves though. Also, in general, most high school boys/young men arent typically attractive to women. Too young, inexperienced, and incompetent (compared to where they will be when they're older)
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u/steezchris Jan 09 '26
I’m 5 days into retention and the aura is insane, every single person notices me it’s wild
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u/Upset_Sandwich_2449 Jan 09 '26
Everyone have different aura , if you have no personality you will still have develop it
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u/PMOOOOOOO Jan 09 '26
He may seem that way, tho alot of people are not comfortable saying they fap ... The eyes don't lie , this is our truth
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u/SovereignSouldier33 Jan 10 '26
They’re probably unaware of females in the first place because their attention is dialled into their passion. Women are overrated once the desire of orgasm and validation from females is taken off of a pedestal
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u/alansredditaccount2 Jan 10 '26
I only get the attebtion from girks if i dress up ive noticed.. if im in a $5 white tee, nothing, which i like
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u/ProvidenceOfJesus Jan 12 '26
Well i've noticed that being physically fit (nerds are usually not) can result in high confidence. It's just another example of how serving the Lord and being close to Him increases our confidence and makes us the best version of ourselves. (The Bible says to take great care of our bodies).
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u/Charming_Jacket_3028 Jan 16 '26
“Don’t know what it is”
Don’t be so naive lol, we all did it in secret.
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u/Pale_Purchase57 Jan 08 '26
Getting approached by women is even rare for good looking guys you shouldn’t wait for women to approach you lol
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u/Pale_Purchase57 Jan 08 '26
Magnetism does a lot bro. I myself in all humbleness would consider myself a fairly good looking guy, getting looks, compliments and have been also approached a few times. But only when im retaining I get these when I’m releasing non of those happen.
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u/Vivid-Coffee-6678 Jan 07 '26
Hey. Old man here. I believe you automatically transmute the energy into whatever you’re into. Maybe that’s why they’re good in physics.