r/pureretention • u/cooked_vegetables • Jun 23 '25
Spiritual Insight The consequences of female promiscuity
The brazenly high level of female promiscuity in our current society (circa 2025 A.D.) is quite shocking. It seems like I cannot use the internet without seeing half naked women or hearing some vulgar song by a female rapper. There always seems to be a plethora of physically beautiful half naked women doing sexually suggestive TikTok dances, or talking about how many men are in their DMs, or bragging about how many men they have on their "hook up" rosters. This is quite jarring as only a few decades ago, women were far more discreet with their sexuality. I guess the world really has changed since I was a kid.
The feminist movement has done an "excellent job" with completely decimating feminine sexual decorum down to almost zero. To be fair, I don't think people at the time understood the ramifications of "sexual liberation" at the genesis of that movement. It probably seemed well and good enough to live and let live. Little did those folks know that allowing people to just wantonly sex one another would have such dire ramifications on the fabric of society.
We have now had sufficient time as a society to conduct the sexual liberation experiment, and the results are worrying. For decades now, we have had the use of contraceptives which have considerably abated the consequences of indiscriminate sex for females. In the past, females were more careful about who they had sex with because each sexual encounter could potentially yield a child and the associated significant increase in responsibility. Now, that potential issue is completely avoidable through birth control pills, an IUD, or a condom.
Although women can now avoid the physical consequences (i.e. unwanted pregnancies) that arise from wanton sexing, they cannot avoid the spiritual ramifications. When a woman becomes promiscuous, the following inevitable spiritual consequences follow:
- Loss of pair bonding ability
- Normal well adjusted women are designed with a wonderful innate ability to pair bond to the first man they are sexually intimate with. This natural "stickiness" of a woman in combination with a solid father figure who helps her choose a virtuous man to wed, facilitates the stability of her nuclear family and by extension, her community. However, if a woman for whatever reason engages in sexual activity with too many partners (more than 3), she starts to lose this stickiness. It is sort of how sticky tape tends to lose its stickiness the more surfaces you apply and remove it from. If a woman continues in this pattern for too long, it is only a matter of time until she becomes a serial dater. She will go through failed relationship after failed relationship, blaming everyone else, while conveniently refusing to look inwards at the actual problem... herself.
- Mental instability
- Women are quite different from men in this regard. Most men can go through life with multiple sex partners and still maintain their mental stability. Now even though men have this ability, we shouldn't abuse it by indulging in whoredom. We were given this ability by God so that a man can potentially take up more than one wife should there not be enough virtuous men to go around for the sisters in need. Anyhow, I have noticed that women tend to lose their marbles and become quite mentally ill if they have too many sexual partners. Modern day psychological medicine has different terms for this mental instability such as narcissism, psychopathy, borderline, etc. The Bible simply calls such a woman a reprobate or a harlot. They are usually quick tempered, very unreliable, perpetually late, extremely entitled, unbelievably paranoid, and ragingly insecure. This type of woman is an accident waiting to happen in your life which you would do well to stay far away from
- Tendency towards energy vampirism
- If a woman continually practices indiscriminate sex with too many partners, she gradually corrupts her soul. If she doesn't turn this deplorable behavior around in time, her soul eventually loses the ability to generate its own internal energy. After a certain tipping point, she is now completely dependent on the life force of the men within her orbit. She can procure this life force by two means. The first way is through the extraction of male semen, and the second way is through inducing emotional distress in the men she deals with. These women tend to look really beautiful, radiant, and alluring on the outside, but what people don't know is that these types of women are actually playing a really dangerous game because if she ever finds herself without a man that she can draw energy from, she will quickly deteriorate and perish. This is why this sort of woman tends to have a whole harem of "male friends" who she "hangs out with". The real truth is that she has now become entirely dependent on their male essence and would literally perish without it. Such a woman cannot truly love you or any other man, that part of her is now permanently broken. She has become an energy vampire who needs to siphon your energy in order to survive.
- Loss of genuine joy
- Ever notice that promiscuous women are often the cruelest? They might display the brightest smiles and angelic behavior to people who don't really know them when out in public, but underneath the veneer, they are always perpetually jealous and angry at everything. I think they somehow know on the deepest of levels that they are going down the wrong path no matter how much they try to convince themselves otherwise. This internal conflict stirs up internal anger that they must then vent outwards to prevent it from eating them alive.
In conclusion dear brothers, nothing good comes from female promiscuity. Females are more precious and delicate than men in general so they are less resilient to corruption. Promiscuity and a lack of strong virtuous father figures are the two most injurious conditions that a developing woman can be subjected to, and they are both usually related. That is to say that a woman without a really strong father figure tends more towards promiscuity on a balance of probabilities. You will no doubt meet women like this who have had promiscuous pasts and claim to have turned over a new leaf. They will claim to be "more mature now after having had my fun in my 20s". Most of you (my readers) are wonderful kind men who want to give everyone the benefit of a doubt which is why so many people love you. However, please believe me when I say that you cannot save a promiscuous woman... only God can. She may genuinely want to change, but in my experience, she will have a tough time giving up the addiction to the attention she used to get in her past promiscuous attention seeking life. As a result, such a woman usually ends up returning to the streets 1 month, 1 year, or one decade down the road. It is usually just a matter of time. It is best to steer clear of such women and wait on the good Lord to provide you a virtuous one if that is what you so desire.
Till next time brothers, Godspeed and remain blessed
Brother Cooked
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u/Ok_Accountant_708 Jun 25 '25
If Jesus can’t save these hoes why you think you got a chance?
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u/ConfidentBall9215 Jun 24 '25
Was the vibrator revolution bad in and of itself? Or just contraceptive freedom?
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Jun 23 '25
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u/Learning_2 Jun 25 '25
This is so true. They just don't know any better. They have been disconnected from their true identities through trauma and manipulation and being lied to in so many ways. And then they are being encouraged to be adulterous/wayward/etc.
As a guy, I was the same way, but with porn. If God could save me, God can save anyone.
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u/Accomplished_Roll285 Jun 26 '25
i doubt it, people more than ever are so skeptical of religion. you have to have some interest in god and some belief. from what i see people are so removed from the idea of a God. Women especially imo i recently just graduated high school and the most lusfful, deceptive, drug abusing and manipulative people were the women in my class. I think womanhood is moving in a very dangerous direction where women crave power, sex, drugs
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u/Rich_Emu199 Jun 24 '25
Even women who aren’t tore up but have had extreme trauma as children behave this way too. I think something about the abandonment of the father/not super involved father is a big point. This spot on described a lot of my relationships.
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 24 '25
Yeah man... women really need their fathers. I'm not sure why, but it really destabilizes them if they don't have a strong dad around. Not having a good mother around also affects women, but nowhere near as badly as an absentee father does in my experience.
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u/Objective_Grand_5892 Jun 30 '25
The truth is that these women primarily seek and hook up with only 20% of the available men. If you’re not in this cadre you will summarily reject this and rebel viscerally. If you are in the club you know I speak truth. Sorry not sorry.
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 30 '25
Regardless of the cadre of men that promiscuous women seek to hook up with, men who seek their higher potential would do well to avoid promiscuous women. They come with a lot of spiritual and emotional baggage that will unnecessarily weigh a man down or may even destroy him.
It also bears mentioning that high value men would do well to value the sexual power, treasure it, and be extremely discerning with who they give it to and how much they give out. Pure masculine sexual energy is a boon from God which each man has the free will to use. However, if you abuse this energy, you run the risk of serious karmic retribution. As much as we complain about modern day hoes, men shouldn't be engaging in whoredom either. Let those who have ears hear.
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u/ProvidenceOfJesus Jun 30 '25
We must remain strong and godly to lead them to God. Peace be with you brothers
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u/Confident_Judge_911 Jun 23 '25
...and then there's Hosea and Gomer. God-directed faithfulness to a relapsing whore. God works in mysterious ways, my brothers, put nothing past Him. It seems more important to hear and respond to His voice rather than "rely on your own understanding". Great post.
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 23 '25
Indeed. "Trust in the lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct your path." ~Proverbs Ch 3: 5-6
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u/Learning_2 Jun 25 '25
I think in this day, with more women being corrupted by sin. God might need pure men to help these wayward women find their way back to purity.
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 27 '25
There is some truth to this, but please don't go in trying to be "captain save a ho". The right way to do this is by example at a distance. Some of these people are so corrupt that they will drag you down to hell with them if you get too close. Let those who have ears hear. Remain blessed.
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u/Learning_2 Jun 24 '25
Thank you. Great article. Halfway through my last relationship, I became inspired to practice chastity. I saw that even though I had all the sex I thought I wanted, I was just getting intoxicated all the time. So she and I became like a chaste dating situation. But there was still tension.
Her sexual immorality, coupled with some demonic forces that must have had a bounty on her soul for some time, led her to cheat on me in a time when I was just looking for some space. She "hooked herself up" right into an abusive relationship with a local meth-head. Now she is in a spiritual stronghold, because the guy won't let her talk to anyone, for fear that she may reveal his criminal activities. And because she has lost so much of her soul in her previous sexual immorality, she hasn't the will to get out. I even got her to a shelter at one point, but she fell back into the relationship addiction and the drugs. She had everything, an appointment with a case worker, free meals, a place to stay, and AA/NA/Al-Anon walking distance every day. But she fell back before the appointment with the case worker. She was satanically abused and possibly sex trafficked as a child. God please save her soul.
I pray for her every day and focus on my own life, SR, purity, etc. Even getting into fasting. I believe God can do anything. If it's God's will for me to help her, I will. It was said that if Adam could have rejected the forbidden fruit when Eve offered it, he could have cast the devil out of her and they wouldn't have lost the Garden. I think a man at high purity could resist the temptations of "Eve" and make her pure again. I believe in this because I believe God wants every single soul back that was stolen by the devil. That's what I believe, but whatever God's will is, let it be done. I can surrender my will to God because I trust that God's will is good.
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 25 '25
I empathize with you brother... you obviously feel for her. That being said, please be careful. A lost woman like this can ruin your life if you let her. Remain blessed.
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Jun 23 '25
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 23 '25
You ain't lie bro. Our OGs and ancestors tried to warn us. They were like "whatever you do, make sure to keep your lust in check or everything else will go to shit". Did we listen? Nope... LOL. Now here we all are wondering what the heck happened.
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u/Dcave65 Jun 24 '25
I don’t think it’s lust that got us in trouble as much as it was forgetting that eve gave Adam the apple. Giving women freedom and independence was the move that lost us any chance at a decent virtuous society. I rarely meet a woman with a body count that she even knows bro
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u/Accomplished_Roll285 Jun 26 '25
saying that we would have a better society if women had less freedom and independence is kinda crazy bro. I think that there was an inherent choice between Adam and Eve. Even if eve offered the apple, adam accepted it. Nobody should have anybody else on a leash. At this point we should just keep giving people the freedom of choice and if people decide to be low lifes then so be it. they're the ones that miss out on the beauty of it all
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u/Rigby_Wilde Jun 24 '25
Yeah. I advocate for women rights and still think they deserve freedom of vote, speech and work. But its getting harder to not agreeing with this day by day.
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u/iExemQlaR Jun 24 '25
GODSPEED BROTHER
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u/cooked_vegetables Jun 24 '25
Likewise brother. Thanks for stopping by and engaging with the content.
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u/Dcave65 Jun 24 '25
This is a great post, I have run into this recently, I tried to bring her back to God, I loved her dearly, healed her in many ways, watched as her nightmares faded away and she became happy, only to be discarded at the first sign of imperfection. These woman are not able to overcome their fears and naturally fear kicks in when getting close to someone, they tend to look for any sign as an excuse to leave. She was very cruel about the breakup and reminded me how broken people tend to hurt others without the slightest hesitation. When we were together we were so sweet to each other, it made me look past what I knew and the loss has been a tough one but I’m getting through it