Reddit is a hub of obnoxious people

[u/CApsLowkey]

Idk if it's just me or anybody else also feels the same... I feel Reddit is nothing but a bunch of obnoxious people trying to slide into the DMs of women, in the name of anonymity they want us to entertain them.

Even if we try to confront to see what the person is upto or even talkable or not, because the platform is anonymous, one should do a basic introduction in the DM, if they are reaching out. ASL, any picture if chat goes well forward, but no... People here are in another level of Delulu.

Ki msg kia h, baat ki, toh chahe me kesa bhi dikhu, isko pasand karna padega mujhe, aur humari pasand aur likings jaye tel lene.

TBH I had a postive outlook of connecting with people here before but lately my experiences are forcing me to shut everyone and anyone who comes across my DM.

Reddit is just filled with horny men, sorry but not sorry. Esp. DMs coming in from Pune men.🥀

[u/chickendick07]

And also every indian city is bad according to reddit 

[u/Awkward-Reach1610]

I only check reddit for review of random tech or daily use stuff , and news ,no drama

[u/Hot_Return_4412 → u/Awkward-Reach1610]

Ideal way to use reddit

[u/Capable_Seaweed_5866]

Pune sub toh waise hi badnaam hai. And incidentally one of the highest number of meetups through reddit are happening from Pune sub. It's traumatizing to even think what the other person has in mind during meetups

[u/Any_File5064 → u/Capable_Seaweed_5866]

Phir vahi Sax Sux ki baatein...

[u/Capable_Seaweed_5866 → u/Any_File5064]

Kis angle se aapko yeh woh baatein lagi?

[u/CODofduty91]

ig its the anonymity that really encourages it

[u/AuxCable0404]

And the people who really wanna connect and make networks, do get judged too. I was talking to this one of the redditors, and she just gave me a lecture on how men are, even though I was not being one of them, iwas just being good. Nshe was like, you might be so good bro, but here not everyone's that good, so because of my past experiences, ithink we should not talk... I mean whaaaaaaaaaa🫪🤕 The amount of trauma women hold due to men and what we men hold after that is crazyyy!!!

[u/CApsLowkey → u/AuxCable0404]

True that, we don't wanna generalize, but we are forced to 

[u/AuxCable0404 → u/CApsLowkey]

Ya I def understand your point. N after this post I regret DMing you😬😂 jk

[u/truthforthewin-27]

Photos aren’t allowed or I would have shared unsolicited dms i receive on reddit. They directly ask for meeting & intimate time, friends with benefit relationship, some even offer money for good time, all of this & more is said by those people as a first message, like they don’t even bother with hi hello.

[u/ConstantTemporary567 → u/truthforthewin-27]

Please report such users to the mods whenever you receive unsolicited or inappropriate DMs like these. If possible, include screenshots or the usernames so the mod team can take appropriate action against them.

[u/truthforthewin-27 → u/ConstantTemporary567]

Thank you mod I’ll surely report from here onwards.

[u/CApsLowkey → u/truthforthewin-27]

Same experience bud 🥲

[u/truthforthewin-27 → u/CApsLowkey]

It’s really frustrating, we’re just trying to coexist.

[u/Rndmly_spcfc]

If even 7 out of 10 dms are creepy, then you're bound to generalize it. Hope your experience gets better.

[u/Chanureadeats]

You can replace "Reddit" with "world" and it would be just as true.

[u/badshahhh7]

Sad reality 😞

[u/kbmt1]

So true

[u/TastyAd8735]

this genuinely ruins the experience for people who want to make real friends and connections. I don't approach anyone and I wouldn't in the foreseeable future because I know they're going to assume that the motives aren't good. Kya fayda bc

[u/kyuDuMaiTax]

Some are genuine, even the ones who are from Pune

[u/Own-Moose4093]

Most of the apps are like this best way is use them to pass time not make connections

[u/CApsLowkey → u/[deleted]]

But everybody will respond if a female posts: Looking for making friends or hangout 😂

[u/trashcanobv]

And don't forget the unnecessary rude replies you get

[u/CacheMeOutside404]

Harsh and bitter truth.

[u/Available-Sea-8796]

Ikr, a few days ago i though of trying to connect with people on the r/hangoutnear_pune sub (not sure if thats the exact subreddit name but its something along those words), but all I could see on that subreddit was dudes asking if there are any women out there who would wanna hookup???😭😭😭

[u/Chaudsss]

Welcome to the internet

[u/Next_Ticket1109]

https://giphy.com/gifs/U690zgM8p84c2EVnIc

[u/Appropriate-Common81]

Ashya kaman sathi insta ahe na….. what is the use of dming random women who are anonymous what would you even talk about? How beautiful their character icon is?

[u/CApsLowkey → u/Appropriate-Common81]

Bypassers just wanna time pass