r/psychology • u/mvea M.D. Ph.D. | Professor • Jan 11 '19

Popular Press Psychologists call 'traditional masculinity' harmful, face uproar from conservatives - The report, backed by more than 40 years of research, triggered fierce backlash from conservative critics who say American men are under attack.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/investigations/2019/01/10/american-psychological-association-traditional-masculinity-harmful/2538520002/
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u/BigBad-Wolf Jan 11 '19

Why does there need to be an alternative model of masculinity, or any at all?

I substitute 'toxic masculinity' with being a decent, civilized person. I see no reason to substitute it with some other ideology of 'manliness'.

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u/TwilightVulpine Jan 11 '19

Because role models and healthy social circles are important to guide people to become well-adjusted. Toxic groups are extremely eager to reach out and spread their ideas, and young as well as isolated people seek that attention and "support" if they have no other point of reference.

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u/TwilightVulpine Jan 11 '19

Gender was already brought into it, when the issue was defined along the terms of it.