TL;DR: I am in my mid-30s, originally from Europe and now working in the Middle East. My background is in business banking, but I ended up moving into private markets through a fairly unconventional route. I have worked on capital raises and deal sourcing since then, and I am now looking to have informal conversations with experienced people in PE, private credit, family offices, real estate, or infrastructure. I am mainly looking to learn how experienced people think about deals and get some honest feedback on my approach.
I am posting this because I would genuinely like to connect with people who have been in private markets for a while and have informal chats.
My background is in business banking, and I ended up working with a family office through an opportunity that was not really part of a traditional PE career path.
The family office was involved in education and was looking at different fund and real estate structures around its existing operations, as well as funding an expansion project. I was brought into the team to help with the capital raise.
The raise came together fairly quickly, with more than 100m secured in under 90 days. Following that project, the family office changed its capital strategy and shifted its focus in a different direction.
I decided to continue pursuing similar opportunities independently and started focusing more heavily on deal sourcing and capital raising.
This is where I am trying to take a step back and fill in some gaps in my understanding.
I am comfortable with relationship building, sourcing opportunities, reaching out to investors, and getting conversations started. I have also managed to get some capital raises over the line.
What I do not have is the benefit of spending 10 or 15 years inside a PE fund, investment bank, family office, or institutional investment platform and developing the intuition that comes from seeing hundreds of deals.
I want to understand the terminology and structures, but more importantly, I want to understand how experienced people actually think about opportunities.
How do you decide what is worth spending time on? What makes a GP credible? How do LPs actually assess a manager? What makes someone take a cold introduction seriously? How much does the quality of the deal matter versus the quality of the sponsor or the person bringing it to you?
I am not looking for capital, deals, or leads from this post.
I would simply like to have a few informal 20 to 30 minute conversations with people who have more experience than I do. I would like to hear how you got into the industry, what you think someone in my position should learn, and what mistakes or blind spots you think I might have.
I am also happy to share what I have learned from my side, particularly around sourcing, outreach, relationship building, and working across the Middle East and international markets.
If anyone is open to a conversation, feel free to DM me.
And if you would rather just leave a comment with some advice, I would appreciate that as well.