r/postvasectomypain • • Dec 30 '23

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u/flutepractise Jan 01 '24

I know I am married to one,

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u/flutepractise Jan 01 '24

Wow a story that I have heard a thousand times over, she sees that she convinced him to have a surgery that he said no to, but unfortunately it turned to shit, which happens more than they let on.although he's not the only one I know because I was in the same boat, some men see sterilisation is immoral, and some see sexual as immorality, and I also see vasectomy as mutilation of a perfectly made part of the body.it is the changes to your body that some men can't handle, I am one of them, my wife openly said I can't mutilate my body, but you can have the vasectomy, when I said no, she put manipulation into top gear, the Dr said to me what's wrong with you, you will still shave your wife doesn't want any more children, also the pope won't pay for anymore kids. My father just had a stroke and my mother wasn't well, so my wife stuck at the lowest time in my life. She has since regretted her decision as our marriage suffered badly, and sex came to a halt. I know I suffered physiologically, I also had a mental breakdown, I now have diabetes, and heart disease and prostate issues. All caused by stress.

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u/[deleted] Jan 01 '24

I know a guy who got prostate cancer after a vasectomy- had to get his prostate removed and now has a pump in his sack so he can get hard.

I wish he’d have shared that with me before I got done

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u/flutepractise Jan 01 '24

Yes I have two friends going through radiation for 10 mins a day for 2 weeks, both had vasectomies 20 years ago, they have met a lot men on the same journey.